Pros and Cons of Dating (You)

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Pros
>am crazy

Cons
>am crazy

I have 2 certified trips to psych ward to back me up on this, boys

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Pros
>Knows two languages?
>Low maintenance expenses
>uh?
Cons
>Premature ejaculator, couldn't satisfy you in bed. Additionally I'm not into cuckolding, so you are pretty much setting down for a life of not enough sexual pleasure.
>Zero motivation
>Avoid responsibility at any cost. So children are out of the picture.
>Shitty dental hygiene
>Still live with parents
>Won't shower unless is absolutely necessary
>Have 0 friends
>Unemployed
>Can't handle a conversation unless is about something I'm really into.
>Into anime and video games.
>Have played over 1600 hours of dota.
>Might be into little girls.
>Spend 80% of my time in from of a computer, 10% in bed.
>5'8'' manlet
>spic

Pros

>Musician
>Can do math in my head
>Muscular
>Lean
>Good facial symmetry
>High IQ
>Great at Parties

Cons

>Addictive Personality
>Settles
>Have Crippling Depression but Hide it as well as you Possibly can

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>>17534065
Pros:

>decent sense of humor
>caring and considerate
>have all sorts of interests
>smart
>i like cuddling and getting really comfy
>loyal like a puppy
>into a handful of kinks

cons:

>kinda fat
>a little clingy
>anxiety and inferiority complex (not super bad but still)
>kind of easily distracted unless in tunnel vision
>lack of experience with girls

Pros
> 6'3" and good looking (constantly see girls checking me out and have been approached by women)
> Funny
> Have job
> Have hobbies (painting)

Cons
> very needy and insecure
> inexperienced
> anxiety and depression problems (about to be put on antidepressants), generally an emotional mess
> Weight yo-yos like crazy
> take a while to open up to people (but people generally like me when i do)

Pros:
Uh
Cons:
>not tall enough
>no abs showing
>bad voice
>nonattractive face
>play video games
>almost no filter in conversations
>no experience in relationships
>poor taste in humor

Pros:
knows many things
intelligent

cons:
I want to die
skeleton
have nigger hair
awkward as fuck
enjoys inappropriate conversations
looks like spawnofsatan.jpg

Pros:
>Average level attractiveness
>Not completely retarded
>Enjoy making others happy
>Exercise daily
>Have a variety of hobbies/interests
>Open to learn new hobbies/interests
>Very accepting/non-judgemental
>Family man
>Want a long term relationship not just sex

Cons:
>Getting over anxiety problems
>No job because anxieties
>Cant drive because anxieties
>Kissless virgin because anxities
>Living with parents because no job
>Poorly educated through homeschooling
>No ability to make small talk at all
>Not a leader/dominant
>Into a lot of really weird sexual things

Pros
>Caring
>Ambitious
>Big eyes, long hair, slim
>Educated
>Stable family
>Creative
>Devoted
>Not the type to argue

Cons
>Social anxiety
>Health problems
>Live with parents
>Unstable employment
>No boobs or butt
>Christmas cake
>Almost zero experience
>Don't want kids
>Not very sexual
>Need lots of time alone
>Afraid to drive

>>17534275
>cons
none of them matters because "ITS A FEMALE EVERYONE MOB HER"

Pros:

>Honest with all people
>Have job, my own place
>Very neat and clean
>Tall, sporty build due to years of different sports
>Like to have fun in all situations, like dancing especially
>Always up to organize events, group hangouts, etc.


Cons:

>Can be jealous if female is hanging out with unfamiliar men
>Somewhat obsessed about being tidy, but only in my own apartment
>Not very emotional, show love very subtly
And two days ago I broke up with my girlfriend, now to find someone better...

Pros:
>good looking
>well traveled
>can cook
>above average dick size
>not a slob
>financially stable

Cons:
>alcoholic
>introverted
>would cheat if it was made easy enough
>spends down time watching anime and playing vidya
>would choose my cat over you if asked to get rid of him
>racist (I keep it to myself, just know it's there)
>very low empathy

>>17534065
Pros
>low maintenance
>kind
>patient
>relatively smart and informed
>very good socially, will make you look good at parties
>infinitely loyal
>modest
>can cook and clean, but can also do heavy manual labor and stressful work without complaint
>....high pain tolerance?

Cons
>below average/ugly
>i get really obsessed with things and wont shut up about it (dorky things like star trek)
>i bite my nails constantly, probably have an undiagnosed anxiety disorder lol
>into weird things that don't really align with my religious beliefs (weird sexual things)
>hermaphrodite

...n-not bad or should i end it now?

M/21

Pros:
>Have several hobbies that I'm good at
>Very un-argumentative
>Healthy weight, 6ft tall.
>Exercise and lift, working towards good body.
>Always try to be kind and helpful
>Likes to joke and have fun around others
>Can cook a few good things

Unsure:
>Try to be humble about everything and downplay most of my achievements.

Cons:
>Bacne, mild face acne
>Kissless virgin
>Very lonely which may lead to over-attachment or dependency
>Have a very self-deprecating sense of humor
>Blame myself for everything
>Been seeing more and more signs of depression recently

>>17534065
Pro
>Caring, motherly
>Loyal, always had long term relationships/friendships
>Upfront, honest
>Physically affectionate
>Somewhat intelligent
>Independent emotionally and financially
>Great cook
>Enjoys cleaning
>Decently looking
>Has hobbies and interests
>Cute face
>6/10 body

Pro/cons depending on the person
>Jokes about everything
>Loves discussion
>Constant tease
>Needs alone time
>Hates having money spent on her

Cons
>Clumsy as fuck
>Genetic disease
>Lots of scars from surgery and clumsiness
>Can't stand drama and emotional bullshit
>Gets bored easily
>Annoying, mischievous

>>17534065
pros
>great sense of perspective
>decent sense of humor, very open to silliness
>smart, and not even that lazy
>great deep conversations
>6'2
>somewhat stronger and broader than average
>people say I good hair and beard
>very musical
>good listener
>good at reading people, when applied with good perspectives It makes me good at solving people problems
>honest to the point of having literally not lied (trolling doesn't count) in 2 years
>low maintenance
>loyal
>meme master
>bear hugs
>very tender part under the surface

cons
>that surface is really hard to penetrate, basic displaiys of emotion trigger massive anxiety and are like pulling teeth
>trouble expressing own needs
>kinda fat not, overweight tho
>kinda socially and physically insecure, also prone to assuming people dislike or are making fun of me
>on the other hand somewhat arrogant about intelligence, creativity, views; prone to calling things stupid when "i disagree" would suffice
>virgin
>harsh, high standards, doesn't meet own standards, rather than then lowering these standards, I simply apply loads of unconstructive self criticism on top of criticizing others
>internally obsessive, though hardly outwardly so
>not argumentive for the sake of argument, but I speak up when I disagree and have a hard time just letting it go
>basically a mild neckbeard
>basically just don't know how to like things and be happy

>>17534294
>hermaphrodite
wat?

>>17534302
I mean exactly what I said. Hermaphrodite, intersex, whatever.

>>17534298
>tfw no qt ENFP gf

>>17534303
so wait do you look like a chick + a dick or a guy + a vagina?

>>17534298
>Hates having money spent on her
Bby

Pros
>I am Groot
Cons
>I am Groot

Can you guys imagine what it would be like if we had to choose our life partners out of a pool where the only thing you know about the people is what they've put down as their pros/cons?

>>17534306
uh. I couldn't really answer that, there doesn't seem to be a clear consensus of what I look like facially to the general public. I get like, a fifty percent mix of male/female. I can change those odds by doing certain things, like adjusting the way I dress (not dresses or skirts, I don't wear those in public) or letting my hair grow out/cutting it short. I can also pitch my voice to match either a deep male or higher female voice. But I don't do these things on purpose or to decieve people, when I meet someone who will be a frequent part of my life at work or something I wait until I figure out how they see me, then I mold myself to that perception. I guess I do it as a safety thing idk, I've done it my whole life.

>protip: i don't have just one downstairs wink wink nudge nudge

>>17534314
wait i spelled deceive wrong

Pros
>Low maintenance
>Loyal
>would be willing to do most things with you
>laid back

Cons
>Not outgoing
>Laid back
(some girls want a guy to plan shit, 90% of my time is just sitting around
>Play games too much
>Hate most popular things. Not in a hipster way, I just don't like many things
>Tend to have an addictive/annoying personality at times
>Don't have high self esteem which would lead to me being paranoid you're not loyal.
>hate people too
>average height

TL;DR: If you like regular guys with insecurities who are shy introverts, dats me

>>17534314
Thats so cool and sounds rather hot, i guess that would be a fairly large con for quite a few people but it sounds like a plus to me.

>>17534065
what this thread showed is that these single males like OP have a really high opinion of themselves (honestly believe they are good looking, tall and intelligent - near perfect physically, and any problem is psychological), thinking they are the typical underachiever archetype and the faults are with their environment. While all could be reduced to one con: lack of self awareness.

>>17534305
Lol. I'm INTJ tho.
Just a weirdly motherly kind.

>>17534301
>harsh, high standards, doesn't meet own standards, rather than then lowering these standards, I simply apply loads of unconstructive self criticism on top of criticizing others

I'm exactly the same.
It fucks me over in so many different ways because I cannot take a final unless I'm perfectly prepared, can't submit an essay unless it is worth a Nobel in Physiology and Literature because of its content and form.
My mantra for this year will be "good enough is perfect". Let's hope it works.

You seem cool overall. Would date.

>>17534321
Oh, gosh, thank you very much for the little confidence boost. I've actually never been in a relationship or anything, I don't know if it's because of this or because I'm shy in other way, but when I was a preteen I never thought anything was wrong with me. It was only when we started with sex ed in school, that's when my body confidence went down. But I imagine it's that way for a lot of people...

I just try to avoid labeling myself because it's hard to think about me in the context of other, and I love connecting with people, it's just easier to withhold information and keep people comfortable than to try and fit a square into a triangle, y'know?

But thank you for your kind words. <3 We'll all find where we belong in life eventually, even if we have to build that world ourselves by hand.

>>17534348
Happy to help, I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks its cool/hot, but I can imagine how complicated that would make a lot of things.

>>17534327
I also am INTJ
that's the funny part
>clumsy
>no partiance for drama
>needs discussion
>bored easily
the implicit similarities of being both intuitive doms with extraverted thinking and introverted feeling.

that's why ENFP is best match for INTJ, even though they seem so far apart and the next best mach for each is their own kind.
>>17534335
it's a pretty common problem. I know it's held me back acedemically a lot, like not doing papers becuase I thought they sucked, and having to learn to make what i consider a shitty paper, turn it in, and get an A-, rather than doing the same thing late and having the grade drop. that's a clever and I would wager effective mantra though, I hope it works.

>>17534396
ENFP and INTJ are definitely a great match. My ex boyfriend was an ENFP and I adored my time with him - we had been together for nearly 8 years. I do get along better with my current boyfriend, who is an INFP, tho.
Both of them are extremely mature, people with their shit together and a great control on themselves and their life. Neither of them is the drama queen type. Which is great.
The ENFP was awesome, but he was less understanding, less introspective and self aware, and got angry easily. He was great at taking the lead of our relationship when I was feeling down. And extroversion was a pain to deal with for me sometimes.
INFP boyfriend is much more sensitive and kind, he's more self aware, the most empathetic human being I've ever met. He never gets angry, we never had a fight, even if we tease each other and argue a lot. On the other hand he is the kind of person that gets stuck inside his head a lot and it's hard to deal with him sometimes. He takes everything personally.

>>17534167
pretty much me but i'm bad at math also

Pros:
>very good sense of humor
>well cultured
>affectionate
>good listener

Cons:
>overly opinionated
>cranky when plans are suddenly changed
>not very good at maintaining conversations unless it's a topic we're both familiar with (getting better though with each social interaction)

Is a high sex drive a pro or a con? I have fantasies of fucking my SO in secret at public places amd to do some jacuzzi action

>>17534526
I should add more.

Pros:
>loyal as in would never cheat
>very relaxed most of the time
>decent cook
>curious about how random stuff operates or works; curious about learning relatively obscure facts about all sorts of stuff
>very low time preference and future-oriented
>good looks on a good day; decent on a bad one
>like to have my house and workplace clean and we'll kept at all times

Cons:
>sometimes display double standards
>can come off as arrogant
>sometimes insecure
>very suspicious of every person's motivations; won't open up to anyone about overly personal information or say anything that could be used against me in the future to damage my reputation at work, society, group of friends, etc.

Pros
>intelligent
>based
>funny
>enjoy making other people happy
>really empathetic
>pretty good looking
>i lift
>curious, like learning
>love other cultures

Cons
>family issues
>trust issues
>find it hard to keep up with any relationship let alone a gf
>kind of selfish
>introverted and quiet
>like to hold my cards close to my chest, but if I end up trusting you it's usually because you've earned it and it's been a calculated decision on my part; so I'd be happy being 99.9% honest
>toxic family
>would prefer you never to meet my family


I just want my own life, fuck families. I don't understand how my parents could really fuck it up this hard. If you're not prepared to have kids don't have fucking kids

>>17534065
Pros
>Loyal
>In great physical condition due to being at the gym up to 4 days a week and training at boxing 3 nights a week
>I run marathons for fun (usually in just under 3 hours)
>Well paid because government job with many benefits
>Always learning new things
>Longest relationship of 5 years
>Great with money
>Great with pets
>I can cook fairly well as I've done various catering courses in my free time
>I can perform most basic plumbing and car maintenance tasks

Cons
>I've been told that I look intimidating because of my size (6'1" 215lbs, bald head, a couple of face scars)
>I could do with another set of braces as my bottom teeth are a bit out of line
>I work unsociable hours
>I might not come home one day due to my job
>I have the risk of being followed home due to the nature of my job and loved ones being attacked or threatened
>I'm paranoid due to having been cheated on before
>I take nothing seriously, I have had knives pulled on me and started taking the piss out of my attacker, if you are upset over something I'll probably start making jokes
>My work comes first, then my training
>I eat about 3000 calories a day and max out around 4200 a day when I'm bulking
>I have about 10kg of peanut butter in my house as I consume about 1kg a week and buy it all during sales
>I'll eat a family platter when I go out with ease
>I don't drink
>I don't like going out because I can't stand drunk people
>I don't like going out because people try and pick fights with me
>I keep my family at an arm's length and don't get along with them too well
>I'm suspicious of everyone
>I don't back down from an argument

I don't wonder why I'm single, before anyone comments.

>>17534167
>>Can do math in my head
kek you probably meant trivial 1st grade calculation but still kek

Pros
>Very handsome
>Very considerate
>Ambitious
>Independant
>Funny
>Thoughtful
>Artistic

Cons
>Depressed and anxious as fuck
>Dropped out of college because of this
>Only make 31k a year
>Not socially good in group settings
>I like weed a lot
>I'm kind of a player though if you actually really care about me and put effort into the relationship, I will be completely exclusive to you

>>17534065
Pros

>extremely intelligent
>extremely tall, handsome, athletic
>extremely funny
>lots of interests
>caring
>pretty happy and easy going for the most part

Cons

>can be withdrawn
>don't care about social conventions that much, can be a problem for people who do
>get angry if someone gets defensive or irrational or has a different standard for themselves than they do for me
>come from a toxic family of origin so some baggage
>cut contact with parents, so if someone has to watch our kids it will be your parents or a baby sitter
>not super ambitious, pull my own weight, but I'm not going to be a doctor/lawyer or earn above $600k/year unless I start a business that takes off
>spend a lot of time on 4chan

>>17534065
Pros
>Uhhhhhhh
Cons
>UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Pros:

>Tomboy
>Easy going
>Physically fit
>Thick hips
>8/10 face
>Very open about sex
>Dominant in bed
>Good at painting.
>Extremly loyal and affectionate
>Can cook healthy meals.


Cons:

>No ambitions
>Unemployed (but won't expect you to pay for me)
>Will tell you bad puns
>Small boobs
>Goes through cycles of depression
>Minor scars from past self-harm
>Don't want kids
>Gets lonely easily
>Spends a lot of time on /fit/

>>17534907
Well, shit man. Wanna go on a date or something?

>>17534907
>pro: tomboy
Uhh

>>17534907
Every girl that says they're loyal and affectionate to me has been neither

>>17534907
london
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>>17534326
I felt like I was honest enough in mine without it turning into an autobiography. Why not you try then and show us how it's done.

Kek

Pros:

>Good with kids

Cons:

>Possibly because I'm a pedo
>Fat
>Moobs
>Balding
>Unemployed
>Getting useless degree
>Low chances of becoming anything but a teacher
>See first con

>>17534958

>Good with kids

pls marry me

>>17534065

Pros
>legally gifted
>really smart
>funny
>allegedly kind
>introverted but not antisocial (I'll go out and party but don't mind some space)
>Love learning things for fun
>will laugh at almost anything
>very traditional
>will take you on adventures
>Will go along withmost kinky shit (no blood, piss, shit, etc.)

Cons
>overweight (for now)
>unemployed (just graduated)
>legally gifted
>perfectionist
>Supposedly intj (might as well mention I'm scorpio)
>Loves the cold and the rain
>feeding fetish (not by choice)
>is in a long term relationship with no interest on ruining it

Do we get a score? Faggot/10?

>>17534964
Even if our daughter ends up walking funny?

My goodness.

>>17534907
>small boobs
>con
Get your shit together, woman.

Pros:
Big dick (above average at least)

Cons:
Video games get more attention than you will.

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>>17534065
Pro:
The realest nigga

Con:
Too real of a nigga

>>17535071
>Big dick
Lets get married.

>>17535141
Odds are your pussy would get too sore to enjoy it anyway

>>17535141
I'm committed in a relationship atm. But, list your pros and cons and I'll see if it's worth ditching.

Pros:
>kinda funny
>somewhat cute
>intelligent
>have my life mostly together
>can cook

Cons
>posts on 4chan
>spaghetti
>probably gets clingy
>can only cook one thing

Pros
>Not bad looking
>Good father material
>Up for anything
>Cool job
>Sociable

Cons
>Picky eater
>Can't express romantic feelings well
>Probably more depressed than letting on

Pros
>6'0, 150 lbs
>kinda cute
>generally good with morals
>above average dick

Cons
>feel like I have a boring personality
>socially awkward
>insecure
>clingy
>can't hold back when intimate.
>no friends
>skinnyfat and while I want to get into shape, I don't have to drive to do so
>can look like shit if I don't take care of myself
>odd sense of humor
>love reading the news/current events, gets old fast
>when i feel low, I get really low. Thanks depression
>never been in a long term relationship before

>>17534907
>tomboy
>dominant in bed
rip me

>>17535130
God, that girl is gorgeous.

>very goodlooking
>funny
>patient
>loyal
>romantic
>always in for trying new things

>have moodswings
>cant handle my emotions very well
>do harddrugs pretty much every week
>drop spaghetti pretty often
>quiet at times, suffer from thought poverty (lit translation, idk)
>can hold a grudge (but can ignore it and treat people normally)
>bit of an attentionwhore but i try not to be

mix:
>dont really care about anything
>can become very attached to people

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Pros
>Good listener
>intelligent
>funny
>works hard
>have a large welcoming family
>caring

Cons
>ADD
>intelligent to an extent
>fucked sense of humor
>manlet
>spic

Women
> faithful
> attractive
> good hygiene
> will take you on dates
> looks young
> down to earth
> submissive
> can cook
> enjoys video games
> decent job
> has car
> mature
Cons
> has 1 child
> chubby
> only some college
> not the brightest

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>>17535430
>has 1 child
>not the brightest
No need to repeat the same flaw.

>>17535184
dude thats rihanna