Long Distance Problems

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Long Distance Problems 2016-09-16 08:55:43 Post No. 17573560
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Long Distance Problems Anonymous 2016-09-16 08:55:43 Post No. 17573560 [Report]

Hey /adv/, I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl I met during my travels in June. she only lives 500 miles away but in a different country. Last time I saw her was 2 weeks ago. She's madly in love with me (though I don't feel as intensely). I'm a guarded person and tend to always look out for betrayal.

She's expressed to me that she needs alot of affection generally. And also that she is not morally opposed to the idea of an open relationship. Though assures me she has no desire for one now. But told me she was hurt at my reaction when it came up once because of my tone sounded like it made her a bad person for ever being willing to have one.

I'm also the first man to give her an orgasm at age 25. And recently bought her a toy. But I don't like taking nudes and I don't masturbate so phone sex is out of the question though she's asked. I want to trust her but I don't know if I should and hope for the best or just call it preemptively to protect myself.

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:06:36 Post No.17573576
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:06:36 Post No.17573576 [Report]

>>17573560
I'd be guarded too if I was in an LDR (always difficult to begin with) with someone who's talking about an open relationship not even four months into the relationship. I can sympathize anon.

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:08:27 Post No.17573580
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:08:27 Post No.17573580 [Report]

>>17573560
You wanna ditch her and find a girl close to home.

LDR + needs affection is already doomed to fail and you have the extra of her wanting an open relationship.

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:13:24 Post No.17573588
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:13:24 Post No.17573588 [Report]

>>17573580
She assures me she does not want an open relationship at all, just that she's not morally opposed to the idea as she was in one before with a guy she wasn't in love with that ended predictably.

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:15:04 Post No.17573593
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:15:04 Post No.17573593 [Report]

>>17573588
What ever you want to believe man

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:19:41 Post No.17573603
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:19:41 Post No.17573603 [Report]

>>17573593
Didn't say I believed it, just what she assures me. She's super in love, I'm just confused.

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:23:11 Post No.17573606
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:23:11 Post No.17573606 [Report]

>>17573560
open + honest communication from both sides.

If you cannot trust her then it will not work out. Also, if you cannot trust her, examine why that is; is it because of her or because of you?

t. serial LDR haver

Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:54:43 Post No.17573650
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Anonymous 2016-09-16 09:54:43 Post No.17573650 [Report]

>>17573560
>say no
>fuck other girls anyways
>????
>LIE ABOUT IT

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