Anyone here really obsessed about being perfect? Now you may

>>17503389

>and no girl will ever be satisfied with me.

Most people date relativisticly. If you are a 7 due to fitness and such, average girls will be into you.

>Any advices on how I can get the fuck over my insecurities and finally be happy?

Keep trying to make something of yourself.

>>17503392

Yes average girls are into me but from what I experienced, if given the chance to 'upgrade' they will just go for it

>>17503397

>Yes average girls are into me but from what I experienced, if given the chance to 'upgrade' they will just go for it

Sure.

Also, you are too focused on fitness. Fitness is important, but it's a baseline at best.

>>17503400
I'm too focused on everything I start doing , that's the problem.I can't help it anymore.I tried to stop overdoing things but I felt really guilty.

>>17503404

I could be wrong, but I have an impression that you "overdo" in a way that isn't productive. Like, you focus on things that don't get you maximum benefit for the time. Doing that is similar to being lazy because once you get used to something it's easy, but generally has diminishing returns (e.g. working out too often).

Just something to think about. I could be wrong.

>>17503389
I'm sorry she did that to you, anon. People can be really shitty. But remember, if she cheated on you there's a chance she'll cheat on the other guy too. You don't need or deserve that. You really are better off without her, regardless of who she chose over you.

And look, there's only so much you can do about your looks. Once you reach "perfection", you'll find other things to nitpick about yourself, and there will always be people who are better than you. People will still screw you over and cheat anyway. Focus your energy on other things that you can work on: hobbies/career, personality, etc. and try to be the best in those aspects. Turn your frustrations into motivation to improve, for your sake and happiness alone. The attracting girls part will come naturally, eventually.

>>17503389
What the fuck is this chart ?
Im 6´2 and it got me more problems than benefits in life, I even hit my head from time to time on doors and such. Everyone who wants to be even bigger is borderline retarded.

also: It may come with a big dick, but it gives you no advantage whatsoever - Its no use as a hookup and when they sleep with you anyway, who even gives a shit

And think about that: That guy sounds like a fucking asshole, so he probably broke your gf's heart like she did to you - so cheer up

>>17503507

I can confirm. 6'4 and I hit my head on the bus all the time.

OP, maybe just come to terms that there ARE people that's better than you in various areas? I'm sorry about the girl, shit happens man..

Can't say that I relate. If you were perfect, wouldn't it be the most painful thing to see yourself grow old, pass your prime, and eventually whither away like anyone else?

Even if an individual would be perfect, life takes care of it.

i thought that i was over my obsession with being perfect, but i've realised that actually just ignored it and by that i disqualified myself in my own mind to actually accomplish something challenging

>>17503507
Pretty sure that chart is a troll. The whole "manlet" thing is pretty stupid to begin with but the idea of 6'1" being unacceptably short & the idea that EVEN GIRLS ARE NOW THIS TALL is just ridiculous.