ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

>>17533385
Claimed for Lain.

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>>17533391
>09/04/16(Sun)21:33:10 No.17533391
GOD DAMN MOTHER FUCK

>>17533385
Question for girls: Why would men harass if most girls just tell them to fuck off? Do any girls actually fall for perverts?

Does it mean anything that the girl I'm interested in frequently refers to me by my last name?

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>>17533405
Let's all love Lain.

>>17533412
This depends a lot on culture.

My mom's boyfriend is the closest thing I have to a boyfriend but he refuses to answer any of my questions even as a father, I don't want to hurt him how do I make him understand he needs to o participate?

>>17533381

>>17533416
We're both from the United States. She's from Alabama, if that helps.

Also, I've had friends refer to me by my last name before, but only because either they or a mutual friend had the same name as me. No one else in our friend group has my name, though.

>>17533412
Yeah she's retarded

>>17533440
I don't know how it is in the US but here, usually, you'll be called by how you were presented by friends.
Your friends will call you by your first name unless you were presented to them by another name, you have a nickname or you have the same first name as another friend (then both will be called by their last name).
Maybe this helps.

>>17533453
that's how it is for everyone i know except this girl

>>17533385
For Pegasus:

Should I eat the Mint Oreo icecream or Rum Raisin?

>>17533490
I think you should get the Mint Oreo

>>17533456
How were you presented to her?
Does she do this with other people?
Did you meet in a formal setting?
Maybe she likes your last name and/or dislikes your first name.
Maybe the name just clicked on her.
Try talking about names with her.

>>17533499
>How were you presented to her?
i don't remember, i think we just started talking to each other in class and figured out each other's names through others talking to us

>Does she do this with other people?
not that i'm aware of

>Did you meet in a formal setting?
we met in german class

>Maybe she likes your last name and/or dislikes your first name.
the first part of this is what i was leaning toward, because people do comment on my last name a lot

so it's not something that i should take as a sign that asking her out is doomed to end in failure, is what i'm getting from this?

>>17533490
forgive me pegasus i didn't severe ties ;-;

>>17533514
Yeah, sounds more like a personal quirk than anything.
I would talk to her about names first because i find this stuff fascinating (how people address each other and why).

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>>17533528
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5oScxIhZ6w

You can just be as emo and negative as humanly possible to drive her away as well

Works for me every time

>>17533554
give tips for how to be as emo as possible,damn this link is nice
downloaded it

I've been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks. We've only give out twice because our work schedules are really incompatible. I really like her but I don't know how she feels. I don't know how much our not going out is really work related and not just an indicator she's not interested. So is there a way to tell her without just flat out telling her? I feel like "confessions" are for teenagers, anime teenagers, and Catholics.

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>>17533575
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOWN6AXeKIg

Stick with this one even if you dont like the screamo part, she shows up again at the 4 minute mark or so

Also pic related is an example

>>17533586
i actually send her sometimes meassges similar to this in chat lel,once i tried talking to her she didn't reply for an hour or so,then i said wanna play a game? after two mins she replied i immediatly replied this ''at least u replied this time''
give me examples and songs links u are awesome pegasus

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>>17533603
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-tTmSY4m4M
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_PBy3Lwi4Lo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvknOXGPzCQ

That was a not fun night kek

>>17533627

don't they get angry/mad when we talk like this to them? lel
the important question is,did u stay?

first two were good

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRci-l11A0E

>>17533665
>not liking deftones

baka senpai

I did stay but she eventually cut contact which I agree was the right thing to do

Its pretty good to not feel dependent anymore

>>17533671
so you are telling me to be as emo and negative as possible to make her cut contact? wtf lel

you look like u experinced alot of shit senpai

forgive me my cat causes heavy allergies + i am in front of the ac and laying down so my nose is a bit stuffy and my voice nasally.

>>17533408
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0OZw2hvURde

>>17533412
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0mEqP0i5nRx

>>17533418
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0YOj2EwpMhj

>>17533490
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1TWVSFgdVKf

>>17533585
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1KCPw5uqv1L

>>17533681
I have

You could simply block her like I said a few days ago or you can go the emo route

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>>17533685
>http://vocaroo.com/i/s1TWVSFgdVKf

Are you the azn girl who made some youtube videos?

>>17533687
sad for you.
i think i will go with the emo route but i don't know what to expect

stupid song but i like it
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwpMEbgC7DA

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>>17533697
Not edgy enough

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GHT8NYffvY

Don't be sad for me, I probably deserve worse

>>17533704
are you a dick then,senpai ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xj1hWWU8JDE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0xLvhmUVq4

if you know berserk should i send her the rape scene link? where guts cuts his arm? lel maximum ''eww'' will be her reply kek

>>17533408
In my experience, Shut-in girls do often. Social butterflies tend to get scared a lot easier, especially if they don't know you well or already think you're weird for other reasons. Me personally, perverts aren't bad or good. But saying sexual things and thinking them are really diffrent. Like if I was your friend and you stared at my boobs it's actually kind of cute, but if you constantly talk to me about my boobs it's draining.

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>>17533720
Yeah man I love Berserk, go for it

I'm not an asshole all the time, but people seem to expose themselves to me and are somehow surprised when I don't lie to them about their weaknesses

An old samurai saying : “Dishonor is like a scar on a tree which time, instead of effacing only helps to enlarge"

question for the ladies. girl i dating didnt reply to my texts for a week. i assumed she was ghosting me so i sent her a message basically saying she is being immature and i blocking her etc. she replied to me saying that she was busy and she doesent want to be with me now because i had a go at her. i did over react but wouldent anyone of been annoyed if they where ignored for a week? she had time to talk with other people so she could of at least sent me a text. should i bother making it up to her? and if so, how?

Computer was updating so i gave myself a haircut and shaved off all my body hair for the hell of it.
Guys: any of you rockin the naked mole rat look?
Girls: what do you think about it? Assuming the guy's reasonably fit and has muscles under the hair.

>>17533412
She's a ROTC cadet

>>17533685
you sound like a nice girl, but why are you wasting your time making long-ass vocaroos for random weirdos on the internet

>>17533385
to girls,
if a girl you went in a couple of dates (handholding and some kisses) with hasn't texted you in two weeks, it means I should just move on, right?

>>17533739
you are a good person senpai,i want to ask for more advices but idk desu,u seem experienced. also that first song u typed its link is really good.

>>17533758
sadly for you yes probably, but i'm a khv so don't believe all what i say

>>17533691
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0MRfVisaLsA

>>17533749
why: http://vocaroo.com/i/s15zuRw3996a

look: http://vocaroo.com/i/s1WLpBdELXTr

>>17533758
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1F60h1Vvlxt

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>>17533770
I don't think I'm good, but if I can help people along the way I will

>>17533775
hey, i would really apreciate it if you could answer this for me, i have listened to your vacroo voices messages and your advice seems helpful

this is me >>17533742

>>17533775
don't go to r9k again REEEEEEE

>>17533806
alright Pegasus give me some tips uni life since i'm starting in two weeks or so

>>17533775
>>17533758
Ok, a little misunderstanding. I'm a guy, went in a couple of dates with this girl and then she stopped texting me.
I figured out that I just should move on.
But the thing is, this girl was the one that approached me in the first place.
Even at the start, when she told me that she liked me, I was really skeptic and turned her down, but she kept insisting so I decided to go out with her and see how it went.
The dates went as I expected ( 3 in total ), me struggling to make any kind of conversation and she just was quiet all the time and never said anything interesting.
I never really texted her first, except for a couple of times, and the last time we talked I asked if was something wrong because she hasn't talked to me that much and she said there was some personal issues but nothing to do with me, and that was back in august 22th.

So yeah, I don't really mind no talking to this girl anymore, I just find it weird that she was the one that approached me in the first place and then just disappears for not particular reason.

When I've set up a date with a girl from Tinder should I keep the convo going, or should I just stop texting until we meet up in person?

anyone who ever ate at taco bell:

why does sangrita blast give me the runs?
that is all.

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>>17533819
Prioritize sleep and homework over everything else

Don't be afraid to make a tutoring appointment if you are struggling with something

Make some friends as they can help you out with books/answers later on

>>17533829
ty for the advice,one last question from what anime is that pic?

>>17533836
Looks like Neverwinter Nights logo with some gay shit on the back

>>17533836
That pic was from Trigun

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzHe4U5c5Oc

>>17533848
>>17533836
i actually didn't mean the eye and sword one i meant the one with the guy carrying a cross but forgot to say i'm asking about it

>>17533845
Dragon Age: Inquisition =(

NWN Diamond is better than NW2 fight me

>>17533856
I understood what you meant, its Trigun

>>17533858
I agree, though.

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>>17533861
I'm about to reinstall it on my laptop now

how do you faggots keep female friends? I always forget to keep up conversations and I have literally nothing in common with any woman I've ever met.

for some reason this thread is semi-dead while some other days i can't load the page because alot of posts

>>17533860
thank you

>>17533872
Maybe its a sign

There's a reason guys hang out with other guys

>>17533872
most of the time i literally have to force conversation out of them, or the conversation will be heavily one sided with me mostly speaking. i think i do it by speaking my mind, and asking to odd question. i hope that they will see what i have said, and add to it, or speaking of something related to it and if not then answer the question i have asked.

>>17533871
Shit is cash money as fuck.

>>17533887
>tfw still have Icewind Dale sitting in the box unplayed

O-One day...

I still kinda like this girl and I feel like it's pathetic. We never had sex (my own repression) but I'm 99% sure she wanted to. Basically I've known her for a while but haven't seen her in person in almost a year because I was being a dick and she stopped coming around. Then we both went through some life changing shit and just never talked after that. She texted me earlier this year and idk, it was like, more than cordial. We just went in really deep about life and stuff. Anyway, I still think about her and it bugs me. Girls, what do you think?

>>17533882
that's true. I feel like I should have one or two though.

>>17533886
that's what I do too, but I can't always bring up interesting stuff and it gets tiring after a long time. I guess I'll just cruise along and wait to find someone who can match my interests.

>>17533742
I would say block her and don't say anything else. In this situation some women will tell any lie to prevent you from knowing she was gunna ghost you. Trust me. You can't fix it anyway and just about anyone would understand why you would be mad. She just wants to "win." In the future don't mention this kind of thing to a woman. You won't get anywhere.

How can I just be friends with a girl who wants more? I'm really not as into her as she's into me, but we have a lot of mutual friends and I actually really like hanging out with her(I'm just not sexually attracted to her), we've fooled around a couple times with alcohol involved and she's told me she always tells me she likes me, and I feel like it'd be pretty off putting to say it now that I just want to be friends, but I don't want to string her along, is a friendship even salvageable in a situation like this?

(I'm not expecting any exact answers since none of you know the girl or myself, but any advice I can take with a grain of salt would be appreciated)

>>17533914

you can probably stay friends but it'll never be the same. you telling her that you don't want more will put a dent in the relationship. she will either lose interest in you, at which point you'll drift apart, or she'll continue to pursue you, in which case you'll drift apart.

How did you get a job after college?

dating a busy girl
work and school

I feel I'm always in the way when I try to contact her
texts take hours to respond, no small talk over text (not a huge deal)

but I'm not sure what she wants? when we do meet up, it's always on her terms. it's date #5 now, soon. I'm no expert at dating either. am I trying too much? do I want for her to contact me? how much should I get in the way? I want to be a part of her life, I mean, more. definitely

does she just want me floating in the background? until she's free? all my last girlfriends were text Queens, so this is a little different. I feel like even my how is your day goings just worthless and can't establish anything because be will text me 4 or 5 hours later

Is it a good or a bad idea to date someone with different religious beliefs?

>>17534102
It matters what religions and how serious they take it. Most atheists are laid back and don't care either way. My fiancé is agnostic and I am a Christian with warped beliefs. (Like I believe in evolution and don't hate gay people.) and we've gotten along just fine for 5 years.

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>>17534117
>Most atheists are laid back and don't care either way.

>>17534117
So if you're interested in someone who's not very religious and you're not very religious either but either of your parents are very religious is there any to way to try justify it to them?

>>17534135
Really Religious people don't let up easy. If they don't approve of your relationship it's better to just let them be bitter at you. If they can't understand you really love someone, what can you do?

>>17534117
>Most atheists are laid back and don't care either way

Kek. Agnostic is the laid back one friend, atheists get pretty riled up about religion.

>>17534124
Am I wrong? Yeah, they love to talk about there not being a God every chance they get but when it comes to a relationship I've never seen them hate someone just because they have a religion.

To Girls,
when a girls start sucking her fingers while in a skype call with a guy, does it mean anything?

>>17534169
I'm a guy but this is such a fucking minor thing I'd forget about it

>>17534147
>Agnostic

That's a meme. It's just atheism without the atheism.

Amazingly obese Atheist, Repshit, and Somefaggot837, and I think Oni's Onion are not good representatives of atheism. What you've seen are fedoras.
>inb4 like u, kid c:
nice try.

>>17534150
You're talking to a pepe.

Ladies and girls

Will my gf of a few weeks get mad/angry if I stop fucking sending her good morning texts?
She has a real cozy schedule and wakes up really late while I wake up early so she only responds hours later.

Thing is at the beginning I was really clingy and texted her all day long, but I realizes it does nothing basically, and I would also feel better to send a kiss or so over text once a day or whatever.

I think it's kinda pathetic of me to send her good morning texts every single day, but I think she'll believe something is wrong if I stop, since I've been doing this shit from day 1

How do I get a super shy girl stop being super shy around me? We've been seeing each other for weeks now and I've become pretty comfortable around her but she still seems nervous. She's made no attempts to get close or anything. She's never been in a relationship before so I can understand it kind of. Honestly it's getting on my nerves a little, this relationship is developing super slow. I've made all of the moves so far.

>>17534254
You don't. You either wait for her to come out of her shell (may never happen, mind you), or you forget about her

>>17534249
How the fuck are we supposed to know?

>>17534169
I'm pretty sure there's a question in the OP about this

>>17534102
Probably, depending on how serious they and their families take their religion

>>17533938
She's got other things going on in her life. If you can handle that, continue dating her, if you can't and need constant attention, then don't bother. If you want to know the answers to those questions you posed, ask her, not us

>>17533937
You apply for them

>>17534254
Be patient and understanding and move at her pace for now.

While this happens gradually try to broaden her comfort zone by first going out for coffee and movies together so she gets used to being with you around you in a social environment. Then when she feels comfortable enough you can meet each others friends.

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So I had a fallout with a girl just this Wednesday. We have had a thing for a month, I told her my feelings, she said she doesn't want to hurt me because I'm joining the marines and leaving.

I invited her to a going away party for my friend yesterday, and we were having a blast. We were outside relaxing, drinking, swimming by ourselves. We were on each other all night until she left, which was around the time I was piss drunk.

Texted her earlier today, and we got into a tiny dispute, now she doesn't want to talk to me. Her friend doesn't like me anymore, I feel bad, but we had a good time last night talking to one another and getting over what happened.

What should I do to save whatever we have? I still like her and have feelings.

>>17534102
It depends on them and on you.
If they're a mormon and you're a fedora tipping atheist, it might not work out.

I'm atheist, I am dating a Christian.
I respect faith, I just don't have one. He's Christian, but not the "I have a flu" "you need Jesus in your life" kind of Christian - he minds his own business, goes to Church, reads the Gospel, does charity.
There's more to me than my lack of faith and more to him than his faith. He believes in a very accepting kind of Christianity and never said a bad word about anybody - gays, transexuals, divorced people, whatever.
If we have kids, we agreed to raise them Christian because it's a good set of moral rules.

>>17534281
>>17534276
Alright, also wondering if I should get closer like try to hold her hand or something or just keep going out and doing things and wait for her to do something. I don't want to get into the situation where it seems I've become disinterested in her or where she's waiting for me to do something.

>>17534316
I'm in the same situation. Monitoring thus thread in hopes of an answer.

I also don't want to appear like I'm not interested in her and for her to wait for me to do something.

>>17534295
Selfbump, hoping for help here.

>>17534295
You don't.
She said that she doesn't want to be with you before last night.
You had a fun night. It wasn't enough to fix it.
She still doesn't want you, and said it again.
Move on.

>>17534316
I don't see any harm in trying to hold her hand, or even going further. The main thing is that you back off and apologise if she ever seems uncomfortable with anything you do.

>>17534254
>>17534316
I think I was like that once. If I had heard the guy was annoyed or impatient with me I would've left thinking he's an enormous asshole trying to pump and dump me.

>She's made no attempts to get close or anything.
>I've made all of the moves so far.
Yeah, sounds like me. It's always been really hard for me to make friends and I had never been in a romantic relationship before. In fact, I hadn't even been friends with a male. I was insecure, terrified and ready to run at any moment. Now that we're in a relationship I'm a lot more outgoing around him, initiating most affection and whatnot. It's not like she's going to remain in her shell forever.

Talking and opening up socially became easier as the relationship got more physical. But I always let him make the first move because I was still shy and insecure thus afraid of being turned down. I would never have hugged him first even if I wanted to, I didn't have the courage to even suggest that.

So yes, I started feeling more comfortable around him as he broke the touch barrier bit by bit. First by accident, then by playfully poking at me and hugging me goodbye. Poking quickly became tickling and tickling became playfighting. We started cuddling when we watched movies and that led to sex eventually.

>>17534418
>>17534421
Thank you this is really helpful.

>>17533685
>http://vocaroo.com/i/s1KCPw5uqv1L
Well, I ended up telling her. I didn't hear anything back and likely never will. I'm not surprised at the outcome, but I am surprised that despite knowing how it would end, it still kind of hurts.

>>17534249
>if I stop fucking sending her good morning texts?
Do people actually do this stuff? Always seemed like an incredibly forced thing to me.

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>>17534147
>atheists get pretty riled up about religion.
Maybe if we're talking about internet atheists, like the people who go to r/atheism.

I'm atheist and so are most of the people I know, but no ones been enough of a chode to go on some rant about it. The only time it's been an issue was when I was dating a religious chick and it turned out she thought I was going to hell but her abusive ex wasn't due to my lack of faith.

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I guess this is for girls and guys

I have two girls that want me, and I want to date one of them but I can't fucking decide which one.

Girl A
>really nice body
>huge ass
>great in bed
>creative and artistic
>nice
>very anxious/depressed, cries easily
>daddy issues

Girl B
>10/10 face
>honest and loyal
>meh body, but still fuckable
>kind of boring in bed
>very smart
>likes vidya
>funny sometimes
>kind of tsundere, doesn't show affection much
>slutty past
>somewhat boring personality

Which one would you waifu?

>>17534242
>Repshit
I thought Repzion was christian and it was a source of conflict with banana man?

It appears my knowledge of internet drama is out of date.

>>17534494
College student atheists do the ranting shit in real life though. I've been to a few parties with some of those fags and the moment religion is mentioned, they just start spewing shit about it.

>>17534496
girl B, apparently she's very smart relative to you, so you should pick her.

>>17534496
B sounds like the best choice overall. Both have some bad problems but you really don't want a gf with daddy issues that cries easily, I've been there and it will annoy the shit out of you.

>>17534496
I'm more inclined towards A, but a large chunk of that is because tsundere shit is grossly overrated.

>>17534500
The most zealous are new recruits. These are kids in their 20's trying to figure out what they are, once they mature they generally mellow out. There are lots of other ideologies that people in their age group go retarded with.

>>17534496
So either date a crazy bitch or a meh ex-slut
Damn it, you're a lucky man.

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>>17534509
You just summed it up better than I ever could. Fuck being lonely though.

I'm probably gonna end up going with B but I wanna fuck A one more time.

>>17534519
>I'm probably gonna end up going with B but I wanna fuck A one more time.

das it mane

but beware of A since the crazy ones will try to fuck your shit up if you hurt them

Guys. If your gf was a virgin when you first met, and she made it clear she wouldn't touch you unless you were clean, tested, and not a cheater, and you hadn't been tested in a long time, you HAD cheated on your past two serious girlfriends, would you lie? Would you say "no" to the question, "Was there anyone else in between your last gf and me?" even though the girl you cheated with was?

If you did lie... would you ever expect to be forgiven? Especially if this came up a year down the line?

>>17533685
You think a girl couldn't ask such a stupid question don't you
I just want him to answer me, why do you want to mate

>>17534538
If I had to deal with a virgin being this damn anal (kek) to maybe even the remotely have the possibility of getting some, I'd probably go off with someone else.

Girls

If you are depressed, would you rather have your SO with you or just cry it out alone? My girl is depressed and I want out if the second part is true.

>>17534538
Don't ever tell your girl that you've cheated. No woman would ever afford this honesty to a man.
It's harsh but true. Leave it in the past.

>>17534499
He was a christian when he was a tiny baby utuber. Things happened. Edgy teenage things. Then he became atheist.

Now, when you say banana man, which one? A guy who used a banana as a butttoy or a guy dressed as a banana?

\If the former, they're buttbuds for some reason. Fuck, even assbananas sponsored that twigboi.

Latter, of course, is a given.

Tho let's be honest: This generates income to both of them.

>>17534582
The ass one. Onision is a level of crazy I've avoided for a long one. I've never understood why he was so popular either, he has BPD written all over him.

>>17534573
Being depressed and being sad are different.
I had been depressed for a few years and the most prevalent symptoms are apathy and exhaustion, or at least it was for me.
I didn't even feel sad most days, I just felt off.

If I am sad, I appreciate having my SO with me. Having a shoulder to cry on is great.

There are a few things that my SO can do when I'm depressed
>Be alone with me
Sit next to me without talking to me, just smiling at me when I look at him or caressing me from time to time. It makes me feel less lonely.
>Respect my feelings
Do not tell me shit like "Why can't you just be happy/study/do this?". It's like asking a cancer patient to stop having cancer. I can't fucking stop feeling depressed just because I really want to.
>Listen to me
Just listen. Without giving me advice. Just making me talk.
>Share the chores with me
It was a bit overwhelming for me to take care of the house, or food. I appreciated when my boyfriend took time to share the chores and do things with me, it made me feel motivated.
>Create a schedule with me
We both wake up at 8. We have breakfast together. We do the chores together. We study in the same room.
>Help me to get help
Depression rarely goes away alone. I am very grateful that my boyfriend helped me to get professional help.

Most important of all, communicate. Ask her what she needs, discuss everything, be present.
Do not take her depression personally. Do not even hint that it's your fault if she's depressed or you're not doing enough. Whatever you do for her is more than you're expected to do.

>>17534597
Thank you so much for all that advice! I will see it that she gets a ton of attention and be with her whenever possible.

>>17534615
There are some good videos on understanding depression by TED, try watching it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-IR48Mb3W0

>>17534590
Let's be honest on that one, teens like anything.

His fanbase is literal teens. I would bet that half his subs even forgot who he was already because they grew up (or watched twiggy's vids on him...amongst everyone else's.)

Come to think of it, aside from those 3 clowns, the ranting community (yes, they're known as that) is dead. There's a Neo-Ranting community, but that one's actually worse, as they bathe even more in 'drama' than any of them ever did.

Worse yet, these guys have more millions in subs and views than the former 3 ever dreamed of.

>>17534627
>There's a Neo-Ranting community
How does that even work? Are they just a new clique that dislikes the old one?

>>17533554
what test is this, ive taken it before.

>>17534630
Not exactly. I say Neo because it's the same format as the last guys, only with different figureheads, and it's MUCH bigger than the last form. It just blew every old dude away. They sometimes reference them, but it's just the major 3 I mentioned that get it most.

For example: Keemstar and Leafy are the new meta's Onision.

Pyrocynical, Kind ale, H3h3, and IHE are basically Neo-Repzions.

The new AAs are...ungodly high in amounts. Basically, every. single. damn. Feminist- bashing, anti-"SJW" utuber ever. These guys are only entertaining because they're so venomous towards extremely stupid/insane people.

Boogie plays the role of that one 'neutral' kid who just wants to 'STOP DA DWAMA Q~Q'. Oh, and he makes blogs about his everyday life (spoilers: It's fucking sad). Come to think of it, aside from viral news reporting, they all blog.

Mostly, they all circlejerk each other with drama, banter 'round, or bitch about anything barely resembling news like youtube's new ad-policy.

Think of it as everyone playing a more boring PMRants.

You can check them out if you wish, but I say do it with adblock. Incognito is good, but you're still giving them a legal-view

So yesterday I went to a party and what I saw was pretty confusing. I'm the friendless guy who just stands in corner or ocassionally talks with someone he knows asking normie questions and not really caring for answers.
So how do you feel about this: another guy invited a girl to dance. They spun around a little and then he started kissing her neck. It seemed like at first she tried to protest, but she just lied in his hands doing nothing. This repeated for some time, and when he finished, this girl looked pretty stressed while speaking with her friend.
Then this same guy invited another girl, she literally protested to this kissing and tried to push the guy away. He tried to force it, but after some time with no success, he just shoved her away.
Both girls and guys can answer to this.

>>17534707

I dont think its too bad. Many worse things.

>>17534496
Girl A, but probably cos I feel like that describes me to an extent, with just less crying.

Are lots of girls obsessed about having more followers on Instagram than people they follow?

Last year I travelled to another country on a placement and made some new friends. One of them was a girl I got on really well with (nothing romantic, she had a boyfriend). When I left the country and returned home, she'd post things on my Instagram photos like 'Omg I miss you!!', and she'd 'like' at least 50% of my photos. Then one day I noticed I'd lost a follower (and I don't have too many to begin with), and worked out that she'd unfollowed me. Now it's not the worst thing in the world because I wasn't expecting to ever see her again in person, but it would have been nice to keep in touch now and then over social media, because I did get on with her really well. I don't think I offended her in any way, because she carried on 'liking' my photos right up until she unfollowed me, and we weren't really in any sort of direct contact. I can only think that she must have decided she needed to get rid of some people she followed so that she could have more followers than followees, which is a little bit sad but more weird than anything else. I've noticed girls doing exactly the same thing with me in the past, but that was girls from school who I never talked to or cared about, so I just unfollowed them back straight away and didn't really think about it.

Females,

Is it unexciting(not sure if this word exists) or even a turn-off to you if a guy only enjoys vanilla sex?

Sure, i also enjoy anal and oral (both giving and receiving), and i did it using a blindfold and handcuffs once, but what really gets me off, what really drives me crazy is fucking a girl deep into the mattress, with her legs locked behind me as we kiss passionately, listen to each other breathing heavily and feel each other's warm body. This is what makes me orgasm and cum until my balls are empty.
I enjoy other positions too, of course, but nothing beats good ol' passionate lovemaking in missionary position with lots of cuddling afterwards.

Lame isn't it?
Would potential partners think i'm outdated and lame?

How would you feel?

>>17534750
Not a girl but just do some domination bullshit like pulling her hair and spanking her maybe putting your hands around her throat once in a while combined with the vanilla sex and you'll be fine. I basically just like missionary and doggy style and vanilla shit but at girls want to feel dominated by someone big and strong in bed sometimes.

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>>17534636
It's the 4Degreez test, we all took it a while back in this big-ass thread
It's pretty much garbage (literally just takes sentences from the definitions of the disorders), i actually do fit pic related, but the only reason i can get such high quality results is because i know those definitions inside and out, and know exactly how to interpret them (eg when a question asks "do you feel uncomfortable around people in X way" you have to know whether it's asking about the paranoid way, the apprehensive way, the anxious way, or the antisocial way, and what those all mean, otherwise you'll mistakenly give yourself points for the wrong disorder).
Most anons got impossible-to-interpret results, like pegasus there.
Also the "antisocial" scale is broken and gives everyone "moderate".

A very good example of why one should not use shitty online quizzes to gauge their mental health.

>>17533749
>She's a ROTC cadet

she isn't
i'm somewhat interested in a girl that is an rotc cadet, but she's not the one i'm talking about right now

>>17534750
It is not lame at all.
It is nice, it is the position that makes me cum most and it shows intimacy.
Of course it's nice to spice it up/variate it sometimes, but there's no need to go full dungeon porn.
Something super basic like her on top, or changing "location", or doggy, or sex while spooning is more than enough for me.

I am a man going on a first date with a woman soon.

Now, I am 27 but I haven't dated in the last 8 years, so I am kinda nervous.

What should I absolutly avoid doing?

>>17534276
>You apply for them

Meep Merp no shit.


I mean what else helps? My parents are upper middle class yet chose to live in a shitty area with horrible employment because of family. I can't get enployment with them either because they work for the local school system.

>>17534889
Girls are more technologically hip these days, so they might get bored if you don't adapt to the culture. Show her a couple of meme folders just to get her started and know you have a hobby. Girls like a man who can show he has dedication to something.

After she warms up to you, bring her to your place so you can watch a pirated movie on your laptop. If you make microwave popcorn you'll probably get your cock sucked.

>>17534901
>If you make microwave popcorn you'll probably get your cock sucked.
But I don't want to get that fake butter shit on my dick

>>17534889
Pretending to be something you cant commit to for the sake of impressing her and being found out later.
And wearing leather

>>17535052
Does a leather jacket counts if it's chilly?

>>17534750

My past relationship was basically missionary sex plus me giving oral. There were times where I missed other things I had experienced before but the sex always felt very.. intimate for a lack of a better word. I loved seeing his half-lidded eyes before his mouth would attack mine. I think it strengthened our bond quicker when we started having sex in the beginning of our relationship. I miss the man, the relationship and the sex so I'll go cry now.

How could I approach an attractive woman while being honest but without being an asshole?

>>17535052
>wearing leather
what is wrong with wearing leather?

Girls

Do you actually value your male friends? or are they just viewed as expendable/replaceable?

a female, who I consider a very close friend just started being very short with me the past month. for no reason. Just she reads my texts and rarely replies. But she's always posting on Facebook and always on Whatsapp..

Fucking why? I mean, even if she is dating a new guy, cool. That's fine. But why flat out ignore a real friend? I mean, if I had a girlfriend. I'd let her know who my friends are, and explain to her that these people are important to me, and I want her to respect that.

>>17535089
He is saying TO wear leather.

What he said was to make the girl chase him by making himself seem unavailable and wear leather because girls find it hot; after they get along better he reveals his true self.

Basically a mixture of what assholes and long-term people do.

>>17535095
Completely depends on how much I care about them.
I have 5 people who truly are my friends. I wouldn't stop talking to any of them for any reason. Two of them are guys. I always talk to them and hang out with them. I make time for them whatever happens. I would dump my boyfriend on the spot if he tried to make me stop talking to them.
Everyone else is a transitory/replaceable friendship or just an acquaintance. I don't care about them nearly as much. So if it's a busy period and I don't have time for things I don't truly value, I just ghost them.
Probably she didn't care about you as much, or she's busy.

>>17535111

That would really hurt. she told me in the past that she cares about me. She would come to me for advice, and I've really helped her out when she was in bad times. so for her to just "ghost" me would be really hurtful.

she's told me "excuse me, I've been so busy I don't have time to talk or think"

So I told her I'd give her space, and to text me when she wants to talk. But that was like 2 weeks ago. She's on vacation right now posting smiling pictures all over Facebook. And it always says she's online on Whatsapp. But she never texted me back

It just makes me feel like shit, like even after everything I've done for her. That I'm worthless..

>>17535121
Well - Probably she didn't value you as much as you value her. It sucks, but.

How long have you been friends for? Do you share interests/passions? Do you have feelings for her?

>>17535098
oh, alright, cool. i like to wear leather jackets myself.

>>17535140
Note that i'm not the one giving the advice, just explaining it.

>>17535131

>How long have you been friends for?
a year

>Do you share interests/passions?
Yes

>Do you have feelings for her
Yes, but I know a relationship isn't going to happen. so I'm not expecting anything.


this just really makes me upset. Because she's told me she cares about me, and that she was grateful that I'm her good friend. she's come to me before even going to her best friend about troubles she was having. Including she had a severe panic attack, and instead of going to family or friends. She called me. She came to me for advice, and she used to help me when I was down too.

But all of a sudden, she just starts ignoring me. why? Like I said, if she is seeing a guy, I don't care. That's fine. I just want to stay friends with her

>>17535150
Dude.
You're not her friend. You're her orbiter.
You're a source of reassurance, validation, affection when she's feeling like crap.
That is not friendship. Friendship is mutual.

You have feelings for her. She doesn't have feelings for you. Your relationship is flawed because you don't feel the same thing for each other.
She probably knows you have feelings for her, and she has been stringing you along for a year.
Use this as a chance to move on and stop putting yourself in the friendzone.
She is dating someone else and doesn't need that reassurance, validation and affection from you.

Might sound stupid, but I got asked out by a real girl on a dating site. That surprises me a little. Anything that I should read into that?

Are there even women that can honestly say they aren't turned on by other women? I have become convinced that pretty much all women are bisexual to some extent.

>>17535196
Make sure you meet her in a public place so you know your kidneys are safe.

>>17534743
bumping my question

Looking for an answer from "slutty" femanons
>be chilling with friends
>want to bang one of them
>he goes off into the night
>walk him to the door
>asks for a kiss
>give him one
How awkward is this? I was pretty drunk and regretted it pretty badly the next day, and i cannot for the life of me get into her head as to what she thinks about it. Did i mess stuff up a bit? I like her a lot.

>>17535204
A couple of friends of mine are disgusted by the idea of having sex with another girl.
Like, you can see them genuinely cringe when lesbian stuff is on tv.

GF never asks me anywhere. Every time we go out it's because I ask her. I'm tired of this one sided shitfest

>but anon, you must communicate
I did (note that I said "I did" and not "we did"), and it amounts to
>you're always so needy, you always ask for X or Y, let me do something for you too

but then I wait, and wait and waity and nothing happens and she goes
>what's wrong anon? Is everything ok? Why are you so distant? Talk to me

Then I tell her what's wrong, and she starts acting like a gf again for a day, then it's back to "normal"

I'm TIRED OF THIS. I WILL SERIOUSLY CRACK ONE DAY...
and when I do, there'll be tears.

>>17535180

I don't want to explain our whole thing because it's a lot.

But whether what you said is right or wrong. It makes me feel angry.

>>17535214
>our whole thing
Dude, there is always a deeper thing into it. You spent a year with her for fucks sake.
But i doesn't change the surface. You are her orbiter and nothing you said points the other way. That anon is right.
Everytime orbiters try to hang on the deeper level of the relationship, everytime, as if it changes the basic.
Maybe the pyramid of your "friendship" had a golden eye on top of it but it's base is still made out of shit.

>>17535231

I don't see how. I mean she's always enjoyed talking to me, we've had a ton of fun together in the past. On my birthday she wrote me a long, hand written letter that she put a lot of thought into. She's done lots of nice things for me. I've enjoyed her company, and she's enjoyed mine. But then, it all just randomly stops. I don't get it.

She literally told me "I'm grateful for you, you are such a amazing friend to me"..


You're saying it's all a lie?

>>17535240
I'm saying it didn't matter.
She could've thought you were the greatest person in the world but now she doesn't care.
Like i said, shit foundation with the golden eye on top.

>>17535240
> she's always enjoyed talking to me, we've had a ton of fun together in the past
> I've enjoyed her company, and she's enjoyed mine.
Barely means anything. I enjoy spending my time with a lot of people, but very few of them are friends.

>he wrote me a long, hand written letter that she put a lot of thought into
That's some borderline relationship shit she did to string you along. You don't do this kind of super-feelingy things for a person who is your friend.

It wasn't necessarily a lie, or something she did consciously. Probably she's immature and insecure. But this doesn't look like friendship to me.
When you're in doubt, just wonder if you and this girl would have the same relationship if she had a cock and a beard.

>>17534488
Yes. My ex boyfriend would get really upset with me because I didn't like sending good morning or goodnight texts.

>>17535206
She asked me out on a coffee date, so I guess it's pretty safe.

Girls: what's the best way for a guy to break up with you so it hurts you the least? I need to break up with my gf soon. It's unfortunately inevitable. She likes me a lot. I want to be as gentle about it as possible and I don't want to be an asshole about it. It's not her fault either, so it really is something like "it's not you, it's me."

>>17535307

I'd want him to be straightforward and honest. No bullshit excuses and no pitying me if he happens to break my heart. Just do it quickly, simply and then disappear to give her time to get over it.

Reposting from the last thread because no response:
Hey /adv/, I'm looking for some help with talking to a girl in my class at college. I started off this semester (Sophomore Fall) hoping to become more extroverted and actually build confidence with girls. So far, it's been a mediocre start.

I got one girl's number so we could drink and chill sometime, but I don't know how to approach her otherwise and actually start talking to her outside of that. We have one class together, but I have no idea how to bring it up in conversation or follow up and start building that friendship.

There's another girl I want to talk to in two of my classes but I don't know how to even approach her or continue a conversation without it getting awkward. I'm constantly worried about being awkward, getting made fun of, or having people hate me/think I'm weird. Which leads me to the next issue:

I was hanging with my roommates at some girls' dorm on our floor. Everyone was drinking and having a good time, but I felt so awkward being there I wasn't talking to anyone because I had no idea what to say. I went back to the dorm early because I was scared that it'd look bad if I just stayed there without talking that much. Is there any way to stop being such a loser? Thanks, guys.

>>17535335
This is the correct answer. Do it and get it over with.

Either:

If you ask someone about their weekend and they say it's good, even without you, what would they mean by that?

>>17535349
You're reading too much into it nigga

Why do girls feel the need to post public pictures on facebook? I've been seeing my gf for 7 months and she still does it. Its my first gf ever so I have no idea if it should bother me or not.

Only reason I can think of is she wants other guys to add her as a friend.

>>17535389
Public pictures as?
Her in a bikini pressing her boobs together or a pic of her dog?
Probably she just isn't aware of her privacy settings. My facebook is all "friends only", but many friends of mine never thought about this kind of stuff.

>>17535213
Help me with this issue please.
How can I overcome this deficit in communication?
I don't want my anger to boil and burn slowly until it bursts in a surge of negative emotions.

>>17535378
I thought it was innocent, saying that the person was missed, but they misunderstood. I want to know what went wrong.

Girls: if I like a girl, then just receiving a simple message makes me all happy and giddy. Do you have those emotions? Is it possible for you to like a guy and get all hypes up whenever he messages you?

>>17535407
She is well aware of the privacy settings. All kinds of pictures really. Nothing too revealing or anything but still. Does she really need that much attention from other guys?

>>17533822
Stop until the date

>>17535421

Totally. I still get this with my boyfriend and we've known each other for about eight years (although we've only been together for around eight months).

>>17535425
You're assuming she's putting pictures up to attract other guys. Some people just put up pictures because they like putting up pictures.

You're paranoid, dude.

>>17535389

It's social media, where anyone be social with whomever they want, even strangers. Meeting new people or finding old friends/acquaintances is easier to do if whatever is posted is public. Just because you are insecure, you don't really have the right to control her social habits.

>>17535455
>its okay for your gf to want to meet other guys

Found the cuck

>>17535472

Because something like facebook is clearly about meeting guys, of course. It's not Tinder, it's just a site where people can show off their life to other people. Start worrying when she puts up open profiles on dating sites. Facebook, Instagram etc. are just about vanity and attention seeking.

>>17535487
So she just wants attention and I should not give a fuck?

Should I ask that she puts a picture of us together ? There are a few pictures of us but its at parties with other people so its not 100% clear that we are together

>>17535498

If you ask, it might be weird. Just take her to some place nice for a date or something and suggest taking a picture of you two. If it's a good one the chances are that she'll want to publish it on her own accord. If she doesn't want to, then you can get a bit paranoid, because she might be hiding you. Win win.

>>17534295
Self bump again. Need help here

>>17535254

I feel like shit right now...

>>17535509
We were on a vacation together. There are plenty of pictures with us in nice places. She said to me once that she would have put a picture of us but that would lower the amount of likes she gets on pics.

How the fuck should that make me feel.

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>>17535545
She is an attentiowhore and will drop you or cheat on you as soon as your attention gets boring or not enough

That's how you should feel

>>17535545

Ah, she's that type who seeks internet popularity and likes at any cost. Basically, she just wants to be internet famous and you don't really fit into that agenda. Not much you can do about it, it sounds like its something of a hobby/obsession for her, if you interfere with it she might lash out.

>>17535545

That's offensive actually

>>17534743
one last bump for my one

>>17535562

That whole Instagram follower thing sounds extremely childish.

>>17535569
Yeah I know - it is pretty childish, but even so, Instagram was the way I expected to keep in touch with her (and the other friends I made) after I got home, because it's the only social media I use regularly. Like I say it's not the worst thing in the world that she unfollowed me because I didn't expect to have much to do with her in the future anyway, but all the same I'd like to understand why she isn't interested in keeping in touch with me, especially when she seemed so friendly to me before and nothing really changed from that.

Why do girls always think its okay to hit and berate their boyfriends? I can't take this anymore. I just want someone to fucking be nice to me

>>17535589

I'm in the same boat as you mean, a foreign friend who was dear to me is doing that same shit. I don't know why

>>17535606

What happened?

>>17535606

If your gf was halfway decent she wouldn't think it's okay. Break up, move on and find someone who's actually nice to you.

>>17535609
Male or female friend? Like I said, it's happened to me before a few times with female 'friends' who were just people I half-knew at school and never really talked to. It happened a couple of times with one girl - she followed me so I followed back, a few weeks later she unfollowed so I unfollowed back. A few months later and she followed me again so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and followed back again, and then she unfollowed me again a few weeks later, so once again I unfollowed her back.

I can only assume that it's some sort of social status thing for girls to (a) have lots of followers on Instagram and (b) be followed by more people than they follow. Makes them feel like a celebrity or something.

>>17535611
Everytime something doesn't go her way she either starts smacking me (often when other people are present) or viciously attacking my character. Shes said some pretty fucked up shit to me even in front of my parents. Just last week she I tearfully asked her jist to be nice to me for once and she said, "find another fucking girlfriend then". I ignored her afterward and she apologized but blamed it on me for never explaining my problems to her. But the reason I never do is because everytime I come to her with a problem she just explodes on me for some reason

>>17535606
No decent girl thinks it's fine to hit or berate their boyfriend.
Leave. Abusive people do not change.

>>17535625

Female

Except for this one, I became close with. I shared stuff with her I didn't even tell my best friends. We both told each other everything. Then, out of nowhere she stopped talking to me

>>17535626

You're in an abusive relationship. Leave her. Immediately.

>>17535626

Jesus Christ

Anon... Call her fucking ass right now and just say "I'm done"

Seriously, do it right now. You don't deserve to be abused. She obviously doesn't care about you. Don't take this shit!!!

Don't wait! Fucking get it done

Just reading your post angers me. I want to slap that bitch myself.

>>17535631
How would I even go about that? She has a lot of emotional issues and would probably end up hurting herself

To anyone,
Girl that I'm seeing has a (female) dog that she loves a lot.
The problem is this dog of her was her previous boyfriend's dog and he gave it to her when they broke up because he couldn't take care of it.
So, every time I see this girl taking care of the dog I feel like she will never move on from this last guy as long as the dog is part of her life.
Their relationship lasted for about 3 years and they broke up early this year (around January). For what she told me, he cheated on her (for a long time) and was expecting a child with another girl, so that's why she ended it.
Are my concerns justified or I'm just being a whining bitch?

>>17535641
She won't.
If she's threatening you with this bullshit, it's too late. Fucking leave and never look back.
Her happiness is not your responsibility.

>>17535641

Man up. Break up with her. Right now.

>>17535641

Not your problem if she does. Sometimes you just have to think of your own well-being first and this is definitely one of those occasions. Rather she hurt herself than hurt you continuously. You deserve better.

>>17535647
I'll talk to her about it tonight when she gets off of work. I hope I'll have the strength to do it

>>17535645
You're being a whiny bitch.
It's a living being. What is she supposed to do? Throw the dog in the middle of a street because it belonged to her ex?
Don't be a cunt.

>>17535630
Did you offend her in some way or fall out over something? Seems weird she'd drop you just like that if you were close friends.

>>17535654
well, my concern isn't "should she get rid of the dog to get a in proper relationship?"
but rather "isn't too early for her to be moving to another relationship while still keeping a constant and live reminder of her previous one?"

>>17535645
You're being a whiny bitch. The dog isn't the problem. You are.

>>17535674
Dogs take 7-13 years to die.
Unless you expect her to be single for 10 years or kill/abandon the dog, there's not much she can do.
If she dates you, assume she feels ready to move to another relationship.

>>17535657

No, she's been stressed over some things. But I didn't do anything. I've re-read our texts and I don't know

>>17534295
Rebumping. Some already replied, and I do agree to a degree with him. Can anyone still help me out?

Girls and guys

I'm 26, and for the last few years I've been great about controlling my sex drive and keeping it down. But the past few weeks it's driving me fucking crazzzyy. I have the urge to date. But the problem is I'm not in the position to take girls out on dates, and won't be for a few years.

How do I control this? Also, I quit fapping. It wasn't good for me, because it made me feel
Nervous throughout the day. since I stopped I feel more level.

>>17535775
why aren't you able to date at the moment?
what about other activities like excising to spend your energy on?

>>17534249
Me and my boyfriend do it, I even remember going back to sleep on the weekends until he'd wake up and say good morning (I used to get up earlier during the week)
I personally like it

>>17535786

>why aren't you able to date at the moment?

I'm a 26 year old male who works a lot, and currently lives in his mom's basement. I can't imagine any 26 year old girl being ok with that. Plus, I'm moving to a different State next year. once I get there I'm starting a vocational program, which is 10 hours a day, 6 days a week for 5 months long. I'll be so busy I won't have time for girls at all. Or money cause I'll be broke

>>17535775
Just ride it out I suppose. Or maybe start fapping again. It might relive some sexual frustration.

On the other hand maybe you should just give into the urge to date, it's normal to want to find a partner that you can share your life with. I think if you met a girl who cared about you and was willing to stick with you during a transitional/not so great phase of your life then she'd definitely be a keeper.

Girls, I'm a soon to be 20 year old virgin. If I were to find a girlfriend sometime soon, do you think she'd be willing to deal with my inexperience or is that a complete dealbreaker/turnoff?

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Question for everybody more or less. So I go to school with this girl who I think is pretty cute. This is our last school year before graduation and I really want a girlfriend and lose my virginity. I am a pretty chubby guy but more or less well liked. The problem however is that I barely know the people I go to class with outside of school since I had to redo one school year. The girl Im talking about is attractive to me but wouldnt be called objectively attractive, to most probably a 5/10 or lower. So she doesnt really get all that much male attention. I only have two classes with her and she sits on the other end of the room in both more or less. The view conversations I had with her however, despite how short they were, went pretty well and she laughed at jokes I made. Friday our whole class threw a party and the one time she wanted me to let her pass she smiled at me. As far as I can tell she isnt really a person who smiles at everyone. So should I try my luck and how would I do that? I have no real contact to her and barely time left to build a deep relationship before making my interests clear.

>>17535838
>do you think she'd be willing to deal with my inexperience
Yes
>is that a complete dealbreaker/turnoff
For some people it may be, but not for most

>>17535828


I just think it would be really difficult to find a girl that's ok dating a poor 26 year old who lives with his mom. At least where I live, most people my age have degrees, live on their own, and are already working in a career..

I quit fapping tho because I used to fap 3 times a day everyday. it was too much because it messed with my chemical balance. Since I stopped I feel better, more energized and focus.

I had sex with this guy (he's my first so I'm obviously new to this) and I tried to go for round 2 when it had only been a few minutes I guess, he was hard enough that it could go in but it was more difficult and like floppy. I didn't think about it at the time but now I'm so embarrassed that I didn't give him more time and that he must think I'm retarded. Am I overanalyzing? How much time do guys need to 'rest'? Is it okay to start having sex again without being completely hard or was it uncomfortable for him?

>>17535857
Does he know you were a virgin? Then it's okay. But normally you should allow something like 20 minutes for a guy to regain strength for another round.

>>17535857

It's not a big deal. if anything he probably thought it was hot that you were still excited. recovery time is different for everyone. and no it wouldn't hurt having a half chub, it would just be difficult to actually use.

next time, maybe make out with him for a while and massage his dick at the same time while he's recovering. it should get him back up to speed

>>17535863
Yeah he knew, but it's the second time we've had sex and I just feel retarded for not remembering that a few mins isn't enough resting time

>>17535867
Okay I hope so :( And we were making out at least but yeah in hindsight I cringe at my inexperience.

>>17535884

I'm a guy, don't be embarrassed.

Seriously, it's not a big deal.

>>17535884
Even when a guy is on his resting period, you can always blow him. Learn to suck his penis, as long as he's had a few minutes to rest he will be happy to have that done.

>>17535844
bump

>Meet a wonderful girl at work.
>She's taken, I'm single. We become good friends.
>One month has come and gone, she breaks up.
>We start to get closer. I realize I have a crush on her.
>One week later I tell her about this, just to be frank with her.
>Turns out she likes me, I'm more than a friend to her and she wants to see what will happen between us.
>A few hours ago we were texting and (out of the blue) she told me she really likes me and wants to know more about me, but she still wants to take it slow, since she just broke up. She doesn't want her ex back or anything, but she needs some time to heal the wounds.

Why is this thing bothering me? I mean, she likes me. I'll just have to give her some time, right? But I can't shake off this bad feeling I have.

Is my man bisexual if he browses /hm/?

>>17536246
Maybe
If he browses /d2g/ he is "a little gay" though

For the women:

Why would you act detached, alienated or even bitchy if you see me for the second time in a club?

I wanted to see this Tinder match again (had to cancel 2 times, tried again but she already had plans, she would be at this club but she asked me to join. I also had plans but this club was on my way home so I told her I might come over. Decide to go as I cancelled 2 times already, but the club setting wasn't really great I thought. Anyways, slept at her place, no sex, we did kiss, I tried escalating but it didn't feel like she was down, so I choked, I tried caressing her but she was all like "stop that tickles hihi", scheisseeee, might have fucked up here but please read the rest). Next day was very chill, talked about things, showed me some things in her house, talked about food and a great restaurant.

I had to take pics in a club so I sent her the idea of going to said restaurant beforehand. She loved the idea and would let me know as she had to work. She later asked at what club I would be taking pictures and that she would come to the club. I have never seen her at this particular party so I thought that was a good sign.

Sends me a message she might not come as she was tired, she was done a bit later than expected. I say "sure, next time". Get another message saying she is at a bar and that "I'm in for a surprise". Nice, she's coming over.

While later she's there, coming over to say hi, I kiss her on the cheek with a good hug. I immediately get a different vibe. The first time she saw me she was really happy (my phone died and she sent me message but didn't get a reply so she was disappointed).
I'm working so I can't (and don't want to) spend all my time on her. She would try to get my attention if I was walking by, like pinching me, tapping me on my shoulder and even "kick" me on my ass. A few times I would look at her and smile, give a wink, or even give her a "stop doing that miss" face (sarcastically of course).

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>>17536463
Twice or so I actually wanted to give her the attention but then she would act really weird, like I said, bitchy almost.

It was all very weird. Party is over, we are chilling outside and she comes to say goodbye. Her 2 girl friends are there also, I talk to them for a bit, joking around as one of them didn't want me to take pics of her. So I asked her why she was so camera shy, just playing. Her friends leave.

She still acts weird so I just ask her "whatsup? you're acting a bit detached, way different then the fun first time, I could be wrong".

"What? I don't know what you're talking about, sorry this is weird" (something like that)
She leaves with a hug but she's like standing way back, just hugging me with her arms or so.

It was like a whole different person. Why the fuck would you keep texting me, letting me know you're coming?

I deleted her number the next day.

Question: Let's say I meet a guy from tinder, and when we meet in person he isn't as attractive as his photos indicate. He may also have some very obvious...issues. Like majorly awkward, weird voice, obvious mental illness, a minor deformity, etc. Anyway I can tell off the bat I don't like the guy. Should I continue with the date to "give him a chance" or would it be kinder to just turn him down on the spot? (and if latter how do I do that without the guy having a freakout.)

And men, what the fuck is with you guys always wanting to buy us stuff? You met me ten minutes ago, I don't need a shopping spree on your credit card. Please stop.

>>17533412

I do that with guys in the brozone, or if they just have a really cool last name.

>>17533742

A week is too long unless her mom just fucking died. She was ghosting you and enjoying the attention.

>>17533758

She might be bored with you but not hate you enough to tell you to fuck off. Or try texting her first.

>>17533822

Doesnt' matter. Text her infrequently to cover your bases.

>>17533824

You're a massive pussy?

>>17533872

Sports or hobbies. I have a lot of male friends. Just meet for [hobby].

>>17533892

Just give her the D, it isn't a big deal.

>>17533937

Do unpaid internships for four years during college, then give the interviewer a blowjob.

>>17534169

Might be horny, might be bored, might be fat.

>>17534254

Get her drunk, or do something outrageous and fun.

>>17534707

So you watched someone get raped and did nothing. Kill yourself.

>>17534743

If you're dating 15 year olds I guess.

>>17536619
Do you what you want, maybe it will work out, maybe not; the only big problem is mental illness.
Be upfront and tell him you are not interessed. The less the better because it doesn't alllow him to dwel on your words; of you give him a presentation as to why you are rejecting him he will have a lot of shit to be sad about. This goes for pretty much every time you reject something.

It shows you care, some girls like it and even do it too. Moderation is key.

>>17536658

So he walks up and I tell him, "hey yeah I'm not interested, sorry. bye." ?

>>17536653
>A week is too long unless her mom just fucking died. She was ghosting you and enjoying the attention.

i hope you are right. i feel like a right dick if she wasnt ghosting. in her reply she seemed oblivious as to why i was pissed off. she seemed to think i was annoyed because she was busy but i was actually annoyed because it looked like she was ghosting me. she does week alot but she definitely had time to at least say something. she should of known i would be a bit annoyed that she hasnt replied to my texts in a week. but yeah, she was most likely ghosting anyway

>>17536690
work* not week lol

>>17536681
>hey yeah
>bye
Yeah, not like that.
>hey, i'm sorry but i don't think it's gonna work
>sorry but i'm not as into you as i thought
Something like that, it doesn't have to be perfect but you don't need make it look like you never cared.

For you ladies in the thread:

I've been hanging out with this one girl for a while. While it ain't a secret that I have interest in her, when we hang out in person, she's always recording me, or trying to cause a scene. For example, she baked brownies and gave me some while we were walking in the college saying real loud that they have weed. A ton of people were watching but I played it off real well.

Well, she's calling me weird. But I can't gauge if she means it as a compliment or not.

She plays real stupid sometimes so I ignore her for a while. Is that something I should do?

>>17536707
Forgot to mention is she into me?

>>17536707
Theres not a single good person who likes to cause scenes. Into the trash it goes

>>17536721
I'm convinced she's trying to be cute or see what I'd do.

>>17536722
she is probably trying to cause drama because she is bored and expects you to resolve it.

Guys,

What would you like a girl to request from you when sexting?

>>17536739
I think you're right. She always talks about wanting adventure.

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Just posted this in the vent thread but i think you guys need the reminder too

>>17536741
a dickpick

>>17536761
I meant specific things in pictures
Or something to do

>>17536741
Strange question. What can most men provide besides a pic of your dick or a shirtless full body image? I imagine it's anything the girl wants.

>>17536653
Fucking die.

>>17536765
ermm i dont know then, i dont know what else i could send apart from a picture of my body.

>>17536681
>>17536681
Not the person you replied to, but if it were me I would at least go through with the date, and if I still found him to be awkward or whatever at the end of it then I'd let him know things probably aren't going to work out with us.

If it's a complete trainwreck you could always make up an excuse and leave early.

There's two girls I'm interested in right now, and I don't know which one to ask out. One's my friend already, and the other is just a girl I sit next to in class.

I know there's nothing morally wrong with casually dating both, as long as I'm not leading them to believe it's an exclusive thing, but I'm uncomfortable with doing that honestly.

Basically, what I'm asking is which girl should I be asking out, all else being equal?

Girls, would you enjoy a guy taking you on a date to a thrift store and then to lunch? What are some things the guy would do that would make you enjoy the date and open to another one?

>>17536755

Nah that's shitty advice. People who are "nervous" have mental issues and baggage, speaking as someone who used to be nervous all the time. Confident and healthy people are not going to suddenly turn into an awkward loser because they think the girl is cute.

>>17536785

My doctor said I shouldn't ingest this much salt.

>>17536829
I definitely turn into an awkward loser when I'm around a really cute guy, is that weird?

>>17536843
>implying they notice

>>17536843

You may just be inexperienced. During college though you should be learning to get over that.

>>17536796
>One's my friend already, and the other is just a girl I sit next to in class.
kek, do you expect us to decide from that

>>17536829
>People who are "nervous" have mental issues and baggage, speaking as someone who used to be nervous all the time.
Lolwut. It isn't at all abnormal for a healthy human to experience nervousness in appropriate situations (eg before an exam, on stage at a competition, before a medical procedure, during a job interview, or while asking someone out). It's more common than NOT experiencing nervousness by a very wide margin.
Highly confident people are less nervous, of course, but saying someone must have a mental illness because they aren't extremely confident is completely absurd.

>>17536843
No, it's normal. The opposite is weirder (ie much less common).
Oh and >>17536852. Most guys never notice, so don't worry.

>>17536829
Good, die quicker.

>>17535645
Run the dog over with your car at night in her driveway. Just give it something to keep it occupied and slowly back your car up until you hear a crunch.

Play it off like it was a huge tragedy. Shake, pretend you cant sleep, hell maybe even throw in a tear. You'll never have to worry about the dog ever again, and it will make you look empathic even if you put enough acting in to it.

>>17533412
Autism

Speaking of which, do girls like autistic guys? I've never been successfully ever since I lost the genetic lottery.

>>17536883

I enjoy the fact I made some loser on the interbutt this angry. Tell me in detail about how I pissed you off, dear friend. I need something to masturbate to tonight.

>>17536904
I'm a guy, and i've had a bunch of autistic friends
If i was gay i'd be totally fine dating them
So i'd say there's gotta be at least a few women out there who are fine with it.

>>17536904
>do girls like autistic guys

>do girls like guys with literal ocd
>do girls like guys with depression
>do girls like guys with schizophrenia
>do girls like pathological liars
>do girls like guys with daddy issues
>do girls like guys with social anxiety

It's a mental DISORDER. If it were a good thing it would be called a virtue or quality. We don't like defective goods.

Just stop being autistic. Learn to mimic normals.

Guys, how old is too old for a girl to be a virgin?

>>17536877
>do you expect us to decide from that
i guess a better question was if my friend isn't interested in me, how damaged will our friendship be if i ask her out?
if it's going to cause some damage to that friendship/strain on our group of mutual friends, i'm not going to act on it

Girls, what do you mean when you describe a person and/or something someone does as cute? Is this grill into me?

>>17536992
It's never really an issue. Depending on where you live. The bible belt for instance you could be 30 and be waiting for marriage.

However in a normal situation if a girl is past 25 i won't believe it until i see it.

>>17536992
No age is too old desu
Past 20 is as rare as a diamond and past 25 like >>17537013 i would have trouble believing senpai

what do women mean when they say they like bigger penises but don't care about size? That the difference is negligible?

>>17536992
not sure really. is a girl is past 21 and a virgin, it would be a red flag but i would still try perusing a relationship if i liked her. its just odd for a female to be a virgin past 21 because of how easy it is for them to get relationships.

>>17536978
Most of that shit is only applicable to what dumbasses call "autism" (which psychiatrists call "social anxiety"), not genuine autism.
Actual autistic people cannot fix it, it involves widespread changes to the fundamental organization of the brain. It's basically who they are. They can, of course, learn better social skills (many autistic people also struggle with social anxiety) but they can't "stop being autistic".

I don't even know why i'm typing this, everyone just uses it as a synonym for SAD/AvPD and nobody gives a shit anymore

>>17536993
>i guess a better question was if my friend isn't interested in me, how damaged will our friendship be if i ask her out?
Impossible to say, different for different people. For example, i don't really give a shit whether someone's attracted to me or not (i consider it their problem, not mine, something i can't do anything about) so i act the same and can still be friends. Many other people are the same. But others are extremely uncomfortable with it and can never really relax around that person again, and others are in-between.
Maybe ask her "hypothetically" if you're feeling bold.

>>17536992
>Guys, how old is too old for a girl to be a virgin?
24 years, 7 months, 3 days, and 54 seconds. If you stay a virgin any longer than that, i will have you killed.

>>17533872
You don't. Women can't be friends with men.

>>17536992
Late 20s/30s would be weird.

I want to organize a group activity with just some people from my group of friends. I suggested the activity to one of them and they said I should ask the rest of the group if they want to come along as well. Is there any way I can say I don't want to hang out with everyone without coming off as a bitch? They're all guys by the way. It's just too tiring to hang out with a big group of guys so I want to keep the outing group small this time.

Girls and guys

What does it actually mean to have a "healthy" sex life?

>>17537219
I don't know. I get laid maybe once a year. I ain't looking for it though if that counts for anything.

>>17537228

so does that make you "healthy" or "unhealthy"?

>>17537228
I can't answer that with certainty to be honest.

>>17537219
Not getting STDs or going to underground doms that use non-sterile equipment on you and give you hepatitis and staph infections

>>17537273

What about if you rarely have sex, like once every few years? Is that unhealthy?

>>17537289
just jack off you'll live anon

What are normie interests that I can easily feign? I really have nothing in common with anyone that is not autistic.

>>17537296

That's not answering my question.

>>17537300
eating a dick is a pretty good pasttime

>>17537289
No. Human body doesn't need sex to survive.
Most of the random (generally slightly positive) physiological effects of sex are minor, and in men are actually physiological effects of orgasm + ejaculation and can thus be achieved through masturbation.

Think about it this way: the average guy loses his virginity at something like 18-20. That means many of us jerked off for 10 years straight before ever having sex even once. If it killed us, we'd all be dead.

>>17537300
Find some normal-ish hobbies
i code and draw, for example
coding is a good one since both autists and normies do it
also outdoor stuff is good since most of it is done alone

Asking a question to women here,

So I just had a night out with my friends and ex girlfriend.

We spent the start of the night not really speaking, but by the end we were up to our usual jokey antics.
No kissing involved, but dancing and jokes about our past and casual playfighting/closeness.

Before we left we had a good tight hug, broke apart than hugged deeply again before she got into her taxi.

I know she probably doesn't want us to get back together, but could she have left tonight feeling nothing?

Like after the hug I choked up a bit.
Can someone hold their ex and feel nothing?

>>17537313
>Can someone hold their ex and feel nothing?
girls can

>>17537311

I meant like, mentally unhealthy. Not physically

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Not necessarily a gender question, but how do i get rid of this feeling of disgust after doing something social or emotional?
It kinda feels as if i just fapped to furry mpreg shota. Like i'm a goddamn degenerate and should punish myself in some way and never do it again.

There are people that apparently like me and want to interact with me, so it'd be nice if i didn't feel so bad about it. I don't want to be such an antisocial son of a bitch.

>>17537315

god. . . I was kind of hoping she was atleast in the same boat and feeling some sort of sorrow to what could have been. Jesus.


Am i being pathetic since I did remembered our passed tonight and missed it/ or aleast missed her?

Fellow guys, how do you like your blowjobs? Do most girls do it just right for you?
I know everyone has different tastes, but I'd like to compare mine with yours.
I like it kinda slow with not much suction force, with lots of tongue. I don't like getting my balls sucked, but I don't mind it if the girl is into it.

>>17537219
I interpret it as good, safe and that leaves you satisfied. Do you have all 3? Then you have a healthy sex life.

>>17537330
Nope, not really. Almost all couples stop having sex eventually, for example, and most of them handle it fine.
Most women have zero desire for sex after menopause, as well.

Of course, it can be unhealthy to have burning unfulfilled needs (ie if you're a young man with decent testosterone level) but this is generally fixed by jacking off occasionally.

I need some advice/encouraging. I am on therapy, but there are problems that I'm ashamed to tell to my therapist.

>>17537311
Since when do normies code?

>>17537347
>Almost all couples stop having sex eventually
This is why I probably will never have a LTR or marriage.

Guys,

Is it possible to win your over? As in are there things I can do to get you to go from uninterested to interested, get out of the friendzone,etc.

>>17537383

>be a girl
>have a pulse

Last one might even be optional for some guys.

>>17536978
>just stop being autistic
How

>>17537383
A lot of lonely guys have really low standards so you can probably date any of them if you're not fat or hideously malformed in some way. Find one that's average looking or seems like they have little dating experience.

You can win over some nerdy ones if they find out you like what they like, such as video games or whatever. I know a lot of my friends would lower their physical standards a lot if they found a girl that was into the things they liked. You have to actually like it though, don't fake it.

Attracting an attractive guy who's had a lot of girlfriends is a different matter though, it just comes down to compatibility. Not much you can do about that.

Also, don't be afraid of asking men out. Men rarely get asked out so they'd be really flattered regardless of if they accept or not. Don't play the signs bullshit, it never works.

>>17535844
Tell her something about her is nice, spark a conversation with something random. Crumple up a dollar and walk up behind her, say she dropped it. Say hey I'm anon, what's your name? Proceed with it on your own from there. Get to know her through conversation, don't rush sex. Don't look at her as just a hole, that's not the way to lose your virginity. If you two hit it off and date and all that fun shit then give her a good poke.
If she rejects you, take it in stride and don't hate her for not wanting to jump on you.
Don't rush the sex, and don't make it your priority.

>>17537402
>optional
Nah, it's a deal breaker for me.

>>17537383
i have a date with a girl who asked me out last weekend while drunk. I played along and now we're going out on Thursday night. Being forward is not a crime

>>17537383
>Is it possible to win your over?
Depends what the problem is, and what you have to compensate for it (eg if you're 300lbs, it ain't happenin girl).
A lot of girls have sort of grown on me over time, even though i didn't notice them or wasn't attracted to them at the start.

For one, if i realize you like me, you're gonna shoot right up to the top of the radar since it's a "sure thing", ie you'll be happy and say yes if i ask you out, and you're probably anxious as hell about it, so i should go and figure out whether i want to do that or not.
Plus, attraction is kinda contagious. If someone is really into me, it's almost like pheromones or something: it makes time go a bit slower and i get bored with them much less slowly.

Second, if i notice that we're really damn compatible (ie same interests, can talk for hours without getting bored, understand each other well, etc) then i'll also start thinking about it.

Also, doing cute things helps, since i notice and it kind of breaks through the thick skin we all develop from getting exposed to shitty people long enough. Most of the stuff that girls think is "awkward" falls into this category. Anything that makes me want to hug you, basically. Some examples: blushing, catching you staring at me, bumping into me or spilling something on me, stuttering, falling asleep on me, etc. There's a reason so many relationships start with this stuff!

Success is also good. If I peg you as an ditz and then realize you're the smartest girl in the class, that changes things. Same with winning competitions and such (basically anything short of a wet t-shirt contest).

Plus, consider what >>17537489 said. Many of us are terrible at saying no to girls.
If a random girl asked me out tomorrow, the answer would probably be "sure, why not".
After all, that basically puts her in the first category above: she likes me and wants to go out, so the hard part is over. Might as well figure out whether i like her back, right?

(Guys)

I know it varies by person, but do any of you older men (30+) like young girls?

Why is it that in porn, men almost always finish in the missionary position? Does it feel better than other positions? Does it get you closer to orgasm? Does it kid provide a better shot? I have always wondered but I have never had a guy I could ask this question.

>>17537531
Full body + face and any combinations the director wants with it

>>17537515
I'm under 30, but come on now
>do any of you
it's more like "which of you weirdos don't?".
I think whatshername summed it up in one study like this: "Both sexes are remarkably consistent in their preferences: women like men their own age, and men like 22-year-olds."

>>17537550
But I mean really young. Like still a teen. I can understand 22, that's still in their general age group.

>>17537559
What exactly are you getting at?

>>17537515
I'm not sure if 30 year old men are on /adv/

But I am 25 and my current range is 12-32, with some outliers.

>>17537559
For almost all guys, 18 is the hard lower limit.
If you're still in high school, nope nope nope nope. Hell nope.
After that, it's maturity. Using an IRL example here, if you're 21 but look and act 15, i can't do it. I'd feel like a pedophile.
But if you're emotionally stable and know what you're doing, sure why not. After all, if some guys can handle joining the marines and getting killed in combat at 18, why can't some girls handle a relationship?

>>17537383
When Chad saw you for the first time, he put you into one of 3 categories

>would relationship
>would fuck
>would fuck if drunk

You will never leave that category.

>>17537566

Obviously I'm into older guys and I simply wanted to know if I would ever have a chance with an older guy.

>>17537581
People make mistakes. First impressions aren't perfect.
>oh shit, i thought she was waifu material but she's actually an alcoholic slut

>>17533821
Pretty sure she just couldn't connect with you

>>17537573

Wow, 12? But I'm not judging.

>>17535339
Update:

I went out last night with my roommates to go to parties and stuff, but only after I made the mistake of waiting around for my one friend who never showed. I decided to hold back on drinking until she came, but she ended up going home. We ended up going to a party, but I was pretty sober and didn't want to drink because I didn't want to be up late. I ended up leaving the party early because I thought the cops were coming, but I didn't know how to start dancing with anyone. Then we met up with some other friends including "Girl A's" roommate. She kept asking me if I was in love or liked Girl A and said that I texted her every day, when in reality I only texted her a few times this week (updating her on plans we made then asking if she was busy last night). I'm tempted to just stop trying to talk to her, since her roommate pressed me about it. I don't want her thinking I'm weird or anything.

tl;dr:
>At frat parties, how do you initiate dancing/grinding with someone? Is it weird to ask beforehand? How do you even start conversations with someone about that? Also, how do you dance at frat parties?
>What the hell do I do about Girl A? Our roommates have been hanging together here and there throughout the week, but I had no idea she thought I liked her or even told her roommate about it. Am I reading too much into this? Did I fuck up?

Girls: what does maybe mean? Does it just means a nice way of saying no. I hungout with a girl last week and we had a really good time, she came over my house for like 8 hours we talked laughed played video games. I messaged her saying I had alot of fun last night want to do it again next week. She took over 24 hours to respond and just said maybe. Should I ask her again closer to Thursday ( the day I originally asked) or wait for her to say something, or just say fuck it and whatever happens happens. Because right now I feel like she said maybe as a nice way of saying no and it's messing me up thinking much about it

>>17533872
I don't think I am, anymore. I had a few I was friends with through another I've known for a while- they pretty much accepted that I would not keep up with their own clique stuff.

But then again I haven't talked to any of them for two weeks now, and didn't get an invite to their labor day shenanigans.

Really makes ya think

>>17537438 see >>17537072

>>17537364
>I need some advice/encouraging. I am on therapy, but there are problems that I'm ashamed to tell to my therapist.
Think about it this way: you're paying them to fix your shit
It's like paying a mechanic and not telling him about a brake issue
You're not getting your money's worth

>>17537597
>going to frat parties

>>17537586
Haha, no.
We can smell that shit a mile off.

>>17537594
If she's hot, she's hot. No rule says people gotta follow a timetable.

>>17537607
They can be fun. Hanging out and drinking with friends is superior, but I won't knock frat parties. Tons of girls to meet, but I'm such an incompetent fuckup that I can't even say hi.

[spoiler]Please help[/spoiler]

>>17537618
>Fucking up spoilers
>Trying to use spoilers on /adv/
I may as well kill myself

>>17537612
>No rule says people gotta follow a timetable.
Chris Hansen would like a word

>>17537627
That old pedo fuck can call me himself then

>>17536992
30+

>>17537383
we have to have something in common, and don't be afraid to tell us what you want.

>>17537515
how young?
I'm 26 and I would go as low as 14 desu senpai

>>17536992
Honestly, anything past 19 is strange, but good

Italian Foreign Exchange Student Girl kissed me on the cheek as a traditional goodbye. Do I, a guy, in a platonic manner, kiss her on the cheek also?

>>17537599
Maybe means maybe. For me it means things are 50/50 and different variables such as my schedule and mood will affect my decision. Although sometimes I say maybe because I'm leaning towards no, but want to give myself some time to think things through before I turn down a certain opportunity.

>>17537675
You do whatever makes you feel comfortable fampai. This is a difference in culture so if kissing people on the cheek as a greeting or goodbye is weird to you don't do it.

>>17537663

14. So generally do older guys take it as a joke when younger girls like them? (Again, I know it varies from person to person)

>>17537730
A 14-year-old? I'd basically pretend it was a joke even though i know it'd probably be real. I've seen other guys doing that too.

I just wouldn't be at all comfortable doing anything intimate with a grade-schooler. It'd feel wrong.
Not to mention that it's highly illegal where i live.

>>17537730
Depends on the guy really.
Any respectable guy wouldn't date a minor seriously. This doesn't mean they aren't attracted to them, it means that the society judgement weights more in this situation.
I'd totally fuck a 14yo, as long as I knew I could keep it between us and we didn't have to go in public doing couple-y things together.
If the guy is way older than you and seems to be into it, he probably only would take advantage of you. If what you are looking for is a quit fuck, then you probably can get that from them but never expect a serious relationship.

Also, young girls are shit tier at dating, since they haven't go truth their experimenting period, they'd probably start fucking guys around behind your bad if you want to keep a relationship with them.

>>17537742
>he can't just date her for 2 years without letting his dick lead the way

wow anon