I have zero interest in sex or women, but I really want to be a dad. Due to my mental, financial and legal records, I can't adopt, and I sure as fucking hell couldn't manage to raise a kid alone.
How much of a terrible idea would it be to just date a single mom?
1. i think you're lying about no intrest in sex
2. sure, why not, depends on the woman.
>I have zero interest in sex or women
So you are asexual or you are lying to yourself because women are not in the least bit interested in you.
>How much of a terrible idea would it be to just date a single mom?
A terrible idea because the single mom will want sex. Faking it to just to satisfy her will cause her to feel hurt and disgusted with you. This will eventually cause her to leave you and you back to square one.
See a sex therapist.
>>17549797
I'm asexual af
>>17549544
define 'terrible idea' ?
the thing about dating is that you can leave at any moment ofr any reasons. unless you live in a really weird european country you are not responsible unless you sign adoption papers.
in America even marrying a woman does not make you responsible for her kids until you sign a separate paper for that.
so if you like a woman, and you like the kid, enjoy it. even if you and the woman break up, as long as its not super angry, she may be open to just having you be a father figure (though this would require at least two+ years of dating).
women are not as interested in sex as men, and moms tend to be even less interested, so you could probably get away with banging her few and far times between.
>>17550008
I loathe sexuality, I just want to be a stepfather.
>>17550185
yes, but unless you search for an asexual mother (see how that might be contradictory?) you arent going t ohave any luck.
you dont think a mom would find it suspicious that you are only interested in her kids?