Ask a femanon who just saw her husband through a year of grieving,

>>17525700
Should i tell my sister i'm depressed and want to kill myself?
Everytime i opened up i got screwed over but those bottled up emotions want out and i'm afraid i won't contain myself.
Experience tells me no...

>>17525741
I hate to give you a non-answer, but you really have to use your judgement on that one.
Many people will flip the fuck out if you say that. I am not one of them: it is my opinion that it is a human right to end your life if you want to do so. I certainly hope you don't!!
One fact to remember is that life goes on. It really does. The sun rises and sets, people are born and live and die, plants grow and bloom and etc. I find that comforting when my own little life is too hard to bear.

>>17525700
Why would I care about what some random roastie thinks?

>>17525795
Oh wow, I'm so offended: how dare you talk to me like that on a Balinese basket-weaving forum?

>>17525700
How did you help him through it?

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>>17525700
How big you titties bitch?

Has he come out of it yet or is he still grieving? What happened to cause such grief?

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>>17525798
>I'm so offended
>on 4chan

>>17525830
Oh wow, so much.

Holding him while he cried; leaving him alone when he wanted to be alone; accepting and loving him even when he said really fucked up shit...
I determined to be a comfort in his life and stayed positive as much as possible.
That being said, the intensity of his need for solitude and his (real) inability to see outside of himself during the worst times was almost more than I could take sometimes. I was very lucky to have supportive friends who I could confide in and cry to.

>>17525836
He is coming out of it.

In the space of three months, two close friends were murdered, and his closest friend since childhood committed suicide.
My heart breaks again for him just recounting it here.

>>17525700
how long until you leave him for showing emotional weakness?

>>17525849
That's a lot to deal with. He should seek counseling, someone who has experience with the loss of loved ones. It will help him I'm sure of it.

>>17525867
Yeah, he tried once, but didn't like the experience.
Basically I ended up being his (amateur, inexperienced) therapist. I mostly listened a lot.

>>17525866
Not who I am, my friend. There are women like that, but not all of us.

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>>17525875
Said every woman ever

>>17525883
Said an anonymous ponyfag

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>>17525888
Pretty sure Pegasus predates MLP by a few thousands years

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>>17525834
Tiny

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>>17525922
RIP

>>17525700
If you could get through to your husband and make him understand anything what would it be?

>>17525965
... That he is loved more than he can imagine.
And that his life is valuable and beautiful.

>>17525892
that just makes you a more obscure faggot

>>17525980
Fuck

Thanks OP. I'm in a similar relationship except I'm the husband. Your mind gets clouded and you can't hear the things that are important.

Best of luck to you and your husband. I'm sure you'll make him happy.

>>17525700
jeeez, loyyal bitches like you still exist?
thought yall gan extinct

>>17525993
Dude, when you can, if you can, reach out and let her know you appreciate her. If you can't make it to something like flowers, even just a hug is like oxygen.

How are you going to deal with the fact that you don't respect him anymore because of his emotional vulnerability? Are you going to cheat on him like most women, or just slowly lose interest and fall for some other man with status?

How did he get out of it?

>>17526064
I respect him so much for his strength and his dedication to our family no matter how bad it has gotten.

>>17526065
I don't know.
Time, martial arts, skateboarding, family love... He's not out of the woods yet, but every day is better.

>>17526064
>Being this much of a deluded pisspants red pill manchild
>Being autistic enough to think you have the entire population's social dynamics figured out

I feel bad for you senpai.

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>>17525795
>>17525866
>>17525997
>>17526064
Fucking redpillers. Leave the cancer in the containment boards, creeps.

>>17526016
Alright I'll do this. I very much care about her. It's just that when I'm having an episode I just want to be alone. It's tough bur your words are encouraging.

>>17525700

Don't know where else to ask, so might as well ask you: how do you know when/if to marry someone? I've been considering proposing to my gf, but in a bit worried that I'm still in such a honeymoon stage about her even after two years together that my judgement is clouded. How do you know if someone is the best fit and the best possible spouse?

>>17526161
Hey, I get it.
And for what it's worth, I care too, anon.
Time really does heal all wounds. Trust that.
The little moments whe he could let me know he appreciated my care, even though he couldn't show love very well, kept me going through those dark days.

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>>17526143
TRIGGERED FEMALE CONFIRMED

>>17526177
Do you respect and admire her?
Are you friends? You won't always be passionately romantic with each other, so you need to be able to be friends through those times.

Most important: do you want her to carry and raise your child(ren)? If not, I don't see any point in marriage.

>>17525849
At least he had friends

>>17525997
>>17526143
but my question was serious

>>17525700
Did you cuck him? Because the only masculine emotion a man is allow to have is anger anthing else is a sing of weakness.

>>17526209
Actually, no and no. Just a happily married guy who hasn't forgotten how creepos like you ruined the dating scene for us decent men.

>>17526256
>but my question was serious
I am aware.

>>17525875
Bullshit i still think you lost resect for him and dont see him as a man anymore.

>>17526275
then answer me properly ffs

Oh noes,
>>17526281
doesn't believe me because of his preconceptions! Whatever shall I do??

>>17526283
I don't understand what sort of answer you are looking for?

>>17525700
what happened?

>>17526545
See
>>17525849

>>17525700

Hi when was the last time you cheated on him?

>>17526558
Never did

>>17525700
How did you two meet? What do you both do?

>>17526210

i'm blessed to see this thread and OP,almost lost hope in humanity

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>>17527109
OP is a faggot and nothing insightful was gathered from this thread

Just a typical woman patting herself on the back publicly for recognition

>>17527128
oh its you pegasus
u still hate long distant relationships?????

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>>17527132
Yeah, its not worth it

>>17527135
idk how to link another thread but if u can go to the ask the opposite gender thread and check the one before the last post :v will try link the thread
>>17527088

My no longer girlfriend of 3 years (20 about to be 21 end of month) broke up with me (25) because she said she needs to be single as shes always had a bf. She aaid this will help her feel fulfilled. Now shes like a 9 or 10 and im like a 7.5 at best but thats not that important i guess.

Anyway, she cried when she dumped me..i was her first love and also took her v card. We had a talk and it was back and forth crying until she finally left. I then started txting her saying anything and everything to convince her she was making a mistake - she didnt cave. She was actually rude to me woth her tone...completely the opposite of the person i knew.

Out relationship wasnt bad, never fought just some bickering but a lot of fun and good times etc. Im way too tired to go any further and i dont expect you to tell my anything that isnt already obvious but i do have a question. Weve been broken up for about 2 weeks now and at the end of the first week i was txting her on and off...she kind of started to show emotion saying shes unsure and feels empty but is sticking to her decision, something she has to do or she willl be u happy in life. We agreed to meet up once ww both had our space...i havent talked to her since monday.

I guess i just dont know what to make of this and want to know if anyone has anything to say about my situation. Shes in college but she commutes so shes like 15 away. Fuck it sucks, shes so damn pretty. She said she does t want to be in a relationship etc shes also posting on social media like nothing....being happy and all (her way of getting over me?) Just dont know what to think...as long as shes happy i guess. Wonder if shes in pain....

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>>17527135
what if it was Alizee though

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>>17527261
If it was Alizee I'd just move in with her because I'm sure she can afford it

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>>17527266
good point