Hey there, so my girlfriend of about 9 months is driving me up the wall. We've had this issue where no matter what I do, what I say, or whatever she cannot let go of her ex. Its not like they were banging or anything but they were friends for like 3 years before their relationship. And in all honesty it drives me mad. Hes clingy, possessive, and a total ass to her, but no matter what she still wants to be friends with him. I'm so fucking over it, like i legit just wanna kick the shit out of the fucker. So please guys if there's any advice you guys can give me, I'd really appreciate it.
P.S. They're having dinner together right now with a mutual friend of theirs.
I see the same threads every day.
She can't get over her ex, let her run back to him.
>>17513004
She's going to do what she wants. She still has feelings for this ex. You'll always be number two. Just let her go before you get hurt.
does he do favors for her?
this is important
she could just be having trouble letting go of a reliable orbiter, ie. he's her shoulder to cry on while you fuck her brains out
Break up with her
Op Here. I called her and told her im not dealing with it anymore. I think we broke up.
>>17513044
no favors they havent talked for like 2 months
>>17513282
Probably for the best. The ex-bf isn't the problem, the girl is the problem. And if she's obsessed with him, she's not really ready to be in a relationship with someone else.
>>17513282
You did the right thing
She was only going to drag you into the fiery pits of hell if you continued down this road