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Hey guys. Little backstory here:
>Started dating a girl Jan 2013
>Dated until Oct 2014, broke up for 3 months
>During this time I had sex with 3 girls, she got raped by a guy she was friends with
>We get back together, I come clean about my shit, she is psychologically destroyed
>From Jan 2015 - Oct 2015 I endure an enormous amount of emotional and mental abuse from her, therapy doesn't seem to be helping, but I can't take it anymore
>Throughout this time I was held hostage with suicide threats, etc. The thought of leaving her alone in this sadness left an intense feeling of dread in me. I can't emphasize just how strong this feeling is.
>In this time she drops out of college, drops out of the military, stops therapy, decreases contact with family and friends
>She writes me occasionally, tried dating another guy, it didn't work out, and around June of this year I try to be friends with her again
>Obviously bad idea, shit hits the fan, once again I realize I can't have her in my life. The intense feeling of dread and sadness comes back when I think of her, and I don't know what to do about it except to cut off all contact with her, which is the only thing that seems to make her happy.
What the fuck can I do? If she's in my life, she makes me unhappy, if she's not in my life, I'm sad because she's unhappy. This sucks.
She said she's moving across the country to start a new life in two days, and she wants to know if I'll see her one last time. The feeling of sorrow is so bad right now.
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>>17511208
dont talk to her no more man
she has to let go
t. someone that has never been in a relationship
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>>17511218
I know that's what I need to do but it fucking sucks. I want this feeling to go away.
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>>17511232
The feeling will only go away with time. It really sucks that she was raped, but she needs to realize that she might need help and not just go because other people are telling her to do it.
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>>17511251
It sucks. I can't listen to half the shit on the radio without it hitting me in the feels.
I don't even want to be with her anymore. I just wish we coulda been happy together / I pity her in a non-condescending way.
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>>17511208
>During this time I had sex with 3 girls, she got raped
well that escalated quickly
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> she got raped by a guy she was friends with
She is a liar
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>>17511273
I really did
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>>17511283
It*
>>17511282
No, I actually believe her. Trust me, I investigated this thoroughly and talked to a lot of people who have worked with rape reportees. If I felt that was even a possibility I would not have gotten back together with her.
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>>17511285
real rape but no charge ?
well well that's rare
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>>17511288
It's actually not. Women don't report it because they know guys like you will rip them for even claiming they were raped.
We filed a report with the Title IX coordinator but they literally said "it's his word against yours so unless he confesses we can't do shit". Obviously people don't confess to rape.
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