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How can I find a 'Quiverfull' husband as an atheist?

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After a lot of soul searching I have come to the conclusion that the happiest possible life I can imagine for myself is as a traditional housewife in a 'quiverfull' relationship, i.e one in which I am basically my husbands property and bred as often as physically possible, isolated from "modern society", homeschooling, homesteading, etc.

The problem is, I was raised by a hard line atheist single mom and the way you usually get 'quiver courted' is by your father finding and approving an eligible bachelor for you from the church, there are no dating websites or anything that I can find that specialize in this, and obviously this is not something that would go over well on any "normal" dating website, so I'm sort of at a loss.

Anyways, I'm aware that the most likely outcome of this is just me being memed at and not taken seriously at all, but I figured it was worth a shot in case anyone has any real advice.
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What you may seek is a cult - That being said you may want to investigate fetish sites and/or sugar daddy sites to find something along the same lines... You'd be surprised what you would find!
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>>17512496
You do realize that being pregnant isn't a great time, right? Let alone being pregnant like nearly your whole damn life? Maybe you should just start going to church to meet people like that. Doesn't mean you have to be a belieber.
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assuming you're white, go ask /pol/. White breeder women give them a huge boner.
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Can't you just post on okcupid or hell, even Reddit and just say you want a white husband who makes enough money to support you and your 20 future children?

I'm assuming you want the financial lifestyle of the Duggers as well, living in a giant house and buying whatever they want
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>>17512496
Ashley Madison maybe?

Check out the United Apostolic Brethren. It's a more modern Mormon polygamy group (as opposed the Warren Jeffs stuff). The don't do underage marriage crap but they certainly believe in big families.
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>>17512518

Call it a 'cult' if you want, doesn't really matter to me --- I'm just asking how to go about 'joining'

I've been trying the fetlife "breeding" sections but really haven't been having much luck, most of the guys on there either just want to make a "sperm donation" or are like 55+ and obese with psych issues (which, who knows, might just be my only option at this point...really hope not, though.)

and.....it doesn't seem like "sugar daddies" would be into breeding? I've never heard of that happening, I thought it was just glorified prostitution for college girls, but I guess I could make a profile and see if there's anyone on there? Honestly it just sounds like it would mostly be super shallow people though

>>17512521

Yes, I am well aware that pregnancy is often extremely taxing, I just don't really care. Idk if I could explain the appeal to someone else, but I guess you can just think of it as the ultimate act of submission, you no longer have to think about the wider world, you can leave all of the major decisions and thinking to your husband, you can just focus on your ultimate purpose, being a good wife and mother

I live in new england so I'm not really sure where I'd find a church that had any men like that, it seems to be mostly a southern thing? idk

>>17512533

maybe I should post there too, I am indeed very white, I just figured it probably wasn't sufficiently "politics related"

>>17512537

For the brief time I had an okc I did not see any guys on there remotely interested in this, but maybe it's just my area/bad luck.

what subreddit would you post this in, exactly? I feel like they would be even less tolerant than this website it

it doesn't need to be quite their financial lifestyle, but yes we'd need to be self sufficient and not reliant on any form of government assistance, at the very least.
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>>17512613
Imagine you had to take care of 20 children. Unless you want to live in squalor and on food stamps, you need to be very wealthy. Also, you won't be bringing in any money. Essentially, you want a millionaire. Even the Duggers were in hard financial times before their TV show. It was only with TLC that they were able to afford their lifestyle. Since their son had been exposed as a child rapist, they lost a significant part of their income.

What I'm saying is, millionaires are very very hard to find, and a lot of these large families do live on food stamps and welfare. If you are serious about this, you need to get off your high horse about government assistance
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>>17512635
Also, you can advertise on the_Donald for men, not even kidding
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>>17512613
believe me, a 'white female wants to breed more masterrace babies' thread will get 200+ replies.
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>>17512548

....Do you even know what "quiverfull" is? It's not polygamy (at least not the "mainstream" of the movement) and it's certainly not cheating on your spouse, wtf dude

>>17512635

It's not actually all that much more expensive than 3 kids, the only cost that rises is food and eventually housing slightly, but this can be mitigated by homesteading and moving to a not-overcrowded part of the country. It could very easily be done on 100k a year, and the type of guy who doesn't have the basic intelligence/self-discipline to get even that probably shouldn't be reproducing anyways.

And I will be bringing a decent sized inheritance to the marriage, but that is sort of besides the point.

the_donald is filled with memeing teenage boys with sub 90 iqs, I'm not quite that desperate yet, I'd honestly rather deal with /pol/

>>17512648

Alright, don't have very high hopes since from what I've noticed pol is also mostly just edgy teens, but I will at least give that a shot next.
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It leaves a bad taste in my mouth to think that I'm about to recommend the Gor fandom to anyone, for anything. But although not all of them would go for the breeding thing, they're probably your best bet for combining atheism with a breeding mindset.

Though you should be aware.of what Quiverfull theology actually is. The basic idea is that all children are a blessing from God. Full stop. No exceptions.

Now, you may he wondering what makes this different from mainstream Christianity, from whom you hear stuff like this all the time. The thing about Quiverfull theology is that it takes this a logical step further: if children are a blessing from God, then doing anything that could prevent you from possibly having a child is tantamount to refusing a blessing from God: a serious sin. And they do mean ANYTHING, including abstinence, which is part of why Quiverfulls tend to marry so young.

And that's it. They put out some propaganda about crap like birthing soldiers for the army of God (the name 'Quiverfull' comes from this), but the actual theology really is just the stuff I mentioned above. This is what you would be getting into, if you went with an actual Quiverfull. Are you prepared for that?
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>>17512833

I mean I encountered them a little bit on fet, the ones I saw didn't seem too into breeding, but maybe I just didn't snoop around enough. I'm certainly open to it, it just seems like a normal mdom/fsub dynamic with some silly costumes, names and books thrown in

I am well aware of what Quiverfull actually is, I do not believe in 'abstinence' within a marriage either, my husband is entitled to my body whenever he wants (preferably at least daily, honestly), and I am trying to marry as young as I can right now, I'm 19. I believe I am fully prepared for every aspect of it.

If there were any other movements with these ideals I would happily jump to those, I don't really care for any of the 'cult-ish' aspects or Gothard worship or anything, or most of the religious stuff atm (although of course I would convert for my husband), I just want something very specific out of life and these seem to be the only other people left who are into that.
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>>17512666
> If you can't make 100k per year after taxes, you're so stupid you shouldn't even be reproducing

Says a woman who never plans to have a job or career and will live off of your money forever. And they say women have unrealistically high expectations of men.
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>>17512979

....yes? Men and women have different biological roles. Sorry that feminism fucked you over and taught you otherwise, but men and women are not "equal" in any way, for the vast majority of people that delusion is just going to bring misery. Sorry I seem to have pushed a button, but it's honestly the truth, there are careers that pull more than that with just an associates degree or trade school, if you don't have the foresight for that then yeah, you probably shouldn't have 20+ kids.
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>>17513011
You're a laugh. An income of $100,000 after taxes is effectively the top 5% of this country.

> I'm a woman so I don't need to even to get a part time job or easy pink collar secretary job to help with the bills.
> You have up pay for everything, MALE
> muh biology
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>>17513023

....yes? and 20+ children is in at least the top 0.005% of this country, so again, that's really not too much to ask.

a quiverfull wife taking a "pink collar secretary job" would be objectively extremely harmful to the children and the household, homeschooling + housework + being the primary care taker for 4 or 12 or 24 children is more work than any job you will ever take on, but of course you will never admit that so w/e. Also it is against the very basic tenets of the movement and (apparently) biblical law.

Also I'm bringing an inheritance of over 1.5 mil to the marriage, that alone is more "helping with the bills" than you will ever do in your entire life, the point is he has to contribute SOMETHING, I'm already taking care of the entire home.

>muh liberalism and feminist indoctrination is gospel, if you don't "contribute" by working for shekelstein you aren't contributing at all

boy I love this website, I love modern men, holy shit
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>>17512496

are you interested in complete submissiveness? like, are you wanting to basically be a breeding slave here? you mentioned inheritance, are you under the assumption that you would have some control over it post-marriage?
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>>17513053
Your "inheritance", if it even exists, is probably not in cash. Even if it were, it would last maybe 15 years. Then what? Are you going to beg TLC to give you a television show?

Most of these Quiverfull and ultra Orthodox Jews are on government assistance, because it's fucking hard to have a 6 figure career. You'll be able to have your quiverfull family easy, but only if you stop being such a cunt about getting food stamps and monthly welfare checks.

If it's so easy to make 6 figures, why don't you get a 2 year degree and start making your millions? You couldn't do it, even if you tried. but you're not even going to try. You're just going to sit back and shit on men for not achieving your delusional edgy expectations
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I took the liberty of making a thread for you.
>>>/pol/87071840
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>>17513059

Yes, complete submissiveness, basically a breeding slave but one treated with respect, i.e not that weird bdsm thing where they beat them and call them slurs, but a sort of respect and mutual worship towards each other for how well we preform our respective roles.

I would be giving him control over all finances (and basically everything else), that is why it's so important to find someone I can trust and respect with these major decisions, the screening process is going to be absolutely crucial.
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>>17512666
>It could very easily be done on 100k a year, and the type of guy who doesn't have the basic intelligence/self-discipline to get even that probably shouldn't be reproducing anyways.
So what, only the top percentage of this country should breed? Fuck off with that silly nonsense. You talk about how liberalism is destroying this country, but you're essentially calling the majority of men who work hard blue collar jobs stupid and undisciplined.

I always get a kick out of the fact it's the women who have no actual experience or knowledge that try to insult others careers.
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>>17513098
> get a 2 year degree and you'll be making 300k per year any job you want

She doesn't even think you need a math PhD for that
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>>17513098
Spoken like a true faggot.

>So what, only the top percentage of this country should breed?

Yes. This. Exactly this. You are just mad because you are not the privileged elite and you take offense.

I am, and I am offended that you are alive, you leech.


And to the OP, come to daddy. I will take care of you, all you need to do is listen to what I say.
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>>17513090

Holy shit you are so bitter and entitled, it is genuinely astonishing to me, you have really been royally fucked over by feminist indoctrination.

I'm not "getting a 2 year degree and making my millions" (lmao) because that is not my biological role, I'm already 19, I've wasted several of my most fertile years, i'm not going to waste more of them for literally no reason, you cannot work and be a decent mother at the same time, by the time I saved up enough to "prove something" to a bitter manchild on the internet I'd be past my prime child bearing age.

holy shit, I just genuinely can't believe people like you exist, this is amazing to me.

>>17513093

uhhhh....that is going to be really really awkward since I won't have the OP ID......but thanks for the thought I guess?
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>>17512666
Ashley Madison was a joke because that Duggar guy was on it.

Yes I realize quiverful isn't polygamy. But those groups live the same lifestyle, essentially (women have tons of kids, non stop, and stay at home, etc) and have a shortage of women so they are more likely to be open to outsiders converting. With polygamy it might actually be easier than quiverful because you'll have other women to support you and the 50 or so kids and stepchildren.
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>>17513128
I'll confess I made the thread and vouch for you. Go post there and I'll do it.
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>>17513128
Look at that, a 19 year old who has never had a job and never will, is telling us how easyyyyyyy it is to be in the top 5% of income earners.
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>>17513123
>Yes. This. Exactly this. You are just mad because you are not the privileged elite and you take offense.
Nah. I'm an Engineer from a blue collar background, I actually respect people for things more substantial than income. I know this type of gal, they're usually some ditz that thinks they have an inkling of what the real world is like when they're incredibly sheltered.
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>I wish. That's the kind of woman I want, one that will give us as many children as possible.

Looks like you've already got a nibble, OP.
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>>17512496
All you can do is date until you find people with similar end goals. I lucked out in that I married a pagan and he eventually saw more logic in atheism. We were both okay with the idea of not having kids. But now that we're in a good place financially, and the relationship is at it's best, he wants me pregnant and in the kitchen. I love it.
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>>17512977
You are a fucking idiot and it sadens me that people like you will be breeding
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150k/yr isn't that impossible for someone in the trades. Hell, if you have some balls and hire a few guys and start your own business like a plumbing business you can clear 300k+ without too much trouble. I deal with these guys all the time, wish I was good at working with my hands....

From what I understand, large families like that, the older kids help take care of the younger kids. My wife has 11 siblings (Philipino, lol) and ...I guess it worked out for her.
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>>17513178
>Hell, if you have some balls and hire a few guys and start your own business like a plumbing business you can clear 300k+ without too much trouble.
No, not really. Some people have amazing success like that, and more power to them. But it's far from standard. Your average business that hires 5 guys or so will not be bringing in earnings remotely on that level.
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>>17512977
Oh my.
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>>17513146
Oh how noble and liberal of you, the first thing you pointed out when someone called your bullshit is that you make a lot of money.

The dirty little secret that liberal scum like you don't want us to know is that money the only thing you value. How do I know this?

Look at your solutions:

>homeless -> give them money
>jobless -> give them money
>poor -> give them money
>downtrodden -> give them money

Your whole ideology revolves around giving people other peoples money, based upon the false and monolithic precipice of EQUALITY. You're only solution to make people "equal" is to make them have equal wealth and money.

It's a wealth-driven ideology... the purveyors of which are filthy fucking rich.

OP is smart. She knows that family is most important. The nuclear family hierarchy is what needs to be restored. It's what has been attacked for decades and look at where we are... niggers rioting in the streets.

What's it gonna take for you people to see the light? Are we really gonna need another hitler? I hope not. But that's the path you are forcing us go down.
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>>17513232
There aren't enough rich men to go around. But OP is too much of a cunt to get a man with a normal $60,000 income and get some help from the government too. She wants dat gold
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>>17513232
>Are we really gonna need another hitler?

Jesus Christ yes.

SIEG HAIL
SIEG HAIL
SIEG HAIL
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>>17513244
What she's wanting isn't really feasible on $60,000 + assistance, especially if something bad ends up happening to one or two of her kids. And with that many kids, a few of them are bound to be ill. Hospital visits and medication can eat up all of your money.
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OP is looking for whats known as a "real man".

We are rare, but we are still out there. Keep fighting the good fight and don't settle for these nu-male weabbs and vaper faggots
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>>17513232
>Oh how noble and liberal of you, the first thing you pointed out when someone called your bullshit is that you make a lot of money.
You stated that I was mad that I'm not privileged, I'm stating that my concerns have nothing to do with that.

>Your whole ideology revolves around giving people other peoples money, based upon the false and monolithic precipice of EQUALITY. You're only solution to make people "equal" is to make them have equal wealth and money.
Never said that. I'm keen on charity, but nothing forced.

Kind of weird that you'd talk about needing another Hitler, when they have socialist in the party name. Their big thing was about respecting the worker if you take their rhetoric at face value, but yet you two went out of your way to disrespect them.
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>>17512496

8/10 bait senpai
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I'd propose OP, but you're talking about being an independent farmer, for which I don't have the initial capital to invest. It's about the only occupation for which a large family is a reasonable consideration these days.

Also, I kinda like being a public service worker. Not sure how I'd feel about farm work. That said, you could try the midwest. Fair number of women around here do just what you propose (though to be fair, they're mostly Mormons). Hope you like grassy fields and tornados.
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>>17512496
Post face and we'll see how far you'll get. I put my money on you be disturbingly ugly though.
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Hi there op, are you my ex girlfriend by any chance? How's all that rust playing treating you.

If not you seem nice, I may be interested and may get wealthy enough. But tfw Canadian.

I'm on fetlife if you're interested in chatting.
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OP, are you sure about this? Like, really really sure? Being pregnant isnt all that great 99% of the time and it gets less enjoyable each time. I've had three children and I don't really want anymore. It's taxing and you aren't yourself not to mentiom the fatigue and stress that come with raising kids.

My husband and I barely have time to ourselves as well, nearly every waking moment is spent on the children (I usually spend about 4 - 5 hours shuttling my kids and their friends friends back and forth in the car each day!).

Why do you want the 'Quiver' life? Do you have problems with finding enjoyment in life? Because, if you are severly depressed, you have an even harder time being a mother. Whilr having children was the kick in the pants that pushed me to seek treatment for my depression, the first few months after I had my first were hell, and I wasnt a very great mother in all honesty.

Seriously OP, get your life together before you go down the path of having children.
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>>17513053
How is creating children helpful to society you worthless whore? They'll all grow up mentally deformed from being raised by a fucking retard like you

Oh, you're bringing inheritance to the marriage? You think that's at all related to you? That's your parents' work you fucking downie, you contribute nothing to the world
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>>17513094
Screening process?

A worthless whore like you should take what you can get. Men should be screening you out
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>>17513142
Haha what a fucking retarded little immature girl, jesus fuck I hate humanity
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