Anyone had any luck with pretending your partners flaws don't

>>175502153
my gf blows up over things I don't understand I did wrong and refuses to talk to me about why it made her mad and refuses to change

>>17550920
It's probably stuff she thinks is so obvious she feels she shouldn't have to say it. Not saying she's right but try thinkig about what you could've done to offend her.

If they don't change their behaviour, then they are not sorry, don't care and don't love you.

'Smiling through it all' is just codependency. It'll hurt you and it'll escalate into him doing more and more upsetting things.

>>17550937
you don't think that's pretty immature that she refuses to talk about it?

>>17550967
It is immature yes. Still, if she won't talk you might as well try and reflect on what you think might be the problem?

>>17550215

well done. you discovered the magical world of compromise. i'm sure there's plemnty of shit your BF puts up with bnecause the benefit of being with you outweighs the cost of perpetually bringing up this shit and causing fights.

life is about compromise. deal with it or be lonely in your ivory tower.

you ignore his farting in bed and he ignores your constant falling out with his female relatives because you try to be queen bee. this is what solid marriages and relationships are made of.

>>17550215
>Anyone had any luck with pretending your partners flaws don't exist?
you have to learn to do this or a relationship with anybody is impossible