A serious question. Should I confess my feelings to my crush

No, depression will make your relationship with them sour real quick. Fix yourself first.

>>17503754

Inviting someone else into your life so you can drag them down with your depression too is a very selfish thing to do.

Any girl you're with you'll end up trying to use a lifesaver to keep you happy and occupied to deal with your oppression and eventually she'll come to resent you and leave you because no one will ever want to be solely responsible for someone else's happiness.

Get help, first. If you want your relationship to last, that is.

OP here.
But do you think confessing my feelings will help me get some weight off of my shoulders, thus making it slightly easier to improve myself? There's absolutely no guarantee that she even feels the same for me. Just thought that maybe it was a good idea to get it out rather than keeping it bottled up, no matter the outcome.

>>17503817

>But do you think confessing my feelings will help me get some weight off of my shoulders

No. Unloading your baggage onto other people for the purpose of getting weight off your shoulders is selfish.

Even IF she has feelings for you you are emotionally unequipped to take it any further.

Nothing good can come from telling her.

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>>17503837

Okay, thanks for sharing your views. Think I'll just stick it through and probably visit the health clinic at my university. Luckily they offer free help for student between 19 and 25.