I dont know whats wrong with me but clearly somethings wrong with me.
I talk to girls all the time and I even go on dates
but everything just dies like a small withering flame or they designate me as only a friend from the get go.
it hurts
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>>17558843
You might have depression. Work on that first.
Otherwise, you sound kind of beta. Have some more confidence. The fact that you've been on dates means something about you is attractive. Don't worry so much.
>>17558848
I feel like im on different level of communication with girls
just the most basic things become awkward in a very imperfect way when they shouldnt be awkward/feel like something im being judged on
girls show me that theyre interested in me initially but it feels like im just not saying the right things
like I know that if I was some sort of charisma man this would be no problem but im not
sometimes I feel like I talk to much or talk to little or just cant say some real wow shit or get the girl talking about her self
I would love it if a girl could carry the conversation a bit but I have either yet to find a chatty girl interested in me or I just dont make chatty girls want to be chatty
>>17558901
You need to get some confidence from somewhere, that's what you need.
I know because i was like that when I was younger.
You need to realise that if you fuck up once it's not the end of the world and there are metric tons of women out there.
>>17558922
it hasnt been once
its been ever relationship with a girl for my entire life
I dont really "fuck up" its always just little things I could of done otherwise