There is this girl I really like. We've been friends for a year. We've met before IRL, had a wonderful time.after I left. We developed feelings for each other. But after talking for a while, we both agreed that a relationship isn't possible with the distance. But we continued to flirt. we both became busy and haven't talked a lot the past few months. She told me tho (after I asked) that she met a guy, but didn't know where it was going yet. Before she even told me that, we had planned at meeting again, and I booked flights to her country. anyways, I'm going to be visitng her in 2 weeks. And don't know what to expect. But... Am I crazy? Is it crazy of me that I almost hope she DOES have a boyfriend? I care about this girl so much, I want her to be happy. So if she has a boyfriend that makes her happy, then I'd be glad.
Am I fucked up? I don't even understand this. Like, I like this girl. I wish I could kiss her. But, for some reason I hope she's in a great relationship. Obviously, she's my friend, and she'll get proper respect no matter what. But I feel so lost right now. What am I thinking? Like I've felt pretty depressed Tbh since we stopped flirting. I have nothing great going for me. So I want her to be happy for me..
That doesn't sound fucked up, that sounds nice.
Wow. You're a really good person... :/
>>17512670
You're lucky. That is part of what is termed "unconditional love".
Now you just gotta learn to love ALL of reality as it is no matter what. Then you just became a monk. (group of people rated as most happy, based on brain scans)
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>>17512705
I thought you all were going to call me a cuck..
I really do care about this girl. I know I can't be the one to make her truly happy, although I so wish I could. so I hope she finds someone who can.
Honestly, this causes me some internal stress. But I'll just have to manage
i think u fucked up dude ask her directly, do she have bf ? if she say yes, u fucked up twice
I think you're just insecure, shit is about to hit something and things might get real.
The thought of getting out of all this eases you, I think that's why you can see her with someone else.
You can make her happy bro, you can make it work if you want it to.
>>17512903
I wish man. It's not realistic tho... :/
>>17512853
What do you mean
>>17513156
i think she found a bf and she like u as friend and i suggest u, ask her; "do you have bf?", if u dont/cant ask her probably she will never realize the fucking love comes from u
i prefered 2d girls to my old gf, pls dont marry, when u get one, u will want to die
>no money
>no time
>no sleep
didnt realise i was browsing /cuck/
>>17513945
Why does it make me a cuck if I want a girl (who I can't have) to have a great life and relationship?