Sexual Favour

What's in the past, is in the past.

If she's classy and loyal now, she may be a changed person. You've probably done shit before, bad shit, that you don't want to define you.

If I was you, I'd be curious about if she did money for favors more than once. If she used to be a prostitute then you might have some issues.

>>17521150
It was only once as far as I know, and I have no reasons to suspect otherwise.

>>17521158
Then i'd say let it slide. You've probably done a couple fucked up things in your life. We all have.

As long as she don't do it no more, forgive her. I know that forgiveness is a very big part of Christianity.

>>17521158
>as far as I know
lol

>>17521144
>christian perspective
kek

In god's eyes all sins are equal in god's and you certainly have committed more than one..

>>17521144
I knew some devout Christians with pretty scandalous pasts. Great people. They changed for the better, though the whole born-again youth pastor thing gets old quick when you live in a town with only 10-12K people

>>17521144
That's not a "sexual favor," that's prostitution.

>>17521230
>all sins are equal
Tell that to Dracula

>>17521234
>In god's eyes
I dont believe that shit myself but OP wanted a christian perspective.

>>17521144
>dating a prostitute
>"i know she wont do it again"
lol

>>17521144
>christian perspective

You're not having premarital sex, are you?

>>17521321
No

>>17521348

You mean to tell me you're hanging around with a chick who blew people for money and you're not even hitting that?

Is she waiting for marriage now? (LOL)

>>17521351
Beta cucks, alpha fucks.

>>17521351
To be fair she's still a virgin

>>17521348
How long have you been dating with no sex?

>>17521351
It was once and we do everything except penetration, we both decided to wait. Even before we met

>>17521356
1 month

>>17521354
To be fair shes also a whore? Being stingy with sex when she happily uses it as a profession lmao

If you're serious about the whole christian thing, get out as you chose an awful one.

>>17521362
"Happily uses it as a proffesion"
It was once and every time she talks about it she regrets it and cries.

>>17521365
Doesn't change that she did. When you do things like that you kind of lose the "I'm pure and waiting for marriage card" You are a fool.

I'd let it go if the whole christian marriage thing wasn't involved here but the fact is she's pretending to be something she's not. You should be banging merrily.

>>17521354
I'm gonna say that was a lie

>>17521144
>>17521144
I've been in a vaguely similar situation. Former girlfriend slept with one of her male friends once because he was a virgin and I think she got off on collecting virginities. I didn't really know much about their relationship prior to that, but it sounded weird as hell to me. I knew her when it happened, and at first she kind of regretted it because it violated her ***supposed*** 'only sleep with people you are in love with' principle, but she had this way of rationalising everything so that she was never at fault and never had regrets, so soon she was saying it was fine. Pretty clever, really.

Anyway, suffice it to say that it didn't work out for me because that promiscuity was an innate part of her character. But your girl seems genuinely remorseful, even disgusted by what she did. Which is fair enough, it's a pretty gross thing in my view. I feel sorry for her. But you say you know she won't do it again. It isn't in her nature, to be like that. And I think that's the important thing. I'm not the most scholarly Christian, but forgiveness is crucial. I think God would forgive her that discretion, and I think you need to try and trust that it's totally in the past - for both your sakes.

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>>17521144
>I know she wont do it again
>christian perspective

OP is either a cuck or baiting, in either case hes a faggot

>>17521144
>My Girlfriend once gave a guy a blowjob for money
So she needed it for a sandwich, gas, school, why?

>>17521553
It was simply a lot of money

>>17521682
Ok. Like how much money and who was the guy? Was it someone she just met or knew well or cared for. Lot of money is relative. Enough to pay rent for one month or life changing money? I seriously doubt it was that much money or they would have asked for her virginity instead.

>>17521682
That is actually worse so you know she has a price which means if another similar or better offer is made she will do it again. Are you this naive?

>dating a whore
>doesn't have sex with her
Thank God 4chan exists so the world is graced with stories like this.

>>17521685
Not Naive just not extremely bitter, it was 1200 dollars

>>17521758
Now i know i just need 1500 for her pussy, thanks.

Virgins don't give blowjobs for money, anon.

>I know she won't do it again, but it still feels wierd.

Anon, listen. If you really want, I'll meet up with her to discuss how you feel about this and try and get you to a harmonious resolution.

On an unrelated note, how much was she willing to blow for?

>>17521144
Gross

Dump

Are there any women nowadays who hasn't done disgusting shit like this at some point?

>>17521758
That's all and how the fuck does that conversation even come up? Why was she hanging with a guy like that anyway and did she continue a relationship with him or did she do it again and again.

>>17521758
not bitter? bitter doesn't have anything to do with knowing you aren't getting the whole story. Did she need money and someone offer to help if she sucked his dick or someone wanted her to suck his dick and he just kept raising the dollar amount until he got a yes. Anyway you slice it, it's prostitution. Now I've known strippers that occasionally suck a dick if the price is right. It's also odd she would tell you something like this only dating one month unless she wants you to make an offer.

>>17521875
Alright then full story:

She's 17
Guy from HS offers her 1200 dollar for 5 blowjobs.
She gives 2
She stops because she is too disgusted to continue.
She didn't get any money

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>>17521889
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAJAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHQHAHAHQHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>17521909
Kys

>>17521889
that is not the full story. Just some guy from HS? How did he know he could make that kind of offer to her with the likelihood of her accepting? There was negotiation going on here. 5 blowjobs for 1200. She stopped because he wasn't paying her. I bet she was the laughing stock of the whole school.

>>17521889
I bet this is what happened. Cool guy wants to fuck her and she's desperate for the attention but reluctant to just fuck him so he throws out a number, never intending to pay. She figures, well he is giving me attention, perhaps we'll be a couple afterward and can justify it to herself with the promise of 1200. After blowjob two she realizes, likely after he's told everyone about the stupid little cunt doing this, the guy doesn't want her, never will, and won't ever pay for her providing the service.

Well if she's going to be a prostitute she needs to understand you ask for the money up front.

$1200 for blow jobs? Damn.

>>17521943
no $240 per blow job was the agreement but actually she gave two freebees and quit before her first paycheck.

Amazing to me that OP thinks he's got a winner here

Christian perspective:
We are all human and we all make mistakes. Not one of us is free from sin.
Jesus taught us to forgive. Only God can judge.

>>17521966
That is still pricey, high-end escort pricey.

>>17522003
You think he was gonna pay?
He just said a believable number that was big enough for her.
First he says 1200 to get her mouth drooling and says 5 blowjobs so she believes he willl pay her. After that he tells the whole school about it (probably filmed it too) and she realizes the trick and stops.
He probably fucked her too but OP wants her to be a virgin so she lied.

>>17521230
Maybe from some retarded protestant perespective

>>17521987
Now come on anon, this is not a mistake but a deal gone wrong. If she wants to say she dabbled in prostitution, it wasn't for her, ask her god for forgiveness so she can sleep at night, fine. But to lay this shit on a new bf and want him to be part of her spiritual charade is a bit much.

>>17522014
Who knows maybe the guy tried to change the terms or offered a buddy one of the bj's and she didn't go for it.

>>17521144
No prude OP and understand people experiment and are sexual but even I have a few places I draw a line. It's not a moral question but one of self respect. Any girl that has pulled a train of 3 or more guys in one night and girls that have sex for money. (Realizing sometimes a woman is forced into prostitution to feed herself and children) Your special snowflake had sex for money and really hope you know that 99% of available girls out there for you have never nor would never do this. Takes a special mindset.

>>17521889
>She didn't get any money
sounds like that chick who wanted to compete for Guinness record of world's largest gangbang so she let hundreds of dudes take turn fucking her for free, it lasted a few days then she lost to another chick. Many amongst the dudes who signed up were hobos.

OP let it go. Let the present define the present.

>>17522076
I'd tend to agree if the girl is now mid 20's and hadn't done something like this for 6-7 years but it may be this was recent, like in the last year. Too raw and fresh to definitely say she wouldn't do this again

>>17522229
It was 4 years ago

>>17521400
I think I know her. What's her name?

>>17521144
She sucked dick for cash, it wasn't a sexual favour, it was a monetary exchange for a sex act being performed.

I wouldn't ask for the explicit details, but I'd press and ask if it was genuinely a one time thing, just keep in mind that you might not like the answer.

Personally, I wouldn't bother with a woman who sucked dick for money, but that's me.
If you were happy with her before she told you, and she told you because she was being honest, you might as well stay with her, especially if she sucks dick well enough to get paid for it.

>>17522480
I see what you are doing OP. You drip, drip detail in an attempt to get us to say it is no big thing. Lay all the facts out at once and let us give you an informed opinion. However, I don't think many men would feel comfortable with a girl that agreed to something like this and deep down I don't think you are either.

Lets set aside the head for dollars a second. I would want to know the mindset of a 17 year old girl that would agree to something like this. What other self harming behavior has she engaged? She must not have had any self respect either to be used like this. Not talking after the second blowjob but the lead up and agreement to terms. She's fucked up, why, and has she gotten any help.

I dated a camwhore. It didn't last, but not because she was a camwhore.

Your girlfriend has no problem whoring, you just need to deal with it or leave.