How does a super hardcore introvert get out and meet people?
I have a job, so you can skip the "get a jobb!1" part.
>Cant drink so bars/clubs/etc are not an option
>Live in old people land, FL
>Yes, I am in FL, no I am not near any beaches.
>Theres literally nowhere else to go
>No clubs or anything except shit for old people, and I checked its ALL old people.
I am not going to start drinking because I will become an alcoholic. That is not an option.
I need places where people are likely to approach me because I'm a shy little bitch who won't take the initiative.
>>17540456
>How does a super hardcore introvert get out and meet people?
You want an honest answer? They don't.
>I am not going to start drinking because I will become an alcoholic.
Come on OP, most of us drink and only a few of us are alcoholics.
And let me tell you, in rural areas where there's fuck-all to do, drinking is what young people do. All people, actually. I lived in wyoming for a year and there's only 2 forms of socialization: bars and pubs.
>I need places where people are likely to approach me because I'm a shy little bitch who won't take the initiative.
Are you male or female? If male, it ain't gonna happen. Only guy who's approached me in the past 6 years was gay. And the only girls were the ditzy extrovert kind, most of whom i can't fucking stand.
Seriously, meeting other introverts requires a huge amount of effort, you'll have to put it in.
If female, it's piss-easy, just sit in a bar or pub and look sad, you don't even have to drink.
>>17540456
There's a reason people that are approached often have no problem approaching others. If you want to get good at something you're going to need practice. Stop fucking around in your comfort zone. You're going to have to swallow your ego and realize that no one really cares what you do or say as much as you do. And the reason they don't care is because they're busing caring too much about themselves as well. Realizing this took a lot of the pressure off for me.
>>17540456
>How do I get the world to just start walking up to me and shower me with attention?
You don't. You learn to get over your social anxiety, man up, and try talking to people. If you aren't willing to put in the effort, you don't deserve the results.
>>17540492
>>How do I get the world to just start walking up to me and shower me with attention?
Become a gril
>>17540535
>Become a gril
Yeah, if you're fine with all those people being creepy, lonely men who just want to fetishize you.
>>17540456
> Go to bar/club
> Order water
> No one will say anything because nobody gives a fuck
>>17540456
Get hobbies.
Exploit the social aspects of your hobbies.
If you're not completely full of shit about having no one around, move.
>>17540556
nobody ever specified "hot /fit/ millionaires"
beggars can't be choosers eh