Like a girl for a while. She seemed to like me. We hit it off, had fun. Turns out she's been using me. I've slowly turned the table and manipulated her into doing whatever I want without thinking it was my idea.
I don't know whether I should feel good or bad about this. I've always tried to be a good person but she twisted my good and trusting nature into something so warped that I have these kinds of questions and behaviors.
>>17537974
Sorry m8 she didn't twist anything, you've let yourself become the person that you are.
It's up to you to really decide what you feel like. I'd say it's justified up to a point. Other than that try to become a better person. Good luck senpai
>>17537974
How to be devilishly manipulative like OP?
There's also a girl I want to manipulate and mold her into stuff.
>>17538014
>>17538014
I wouldn't say it's devilish. I just found an aspect of her life that's really easy to manipulate. That's really the key. It's like those old cartoon episodes where people say "I promise you can get into the club if you do X" kind of situations.
Just put a "reasonable" sounding expectation and find a way to keep feeding her a little making her feel like it'll actually happen when in reality you're just fucking with her.
>>17537974
Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. Consider ending it.
>>17538038
Oh I'm aware it isn't, but I'm at the point where I'm manipulating her out of revenge and I sort of enjoy it and sort of don't.
>>17537974
Dont worry about it.
I did the exact same thing in a similar situation, it was pretty good for a while. For me it was linked to my personality, probably similar to you (ENTJ).
Though as you have probably realized, you can seriously fuck their shit up at a twiddle of a finger that can have long lasting impacts, some people are weak as fuck and before you know it they snap without little effort.
Just dont go too far or you might regret it.
>>17538044
I'm wondering about outs to it as well. It's to the point where the only out would be revealing it and that sounds dangerous.
>>17538040
>revenge
greentext please.
>>17537974
>not knowing women use men as a stepping stone in the first place.