Hey I really need your help
I really began to like one of my brother's best friends (who is a girl), and we ended up dating.
Now my brother has been friends with this girl for a good 3 years. And now he's jealous.
I'm pretty sure he despises me for going out with his friend but I don't know what to do?
I really like this girl. Any tips?
>he didn't call dibs
your brother got friendzoned and he's just jelly. I promise you he won't stay mad forever.
>>17519636
Thank you I appreciate the assurance. I really do love my brother but I think that what he's doing now is childish. Like you said hopefully he'll grow out of it
>>17519621
Though you don't have to I would leave this girl alone. She'll be gone one day and the bitterness between brothers not worth it. Be the bigger man OP. You older or younger brother?
>>17519673
I'm the oldest (20) while my brother is 18
Oops
>>17519719
Was meant for >>17519683
>>17519719
Then really don't do this. Been right where you are and put my brother first and never regretted it. It was hard though, she would come to my apartment frequently alone clearly smitten. I told the girl to speak to my brother but she would not and afraid to hurt him which only proved my point.
You're brothers, he'll get over it. Plus, if you were gonna avoid it that's one thing, but you already started dating, so just enjoy it and don't let the situation ruin it.
You're definitely not in the wrong, unless he had prior feelings before you did. At that point, dick move. But if you guys really like each other. Just relax, your bro will get over it. Just be happy and let your brother pout for now