So I've started a new year of high school off. Sophomore year, third year of all boys HS (took 8th grade program; practically extra year)
Things have started off really well. I gave up video games and I have a new work ethic. Getting all my homework in and studying more has helped my confidence in class and I'm getting better grades. Worrying about class grades and assignments are a thing of the past, and I think now is the time to start doing things outside of school.
Since my HS is an all-boys-sausage-fest, the past two and a half years of my life have been girl free. Interesting experience, some pros and cons, but that's beside the point. There is an all-girls-estrogen-fest two blocks away, and the two schools share some classes.
The choir class I'm in (kek all you want) is one of those classes. This is the first class with girls in it in a long time, so this is newer for me. Many of the girls are cute, but one peaked my interests. Cute, smart, seems entertaining. One of the first girls I talk to; short convo. Not much, but get name. We'll call her V.
>Go to one of friends.
> Tell him about V.
>Recognizes name
>Anon asks how
>friend says she's a slut
>V fucked like 8 guys in past two years
>Coincidentally, one of my friends almost got her preggers
>Anon in shock
>Anon is sad
>Anon is confused
>Anon goes to /adv/
Main question/TL;DR
Is creating a relationship with a "slut" a good idea? Does it matter more that she is a slut, or that she is smart/cute/entertaining? Should I try, or not?
>Pic unrelated
Of course you should try it, as long as you are a "together" person.
If you had a smart/cute/entertaining male friend who had had sex with 8 girls in two years, would you be worried if he dated your very "together" sister?
>>17516274
If she fuck that 8 guys by sayin' "I just want to have casual sex with you", yes. It's datable. Commitment relationship and sex buddies are different things.
>>17516274
No, she will never care about you as much as you'll care about her and she'll always be on the lookout for something better.
>>17516319
>>17516321
You two provide good arguments.
But they are opposing
Hurm
>>17516326
See if she actually has a personality worth dating and take it from there. Multiple partners doesn't always equate with infidelity.
Of course, if you do decide to date her, you'll must likely have to face the stigma of dating a girl that has been around.
>>17516349
You're right.
Hm.
Thanks.
>>17516349
It means she doesn't appreciate dating as much as a normal person. Being with someone is a frugal thing for them.
>>17516369
That seems like more of an assumption. Like the other anon said, I think getting to know V better would help to see whether or not she is a "slut" or a "piece of shit"
>>17516274
if you can/want to fuck without putting much time effort or feels into it, then go for it anon. But you're already sad to hear she's a slut. Which suggests you wouldn't be able to handle it.
I would suggest focusing on school and college more than girls, they take up a massive amount of time even if things are going great.
>>17516425
It's not a "I want to fuck her" thing.
It's more along the lines of "man, she looks like she'd be a good girl to spend time with."
I mean, personally, I can get past her being a slut if her personality is what I think it is.
>fucks someone every 3 months
>slut
wat
>>17516457
In high school, that's quite a number.