Hey guys,
I just transferred to a new college as a junior (20 years old) and have pledged a fraternity.
I am still a virgin for a number of reasons but at these parties the girls are hot enough to meet my standards (which are pretty high) to fuck on the first night but I am nervous as hell cus I always thought I would figure my first time out with a girl friend or at least a friend thats a girl and not someone I meet that night.
I have an apartment to myself and all that and I am not retarded but I literally haven't been serious with a girl since I was 16.
I am just really nervous that the girl is gunna get pissed or weird because I am so inexexperienced but its expected that I know what I am doing (since I am older, a junior, and have my own place and all that).
And if I choose to keep my virginity which I have in the past and wait for a girlfriend, I do not think that would look good for me in the fraternity so I think I should do this. Plus I am ready to get this over with. Any advice for losing virginity on a one night stand.
The way you choose to set life up is so ridiculous, look at these questions you've made for yourself
>>17527362
Interesting. Never thought about it like that.
Well it is what it is man. If I could have gotten a hot girlfriend in highschool or at my old school and gained all my experience through that then that is what I would have preferred but that is not how it is. I am tired of being a virgin so this is what I am doing. I guess I am mainly just asking for advice on what to say or do to alleviate this when hooking up. I mean if youre inexperienced youre inexperienced.
>>17527310
I transferred to university as a virgin as well. I lived in my brother's fraternity house my first semester (I wasn't in it) and I had the same fears and worries. I didn't fuck at all my first semester.
Ended up having sex for the first time with a girl I knew from childhood back home. I couldn't cum and lost my erection after like 10 mins. If that would've happened with some college slut idk what I would've done. Sorry my advice is kinda shit but all I can say is your fears are justified
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>>17527310
Dude you write like you're autistic.
Take some deep breaths, friend.
>>17527310
enjoy the company of people and girls, and look what happens.
it's not a covert-ops operation, stop overanalyzing shit.
You're making the mistake of thinking you can just pull any girl and take her home for sex. It's not going to be easy until you lose some of that desperation.
>>17527310
Just let it happen naturally.
You'll fit right in.
>>17527310
If you're that worried, you should probably go barhopping and pick up some chick just to get your dick wet before trying to get some at a place where people will know you. Being nervous about fucking up typically leads to fucking up.