Loyalty in relationships

>>17505310
>hurt broken
I meant heart lmao

No, the minute I get into a relationship, I get the insatiable urge to go out and fuck other guys. I just can't help it, OP, I just can't. I just want to fuck every guy I can.

>>17505314
Damn... Really makes you think.........

>>17505314
Ikr
And its the same thing with every female friend I have.

>>17505316
It's really not our fault. You're just so easy to cheat on

>>17505323
wowww.......... incredible advice...........

>>17505326
No really. You think I'm at school or work? Nope, I'm in bed with another guy. Why would I need an education or to earn money if I have a boyfriend?

>>17505310
You have to be 18 to post on this site.

>>17505310

No.

I've been with ,my ex of 5 years and she was seeing another guy on the side.

>>17505330
nigger shut the fuck up go outside already you've done enough bumping in my thread go jerk off to some cuk porn or something you delusional faggot cunt

damn how many meme responses does it take with you filthy motherfuckers for you to fuck off?

>>17505334
I'm sorry, were you triggered?

>>17505337
>triggered
Plebbit in full action. Oh yes.

>>17505331
You have more inches to your meat curtains than he has years of living

>>17505310
>>17505310

You'll have to decide if it's worth the risk to trust her. There are certainly still people in relationships that can be loyal and prefer a monogamous relationship. It is possible, they do exist. However, trust is a risk. Faith in your partner can be difficult. You either need to take the leap and trust her, or start working your way out of the relationship. A relationship without trust is terrible thing. That's not to say trust is not without reward, at least to me. I find that one of the greatest feelings in life, is to put your faith in someone, to put your trust in them, and for them to uphold that trust, the faith that you put in them.

You've been dating this woman for almost a year. If you've been paying attention, you should have a pretty good idea whether or not you can trust her. It also depends on what you mean by trust. Do you mean can you trust her to stay with you and not leave/cheat? If yes, the answer is more questions. What kind of relationship do you have? Would you say it's 'healthy' or 'balanced'? Has she ever violated your trust before? Have you ever violated her trust before? These are all things to consider.

I do have some advice though. If you do decide to trust her, and become more serious about the relationship, do not become complacent. This is a mistake many who get married fall into. They fall into the trap of thinking that they no longer have to work to maintain balance and keep working on attending to the others' needs. Don't let the romance or passion be killed by apathy. I'm convinced that's why the divorce rate in the U.S. is so high. Very few couples see their relationship as something requiring constant care, attention, and nurturing. Never stop seeking to improve.

Good luck my friend, I hope you find happiness in whatever choice you make.

>>17505358
Thanks for both your advice and the so well thought-out post, buddy. I will sure try my best. Have a nice life

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>>17505310
Fuck women. Get lasagna instead.
-Lasagna doesn't ceaselessly throw passive-agressive bullshit at you.
-Lasagna isn't fucking her ex for 6 months because it "still loves him"
-When Lasagna promises you that it won't bring guys to the dorm it actually keeps the promise instead of hanging cumdrenched panties on your doorhandle.
-Lasagna doesn't get upset when you take a picture of those panties and send them to it's ex.
-Lasagna doesn't throw out your rare plant collection in a tantrum.
Oh and Lasagna says : 2-3 people but it's actually for you alone, not the opposite.

>>17505310
>How can you be sure you won't get your hurt broken?
You will, eventually. Even if your partner is perfectly loyal and faithful for their entire life, they will eventually die, and break your heart that way. The only way to avoid it is to die first, and then you will be breaking your partner's heart.

In other words, you are going into this with the wrong goal. You cannot avoid pain. What you need to do instead is find people who are worth the pain.

>How to know when you can trust somebody?
You don't know. Ever. This is why they call it "being faithful".