Boyfriend wont shower

>>17541843
he literally doesnt give a shit, even if he has lots on his ass.

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>>17541843
>didn't shower for 3 months

What the fucking fuck? Do you honestly want to spend your life with a man who refuses to wash himself for months at a time? If so you're just as filthy as your degenerate sack of shit that is your sorry excuse of a boyfriend.

Run girl, run.

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>>17541843
>>didn't shower for 3 months
are you two hobos before this ?

Does he have a job? How does he go to his job unwashed?

>>17541843
the first 3 year must have been amazing because no girl I've known would put up with this shit. I know plenty of pot heads and dead beats that shower somewhat regularly.

It sounds like a part of him wants you to push away so he doesn't so he doesn't have to pull the trigger himself.

>>17541843
Why do people think their significant other will change? Why can't stupid people realize that at any point where their partner crosses a line, that they won't continue to get worst? People push boundaries.

Why must they think it will improve? It will never improve.

Reminder that even a fat greasy lazy slob NEET like OP's bf can get a gf. If you are a kissless virgin you literally have no excuse.

>>17541898
but i shower every day and no gf

>>17541933
You're doing something wrong. Or not doing it right. When is the last time you asked a girl out?

>reminded him that him choosing not to shower would make me end the relationship
>he showered
>didn't wash his hair
>asked me to
eh...


>>17541861
works from home.

>>17541843
Jesus christ... life for a girl is easy mode and this is seriously the best you can get? You must be fat and terrible with makeup, because even fat chicks can get guys better than this.

You staying with him is only enabling him. Mother fucker needs to be punished for this.

Your bf has some serious mental problems. If you're unhygienic to the point of not showering for over a fucking month, there is something completely wrong with you. It could be anything from deep depression to schizophrenia.

Does he have a job? Friends? Does he go out unwashed and filthy among other people on a daily basis?

>>17541843
Either give him an ultimatum or bail.
Can't even imagine being with someone whos that active to being unclean for months.

I went through a depression spell and didn't shower for half a year (I mean, I washed my hands and stuff but I just didn't care enough to get out of my clothes and stand for five minutes)

OP, break it off because he doesn't need a relationship. I'm surprised he even cares enough to argue with you, I know I sure as shit wouldn't put up with you or anyone else

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>>17541933
I've got one word for you "BETA".

>>17542291
>went through a depression spell and didn't shower for half a year

i dont understand. did you literally not leave your house with in this time? and if so, how did you pay for bills and shit?

>>17541843
Are you fucking stupid? Leave this loser. If you have a vagina then you can literally to go the grocery store and pick up a new boyfriend.

>>17542302
I left the house to get groceries and tried to keep lifting but just had no energy at the gym and left halfway through my sets and eventually just stopped going either places, bought shitloads of 20 lbs bags of rice

Bills stacked up, they cut shit off. I went to my psychiatrist to ask to ween off my meds because they weren't helping and the side effects were only contributing to my depression, and during that visit I ended up getting a 72 hour involuntary stay in the emergency room on suicide watch (I wasn't at risk and the overseer said as much and said "well, better safe than sorry" as he handed me a $3500 bill, kek) but after that, my parents came and made me move back on with them and I had no more bills at least

It passed after but during that crucible I came to understand a lot of things, and can certainly see how little one can care about hygiene. Its something OPs bf has to work through on his own, and during this time, he doesn't really need a girlfriend

at this point i come here just to laugh at shit like this, i'm rarely disappointed

if you want actual advice: it's hard to change people. All you can do is try to tolerate them as long as you can and hope they change. When you can't take it anymore, you leave.
Then sometimes they realize how badly they fucked up and actually change, and after that sometimes you can get back together. Otherwise you continue on your own paths.
good luck anyway, OP. Loyalty is rare, especially in women.

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What the fuck? This is not a "my boyfriend doesn't respect me", or a "how do I encourage him" sort of thing.

This is a "my boyfriend doesn't do one of the most basic necessities involved in being someone over the age of 7". He expects you to wash him? Are you fucking kidding me?

Honestly this is why I come here now, to read some crazy shit, like that guy who let his girlfriend jerk other dudes off onto food that he had to eat.

I'm not judging you, OP, because you know that this is wrong. That being said, I would never, ever, ever even entertain the idea of dating someone who told me they didn't shower more than twice a week at least.

As for what jobs he has, our jobs are tied together

I'm a model and he sets up gigs for me, so we are very financially reliant on eachother, he does do a great job I have to admit.
Its pretty hard to get someone genuine at this point.
but I do accept I have emotional baggage.
part of me wonders if I can do better. I've had handsome guys and guys with money fawn over me and it honestly doesn't mean because, one, I'm in love with my boyfriend, and two, those things mean nothing when you don't have a nice personality.

>>17542521
Model or "model'? No judgement.

Honestly, it's easy enough to get a new booker. Threaten him with that if you must.

Mean it though, because I honestly don't see a future for you with this person.

>>17542521
I really like how honorful you are. Thats not a very common sight in /adv/ where people usually don't believe in change and dump each other for very small shit. I don't really know how to overcome your challenge but just wanted say I respect your judgement. Best of luck buddy.