So last month my girlfriend started cheating on me and later

>>17503335
>INB4 just dump her OP.
If it was once, i can understand staying. My gf stayed after i cheated on her, and i'm not doing that again.

But if the fact of the matter is that your gf is doing it again with the same guy, it's obvious that you should just dump her. What they have is better than what the two of you have - you can manipulate them into breaking up for good, but she'll always know that there was something that was better than staying with you exclusively.

It's taken me a long time to realize but you simply can't will your partner to change. Your gf is a cheater, you can either accept that and tell her to make sure you never see anything so you can pretend it doesn't exist, or you can't and break up.

Me: >>17503348
Seconding this: >>17503351

Some cheaters can change. But you gf is obviously not one of those. She'll find someone else.

You're girlfriend doesn't respect you anon. This was made very clear. Grow a pair and learn to live without a girlfriend for a while.

>>17503348
>>17503351
>>17503358

It's complicated, and yes, I'm aware that cheaters rarely change. This about whether I should dump her, or whether she can change.

To be honest, I completely agree with you three, but it's still not the option I'm choosing.

I want him to stay away from her, and vice versa, he's a manipulative person, taking advantage of her severe depression.

They were together on and off for a while before me and her even met and began our relationship, he's been influencing her since he came back into her life, and I'm not willing to give up on her just yet.

>>17503335
Your GF won't change. Leave her.

>>17503381
>s-she is the victim guise
>it is a-all his fault

>>17503405
Nope, she's more at fault than he is, I know that just as well as you do.

Doesn't mean he's not manipulating her though.

And thanks for contributing to the topic, instead of trying to push my buttons.

It's not a matter of her cheating/not cheating you anymore. It's about respect.

Your gf no longer respects you and cracked the whole foundation of your relationship.

The fact that's your actually plotting to have YOUR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND break up with another dude is just fucking pathetic. Even if your master plan does work, she will do it again in the future. Stop delaying the inevitable.

Break up with her, being single is not that bad.

>>17503335
cuck

leave her.

she has already left you.

>>17503335
the problem is you OP and you are too far gone to help. Got you a real winner

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lol cuck

>INB4 I'm called a cuck or something.
dude, you ARE a cuck
doesn't matter if we call you or not
you're a cuck
a literal
cuck

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>>17503335
>yes i forgave her
>INB4 I'm called a cuck or something.

OP, you're a massive cuck and nothing you say or do will prove otherwise.

top zozzle

pic related btw

>>17503335
The only answer is to sincerely communicate to her your feelings and suspicions. If after a good talk, you still are not convinced, then you should break up. Not necessarily because that means she is lying, but if you can not trust her you have no business being with her.

>>17503335

Here's what I would do:

Tell her that you're a little cuck, you surrender to her superiority, and you always dreamed of raising your wife's lover's children.

Then build yourself a little cuck shed and live there like a dog.
Tell her to starve you from time to time, and deny you water. It's best when that happens.

In your cuck shed, you should only be allowed to watch videos of Ann Coulter and octopus porn.