Can't reconcile my girlfriend's cheating.

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Can't reconcile my girlfriend's cheating. 2016-09-04 16:16:07 Post No. 17531810
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Can't reconcile my girlfriend's cheating. Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:16:07 Post No. 17531810 [Report]

>On and off with girlfriend for four years, first gf.
>Gf cheated on me multiple times early on in our relatioship.
>Admits she's cheated on all her boyfriends before me.
>She victimizes herself, guilts me, and we stay together in a very toxic relationship.
>She smokes all the time, stays out my house jobless for months.
>She cheats again, we break up.
>Constantly continue to hook up.
>After a long break, against better judgement, we get back together.
>She quits smoking weed, lands job, and is generally much more thoughtful and sweet to me.
>I grow distant because I can't forget how emotionally abusive she was and that she cheated.

I don't know where to go from here, lads. Part of me thinks I should break things off, as do ALL of my friends and family, but another part wants to see if time and effort will mend the relationship.

Am I being a fucking idiot?

Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:21:04 Post No.17531820
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:21:04 Post No.17531820 [Report]

Yes.

Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:21:06 Post No.17531821
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:21:06 Post No.17531821 [Report]

>>17531810
Since she's cheated on you before and you've forgiven her, what is stopping her from doing it again? Because of the history you two share she knows she can treat you how she wants. I wouldn't stay just because she's a little sweeter now...she clearly has no respect for you or anyone else.

Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:23:17 Post No.17531827
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 16:23:17 Post No.17531827 [Report]

Well she got pussy, but YOU are the one.

Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:02:25 Post No.17532081
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:02:25 Post No.17532081 [Report]

Yes, you are.

She cheated on all her boyfriends and cheated on you with, basically, your approval. Why do you think she'll stop?

If you're into cuckold, you have a girl for life, if you're not, you're better off ending it.

Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:08:44 Post No.17532103
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:08:44 Post No.17532103 [Report]

>>17531810
why you wasting our time fool

Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:10:28 Post No.17532106
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:10:28 Post No.17532106 [Report]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Break it off, avoid at all costs. Find someone who actually gives a shit about you.

Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:10:32 Post No.17532107
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:10:32 Post No.17532107 [Report]

>>17531810
That shit doesnt work.
my ex cheated and i 'forgave' her, despised her every single day.
It does not get better.

Kick her to the curb and get on with it

Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:29:32 Post No.17532153
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Anonymous 2016-09-04 18:29:32 Post No.17532153 [Report]

>>17531810
She's on her best behavior, but she will cheat again. Cheaters do not change, it is who they are.

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