Like mother like daughter?

>>17553579
I would be worried because for all you know, they tell people those men "treated them badly" so that they can justify their cheating.

Its not to say they are lying but there are two sides to everything. In any case if they continue to get with men who are no good for them only to cheat on them later they aren't any better.

Sometimes people are really bad at getting needs met. They get frustrated when people don't read their minds and meet all their desires without question, then run off and cheat like a jackass.

Be careful.

>>17553591
So stick around but don't get too invested just to be safe?

>>17553579
>cheating as revenge
Good luck never making her feel bad about you.

>>17553603
Yeah but that goes for any relationship.

There will usually be some risks. Just don't stay with something you're not comfortable with.

There is definitely something going on there that I would distance myself from. Seems like a lot of dysfunction.

>>17553669
Yeah there's a ton of dysfunction but they're okay in my book and they've treated me well so I want to give it a chance

>>17553579
first argument you have she will throw you in the shit bf bucket and justify fucking another guy. It is shit walking on glass and it doesn't take much.

>>17553953
It's been a year we've had multiple arguments and I haven't seen any evidence of that but maybe she's just good at hiding it.

>>17553591
This.
Couldnt have said it any better

>>17553579
all women are crazy, and all women are evil. But women take family very seriously, looking at how their parental relationship is and how they behave and view that is important in determining how they perceive a relationship should be.

But rules and exceptions do exist.

>>17554061
They both agree that cheating is generally bad but don't completely hate cheaters because the causes of cheating are complex which I agree with. I just worry that they seem to rationalize cheating in a sense if you know what I mean

>>17554111
> but don't completely hate cheaters because that would mean coming to terms with themselves being terrible people
FTFY

"it's bad, but..." is the EXACT rationality that every single piece of shit on this earth uses to justify their behavior to try to gain sympathy.

if you're in a bad relationship, here's a thought: leave them.
"i couldnt leave them because..." then don't cheat, wait until you can leave them. "b-but that's hard" cry me a river.

that's how you deal with cheaters. you don't let their excuses get to you, you throw them back in their face and let them know they did a shitty thing and whatever justifications they have don't mean shit.

>>17554153
I guess this is true, should I try to find out if she's has or is and leave? I don't suspect her of it but I don't completely trust her either