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Guy taking things too slow? Not Interested maybe? 2016-09-07 17:09:03 Post No. 17543059
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Guy taking things too slow? Not Interested maybe?
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2016-09-07 17:09:03
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I'll keep this simple. Here's the facts:
>Been seeing this guy for 2 months now
>He says he's only interested in long term relationships, and is serious about persuing this
>We've dated/hung out 3 times in that period, weeks inbetween seeing each other
>He says he's "surprised by how much he liked me", but wants to "take things slow and not rush into anything"
>We text almost every day, or every other day
>In person he's really sweet and attentive, says he's so glad to see me, comes across as interested
My problem is that he never wants to arrange to hang out with me except once every 3 weeks or so. It feels so inconsistent, like if he wasn't interested why does he act like he is, but if he is why is he so non-chalant about hanging out together? He lives 25 minutes away, I can get to his apartment in no time at all on almost any given day. He says he's "too busy lately" to hang out more than that but all he's doing is working full time, and even then he gets 2 days off a week like everyone.
So is he really interested or is he just keeping me around because he's bored and lying to me. I'm getting so many mixed messages it's frustrating. Should I just ask him straight up if he's still interested or is that putting to much "pressure" on him
Have you ever had this situation with a guy/girl how did it turn out?
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>>17543059
>seen each other 3 times in 2 months
Fuck that noise.
OP, it is WAY too early to allow yourself to be frustrated by someone. Go find someone that makes you feel the way you want to feel and isn't leaving you guessing.
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You are his side chick. He isn't worth it.
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There's a difference between "taking it slow" and seeing eachother once in 3 weeks. Something's fishy here, you better talk to him about it.
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>>17543096
Should I legit ask him directly about it or is that being like a crazy obsessive girlfriend? Should I just ignore him and see if he ever texts me again or is that playing childish games? Guys are so confusing.
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>>17543106
you should directly ask him about it.
"we only spend time together for 5 hours a day, it's not enough" is crazy obsessive girlfriend.
"we only spend time together for 5 hours a month, it's not enough" is common sense.
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>>17543077
i can tell this post was written by a woman
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>>17543455
Why would you assume that?
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