I've been dying my hair blonde for a few years. I'm Danish and German but got brunette genes. I've been at my work (banking) for a couple years and everyone knows me only as a blonde, including my boyfriend and my few friends.
People have commented I'd look good with both dark or light and with my complexion I seem to easily pull off being seen as a natural blonde.
I started doing it out of a desire to look different than how I had for so long but it is a huge amount of maintenance and time and money keeping it healthy, the correct tone, etc.
Now it's starting to get really tiring but I'm nervous about how my boyfriend would see me if I dyed my hair my natural dark color, as well as others, and as well as this perhaps me just wanting something different again which I've struggled with in the past?
Shameless self bamp
You put more thought into this than some people put into deciding to split their tongue.
>>17516313
It's what I do.
Who gives a fuck holy shit, go ask your friends on twitter or some shit
Honestly, it will be worth it for your bf to feel like he is fucking another woman for a few days. If he hates it and has a fit he is a dick anyhow, but it's not like you can't always go back to being blonde. It's your hair, you really shouldn't be giving too many fucks what other people think.
Truth be told, people care far less about this than you do.
You are just one face in dozens and for you, yours is the only one you're responsible for. It's natural worry about it.
I'd go brunette. At least for a time. See how it works.
I personally like the verisim of it.
>>17516335
>I personally like the verisim of it.
In terms of going au naturale?
>>17516348
Yes.
Like that's the human you are. I like to see other person I'm in a relationship with. Warts and all. There's a beauty in that.