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Lost chasing a shy girl 2016-09-01 19:58:39 Post No. 17522512
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Hey /adv/ I'm pretty lost, there's a shy girl who doesn't really go out at all except twice a month with friends.She doesn't talk alot and only uses facebook as her form of social media.
I've been after her for awhile now and so far I'm the only one she's gone out on a date with. Still I don't know if I can actually be called her boyfriend.
Sometimes she talks to me online but if feels too light like she doesn't wanna talk and she looks away when I'm around. Sometimes she can take up to hours, a day or 2 at most to reply [even when it shows she's online]. I try not to worry about it because I often try to give her some space plus she doesn't really start conversation with me unless I message her.
At first I thougt she was just shy so I let it be. I rarely get to see her since our schedules and routines just won't allow it.But I recently found out that one of her friends is into her and she talks to him alot,they walk together [alone] after college back home and they seem really active together too.
I'm worried,am I chasing her right? Is she interested in me? Is there a problem or am I just being insecure and pushy? I need advice.
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>>17522512
she's interested in the other guy, don't bother
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>>17522512
Take her on a walk in your local downtown area and share some mildly embarasaing secrets about yourself. Be straightforward about your personality and ask her questions. Introverts need to be asked questions by Extraverts otherwise no conversation will continue. The questions will come naturally, dont plan any or stress about it. Buy her a cheap meal somewhere and throw around a few edgy beliefs (ironically). Shy girls probably wont cheat on you and typically enjoy a little dark humor. Be sure to stand on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street and dont forget to open doors for her (Big no no if you forget). If the day goes okay, then you can date. If it spirals into awkward, you probably "forced" some part of your personality and she detected you were faking.
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You need to try and get her out again for another date or whatever. And if you do, see about escalating with physical touch and shit. That's about all I can say.
If she agrees to go out on a date with you, she's interested. But that's the only way you'll know.
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>>17522753
>shy girls probably wont cheat on you
that will get you in trouble deep. Shy or outgoing they both cheat.
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Sounds like she's no interested. I doubt she'd be so shy that it takes her days to respond to a text, but talks to another guy a lot and all that.
If you want to make sure you can ask her on another date and ask her directly. Still, to me it seems pretty obvious that she's not interested in you but she's not comfortable turning you down directly.
In 95% of the cases if someone constantly takes DAYS (even hours, if they're online) to respond they're not interested. No one is that busy.
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