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Is she avoiding me? 2016-09-12 18:21:44 Post No. 17560973
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Is she avoiding me? Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:21:44 Post No. 17560973 [Report]

>be me
>leaving for school in seattle in 10 days, want some puss
>meet ideal waifu on tinder, also leaving for portland same day
>we basically become a couple for 4 days
>dont ask to hang for a couple days to avoid seeming clingy
>she doesnt ask either
>I ask on third day, she says she might be busy
>is stressing over packing (understandable)
>doesnt confirm next day
>3 days left till we leave
>want to see her
>care more than I should

So am I overthinking it or is she avoiding me? I really like this girl adv, I even plan on asking her for an LDR, although I know she'll decline. It just kinda hurts because we had a genuine connection and she seems to have lost interest. Ultimately its just a 10 day fling but I let myself get too attatched and now its come back to bite me in the ass.

Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:23:51 Post No.17560983
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:23:51 Post No.17560983 [Report]

Oh , forgot to mention we fucked twice. Sex was great too.

Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:26:30 Post No.17560993
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:26:30 Post No.17560993 [Report]

LDR's usually don't work anon, just letting you know.

My guess is she was feeling you and had a lot of passion but then soon felt insecure because you didn't talk to her for a couple of days. She probably assumed you found someone else.

Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:32:42 Post No.17561009
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:32:42 Post No.17561009 [Report]

One last piece of context, she was talking about visiting me, which tells me her feeling are or were as strong as mine.

>>17560993
I know they dont work, but I like her too much to not try y'know?

Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:33:25 Post No.17561010
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:33:25 Post No.17561010 [Report]

I am done with this thread, fag keeps adding new shit every post. Fuck this.

Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:36:50 Post No.17561020
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:36:50 Post No.17561020 [Report]

>>17561009

She might have genuinely believed she was going to visit, and then rethink it.

Given your situations... there's really no future, Anon. Sorry.

Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:57:23 Post No.17561080
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 18:57:23 Post No.17561080 [Report]

>>17560973

Just message her and say, "Hey, I'd really like to see you before we go. I really like spending time with you, so would you want to meet up <free time here>?"

Anonymous 2016-09-12 19:32:17 Post No.17561206
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Anonymous 2016-09-12 19:32:17 Post No.17561206 [Report]

>>17561020
BOI I WONT GIVE UP TILL THE BITTER END, WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK I AM

>>17561010
Triggered?

>>17561080
Seems like decent advice