Anyone here managed to have relationship with 2 girls at the same time, without each other knowing?
How did you do it? Share tips, things to be cautious off, etc
It's difficult unless you actually want them to be anxious and feel bad whenever you don't read their messages. They'll be hard to impress whenever you don't actually have a good reason for not spending the evening with them. Lying is not an option, so you'll have to agree that you're relationship isn't going to depend on open communication. In other words, you have to tell them that when you're together you're together, when not they must respect your wish for privacy.
I'd recommend you find yourself girlfriends who are into open relationships, instead.
I didn't but I know someone who did when he was like 17. He simply ignored them for most of the time, never texted with either of them (well most people didn't text back then) and went out a few times a week with them (one at a time, obviously). None of them came over at his place, although he had a pretty easy excuse for that since he was living with his parents. I don't think they even wondered what he was doing when he wasn't with them, they always assumed he was with his friends or doing something at home. They just weren't suspicious. He was never caught either, he dumped one of them after a few weeks.
I imagine this shit would be much harder to pull off with older women. Impossible long term. And I see no reason to do it, it would only get stressing and tiring.
That's how I got a rock through the window of my car 10 years ago. Never again.
doing it with 3 currently (my first time)
just to see if I can. and because I think I have a sex addiction problem (but with many girls)
anyway, it's a bad move. I feel bad because now emotions are involved, surprise surprise.
but it's hard keeping shit separate, I'll probably just rely on escorts after this
>>17543161
You should seek counseling.
Men like to be macho about this sort of thing but it's detrimental to your overall happiness over your lifetime.
It is also an idication of sociopathy, and most homeless people are sociopaths.
>>17542974
more effort than its worth
>>17542974
fuck that shit sounds expensive unless you make both of them pay for everything.
>>17543183
yep, and it's not something I brag about my friends and family have no idea. they think I'm single.
just bee yourself
>>17542974
Yeah - what you have to do is be two different types of man. Why have two unless you have two different priorities?
Make sure you love them both up good.
>>17543098
Lol got slapped across the face in front of my school by my main girl and my ex. Nobody ever let's it down. All guys respect me though aha.
>>17542974
Why do you want 2 girlfriends? 1 isn't enough?