I'm going to college next week and I want to get more self confidence. Please be honest with this. Also, if you guys can give me some words of wisdom to help boost my self confidence that would be highly appreciated. I'm really shy and its cost me at parties, because I'm too shy to make moves or even talk to people. I don't think this thread will give me that confidence but I just want to know where I stand. I'm hoping playing college baseball and being more outgoing in college will get me farther than I ever did in high school. Thanks
>>17501496
grow your hair out
you look normal
good luck
>>17501496
You look perfectly fine and normal OP. No need to stress over it. People are drunk at parties, so never be afraid to join in on the conversations. They most likely won't remember the details afterwards anyway.
>>17501496
You're really cute desu.
>>17501496
Your appearance is perfectly fine. Just know that there are tons of other people as socially nervous and 'inept' if you will. One way of practicing social skills is to start small conversations with anyone, cashiers, person sitting next to you in park, people you pass, anyone.
Also, if you really fuck up, don't sweat, it's not like high school where stories will start to be passed around. Good luck.
Even if we compliment you that won't make you confident. True confidence comes from overcoming your insecurities yourself. Approval from us will burn out quick.