Sexual frustration

>>17541918
Well you better talk to him seriously and straightforward. If he doesn't want to listen and up his sex game then do yourself a favor and break up before you fuck someone else.

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>>17541924
I tell him to be more aggressive and initiate more but he does the same old shit every single time in bed. It's so boring. I love him and we live together but idk how much more of this I can take. I can't cheat on him. I just don't think this is gonna work out in the long run. I feel so bad to be making something big out of this because everything else in the relasionship is perfect as all fuck.

>>17541918
Maybe he lacks the energy to engage into any sexual activities or he is focused on things he values important, maybe he is even tired of dealing with you to a degree that it is just not turning him on as much to engage with you. If you really want him to do more then try harder to get him in bed, maybe not in the way you would imagine but rather think of a way he thinks is attractive.

Other than that, communicate, talk about this, tell him how important it is for you. Even if it is just sex for him.

Honestly, I stopped fucking my ex because I thought she was dirty. She never brushed her teeth or shaved. She smelled like shit, like her booty had that smell. I was shut off. I liked kicking it with her tho and we lived together. We were just too different op and this is probably your issue. The only way I'd fuck her is if she started listening to things I wanted her to do. Like clean her mouth but she fucking disregarded it every time because she didn't wanna give in to my 'control. It was fucking stupid. Listen to him and do what he says, swear hell fuck the shit out of you. Don't just put your boobs/ face in his face, it's the mind that wins long-term lust. If it didn't work, he has a low sex drive and isn't a baws.

>>17541918
We both know you're gonna cheat on the poor guy like the stupid slut you are.
So get it over with and don't pretend to feel bad, it's in your female nature to be a stupid whore anyway.

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>>17541959

>>17541931
Show him what you want. Maybe even watch porn of what you want with him. Maybe even see a sex therapist a Reallygood relationship everywhere else is much harder to find than a good lay.

>>17541958
But I shave and I brush so idk what it is. It's not just me pushing my boobs in his face I kiss his body and come onto him and I try to seduce him but he doesint respond

>>17541918
>'m not even bad looking I've got big boobs and a nice body and face
proof required

When you talk to him about it, what does he say?

>>17541977
You're really leaving out a lot of info. What's he do for work? What is he doing when you're seducing him? How many hours did he work? How was sex in the beginning?

>>17541918

Tell him what you want him to do.
"Spice it up" means fucking nothing, it's like looking at an artist and telling them to "make it better" when in their mind they're already happy with their painting.
As for a lack of passion, he might be feeling how you do at the moment. Maybe he has some sort of secret desire as well?

Sometimes sex drive just isn't that high either, I feel for my gf because I barely want to fuck more than once a week and could easily go two without needing to wank more than once or twice. Is he stressed at the moment? Depending on what country you're from, it's getting close to final assessment time at university and that can have a big impact. I know the last thing on my mind after getting off university is exerting myself to try and get someone to cum.

Anyway, have a serious talk to him, not an off the cuff comment and see what you can do. If it doesn't work, break up with him. Don't be a cunt and come crawling back when you realise some cock isn't worth a good relationship. Oh and get yourself a vibrator, learn to get yourself off like a guy never could.

>>17541977
Maybe he's not particularly sexual. I'm not really all that sexual, my gf is absolutely gorgeous, she has a very curvaceous feminine physique and is just the sweetest looking thing but I mostly just want to be her best friend and cuddle...

>>17542003
You be her best friend, let Jamal do the heavy lifting for you.

>>17542012
No I'm going to marry her and we'll work out our sexual differences like adults but thanks for the alternate suggestion I'll keep it on file.

>>17541918
>got big boobs
>"nice body"

aka Fatty

lose weight and he might be more attracted to you

>>17542024
I'm 108 pounds.. I recently just got over having lymes disease I used to be 130.im Cuban so my boobs and butt remain intact.

>>17542034
Pics?

>>17542034
>Cubana
Ha Have you considered Santerìa?

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>>17541918
First applaud you for your bravery. Not too many femanons talk about this stuff online. Second, your bf is a little bitch. He seems sexually timid for a guy and needs a womans sexual assertiveness to help find his sex drive. All us males have hyper sexdrives, even the guys that keep it locked away out of fear.You should just get him drunk one night and take him by surprise. I used to be just like you bf until I dated a sexually dominant female. When she was horny, "No" wasn't an option. Whenever I told her that I was too tired or not in the mood, she would pounce on me like a cat in heat - forcing her tongue down my throat and kissing me like crazy, pulling my mouth back into hers whenever I looked away....at first it was humiliating...but then it would just turn me the fuck on like nothing ever did. Needless to say, we had a great sex life after that. Just be assertive with him.

Don't ask him...just do it girl! Good luck.

>>17542043
What are you, like 13?

>>17542100
What are you, a newfag?

There are some rules in place, if the dumb whore wants to communicate on the internet where her cunt has no value, she must provide something in exchange.

Santerìa was a joke but you really might want to see a sex/ couples therapist maybe just saying that you think it's important enough to merit a professional visit will get him to take the issue more seriously.

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>>17542100

This isn't /b, not asking for nudes either. She brags about her body but it's bullshit unless a proper timestamped pic is given

Go back to Normieville

>>17542092
>All us males have hyper sexdrives, even the guys that keep it locked away out of fear
not true, my first (and only) bf had a sex drive much much lower than mine, nearly every time I was the one initiating everything.
(I broke up with him for different reasons, but really, it was pretty disappointing to find out that the 'hyper sex drive' thing wasn't true)

>>17542187
or maybe he just found you gross and is now fucking his new upgraded gf on a daily basis.

>>17542227
Nah some men just don't want to fuck all the time.

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>>17542138
You just sound so desperately pathetic. You remind me of a little boy, who's only observation of a woman's anatomy was his mothers teat.

If you truly aren't an adolescent, than I feel nothing but sheer pity for you.

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>>17542187
That's probably because he was shy or had high levels of estrogen. However, all males have testosterone (the aggression hormone), and unless he was an asexual and didn't tell you, all he needed was a little sexual guidance and his sexual peak would have risen like Mt. Cockmore.

I don't blame you for being sexually frustrated though. If I may inquire; are you the type that hates being assertive or are you just looking for equal sexual interest in your partners?

>>17542227
I'm >>17542092
and I did have sex with my bf on a daily basis, it still didn't seem like enough to me (and some of those fucks were pretty boring, with me doing only the things that he liked because otherwise he'd lose his boner easily).

>>17542300
I'm not OP by the way.
I don't really care that much about 'sexual compatibility' or whatever, I've only ever had one partner

Your sex life is dead OP. You can etiher try to revive it by taking control and taking what you want, or let your relationship die with it.

>>17542436
So what do you like? What are your kinks? What would you like you bf to do more?

>>17541918
>feel the overwhelming urge to cheat
and the first step is to discuss your sex life with a lot of men online

Just whip his dick out and start sucking.