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How do I improve my social skills?

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Any help would be appreciated as I have trouble speaking to people I don't know
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Practice.
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>>17543953
But I can't in the first place
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>>17543956
Determination and practice.
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>>17543962
It's not that easy anon for people like me
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>>17543956
Not with that attitude.
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>>17543956
go to interpals and find some cuties, it helps if youre actually trying to learn a language so you can hide your autism through the guise of le language barrier
have convos in there and maybe call them when you muster the courage if you dont want to video chat

profit.
use your new skills on people on the subway or your everyday life,
keep practicing. if you have siblings/parents you dont talk to, practice with them too
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Read "How to make friends and influence people" by Dale Carnagie, "The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene and "The Social Animal" by Eliot Aronson.

And yeah, practice it. Talk to people, observe their reactions and try to figure out why they react the way they do. Try to see every discussion from the other persons perspective.
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>>17543956
Internet practice.
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>>17543979
I can easily talk to people on the internet it's just hard to talk to people face to face
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>>17543974
>>17543978
These are good too.

It's all useless if you can't face your fear though.
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>>17543940
Why?
What's the point?
Real people are trash anyway, you're not missing anything.
The real world is fucking terrible, you'll be happier by yourself with your escapism.
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>>17543994
no there's teenagers too
There's a filter if you want to find people your age, I've talked to some older people, like grannies and granpas and it was alright

Nigga, you got to get out of your comfort zone and talk to all kinds of people
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>>17544007
Nice I'll try interpals then and then work on talking to people face to facr
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not op but I like the idea of interpals. too bad i'm old and with no life experience so I have nothing to talk about with people my age. and if I talk to younger people like I was trying to do it will be disastrous like I posted about last night. fug
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