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I couldn't get an erection while having sex for the first time 2016-09-04 01:20:16 Post No. 17529901
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I couldn't get an erection while having sex for the first time
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2016-09-04 01:20:16
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I'm a 21 year old virgin. I started seeing this girl a week ago and things have been going great, it led into the bedroom last night and I could not get an erection. Luckily she was amazing about it and very understanding but I'm now worried it will keep happening. I'm trying to determine if it was just maybe first time jitters or if it will be a reoccurring issue. I normally have no problems getting erections, I watch porn and masturbate probably once every ~one/two days give or take. I don't know if that might be the issue, that I'm so used to porn that it's difficult for me to get an erection without it. We were also both relatively drunk and of course I've never had sex while drunk before so I don't know if that might have caused some issues as well. I've also recently started taking Effexor about 2 weeks ago and I know erectile dysfunction is a common side effect of anti depressants and I know I've had trouble getting erections when I used to take Lexapro. Luckily I know this didn't ruin anything with her and I know I'll have a more chances with her in the future even if it does happen again... but I would like it not to.
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As someone who lost his virginity recently, relax. It's 99.99% anxiety. Also, alcohol can have an erection-killing effect.
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Don't worry I was having the Same problem with my gf and I was worried too. You just need to get confortable with your partner, let her know that you are a virgin, keep trying try to don't think about it, focus on her.
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The thing is... I felt surprisingly comfortable with her. I'm sure I was a bit anxious because I'm normally a really anxious person but it was relatively tame. She was super sweet and understanding about it and I didn't feel pressured or anxious that I would disappoint her we did other things and we still had a good time. So it's nice to hear that that's probably all it is but at the same time I feel like it might have been something more.
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I concour, it's all about relaxing and actually enjoying yourself.
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>>17529901
> I watch porn and masturbate probably once every ~one/two days give or take. I don't know if that might be the issue
>I don't know if that might be the issue
That's exactly the issue
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