How do I flirt in ways that aren't just general kindness?
It's pretty difficult to see the difference between kindness and flirtation but here is the way I see it. First. Try to get in a zone with xx person where she does not see you as a friend but as a potential dating person. Also when you flirt try to drop in some compliments. Go out of your way to make xx person feel appreciated and cared for. Spend more time together and speak of more personal subjects.
>>17533601
Idk man, just sort of twinkle at her. If she twinkles back, you know there's something there.
>>17533601
i think the issue here is that you want to boil 'flirting' down into a universal signal.
flirting is a cohesive experience to the conversation and relationsihp as a whole. if ur going in with a pick up line, its not flirting, its picking up.
flirting requires taking what they say, and doing soemthing 'fun' with it.
touch them. I don't mean in a gross way. touch their arm when you're talking to them, or whatever. often clarifying. though scary.
>>17533915
oh my god anon
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>>17534033
Only as a girl is this acceptable, if you do this as a guy is the quickest way to creep the fuck out of people.
>>17534033
>touch them
hehe oh they are gonna get touched, be sure of it