Hey /adv/ would you inform someone if they were being cheated on?
Some backstory:
Me and my ex of 4 years recently started to hang out again. Things began to escalate over time and we began getting very close. We started having sex regularly and spoke of the possibility of getting back together in the near future.
However, we happened to be looking at something on her phone when she got a text from her boyfriend. She admitted this was the case, said she was sorry and what a horrible person she was. I'm pretty infuriated at the entire circumstance. I'm thinking of informing her boyfriend out of both spite and feeling sorry for the dude, as she's been cheating on him this entire time. Not sure if doing so will clear my conscious or if it's better to just forget her.
>>17504587
depends if i knew them. as a general rule, yes. sometimes even if im sleeping with the cheater. often times no.
basically if im sleepign with a married man, and theres kids, im okay with it. they're just trying to get by until they can get a divorce when the kids are old enough
>>17504587
Do it, never trust a who're that's cheating to be with you anyway. Dealing with that shit with my soon to be ex-wife now
>>17504587
>I'm thinking of informing her boyfriend out of both spite and feeling sorry for the dude, as she's been cheating on him this entire time.
Do it for his sake man. There's no reason to believe he deserves a cheater so let him decide what he wants rather than hiding it.
>>17504617
Have fun burning in hell
It depends on whether you still want to be her friend or not. If you're going to tell on her for the sake of a stranger, let it be because you thought long and hard about it, not because of some immediate emotional urge.