Should I consider getting into a relationship even if I only want better sex? Are there better reasons to get into a relationship?
>>17499576
In your twenties? Twenties relationships are often just practice relationships for when you're in your thirties and can start building a life with another person
Op here. I'm 26.
>>17499576
depends on how well you handle break ups.
i do what you do on a regular basis. i have flings that last between two weeks and three months. at the three month point it becomes a 'this is getting serious' and they want to see me more than twice a week and we gotta break up deal. and im good and okay with that.
so if ur good with that, go for it but if you know its going to be more than three months, not a good idea. you or her or both are gonna get hurt.
I've done hookups, but I don't like it. I'll explain if you're interested, but I think it's because I don't have an emotional connection with the girls I get with. Op again
Protip: the reason relationship sex is better is because of the feelings involved. Sure, lots of practice with that specific person doesn't exactly hurt either, but primarily the emotional connection which makes it a sensation physically and mentally at the same time. Getting together with someone you don't particularly like is not just a cunt move, but also ineffective.
Not to mention you're still stuck with a single person you are not necessarily that sexually compatible with. Typically for people who are in love, the intimacy, love and desire to please each other more than makes up for incompatibilities... but it is not exactly unheard of for people to not like certain sex acts (including oral or even making out), only ever want x position because it's the only one they can cum in/last a decent time in and so on.
There are better reasons to get into relationships, but not better reasons to get into a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship.
>>17499597
>in my 30s now
>never had twenties relationships
>or teens relationships
It sucks that I never got the practice, but at least it will never come up, since clearly nobody would ever want to be with me.