Unsatisfied in Marriage?

sit him down and tell him "hey, I like to cum too, you fuck". That's it, that's all you need to say.

If that doesn't get through his head, start not letting him cum. He'll almost certainly get acclimated to oral and whatever else very quickly.

Does he even know you feel this way? Talk to him. Tell him what you want to try.

>>17527177
Also this is shit advice. Being passive aggressive won't get you anything but upset both of you.

>>17527177
I tell him that and then he just says that he doesn't know how, and when I try to show him he doesn't seem to try... or doesn't understand. Also I'd never do that, that's just cruel.

>>17527182
I bring it up whenever I have a chance

>>17527193
You outright tell him what you've told us?That you're sexually unsatisfied and want to do this and that? If so and he ignores you still, then get used to it or leave I'm afraid.

>>17527193
You don't understand; that's hot as fuck for dudes. It'll get him to put in the effort, but it'll also make sex more exciting for him as well. Frustrating at first, but exciting nonetheless.

If he still acts like a stick in the mud, talk to him more in depth to see if he has other issues.

>>17527190
I don't think you know what that term means.

>>17527204
Other issues such as? He's got a lot of fetishes that I only slightly hesitantly agree too, I usually try to make him as satisfied as possible, if that's what you're implying.

>>17527208
I meant like general depression. Definitely try to the denial/teasing first. But now that you mention it

>a lot of fetishes

do tell

>>17527219
He has this odd one with me dressing as a cat. But I don't mind that one as much because that usually means I get to be submissive and let him take charge that day.

>>17527227
that's so vanilla I can taste the blue bell

I could see you leveraging that to your advantage, though. Once you manage to get the orgasm balance under control, try out some quid pro quos - you try out one of his fetishes, he tries out one of yours (or, if you actually don't have any, then just have him give you more head or something)

>>17527237
He has others I'd rather not share, I picked the most innocent one haha

But that's the problem, even when I explicitly tell him how to do it he seems awkward and doesn't understand. It feels like we've done this so in his favor for so long that he almost doesn't know any other way. He was a virgin when I met him, I wasn't.