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some relationship advice pls 2016-08-25 22:53:26 Post No. 17496929
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some relationship advice pls 2016-08-25 22:53:26 Post No. 17496929
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So I met this guy on tinder about a week ago and he messaged me first, he is really cool and we have a lot in common, and we really have bonded over the first few days. I have been dropping subtle hints about meeting up, but not a lot so I don't sound creepy. Lately he has been really bad at replying to me and seems really distant. I like him and I know he is a little shy at times, but I don't want to be clingy and be the one always starting conversations. I don't expect texts everyday or anything, but I am really at a loss?
Should I be straight up and ask him if he still is interested or should I just forget about him and move on? I really don't want to give up on him though?
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>>17496929
It might be that he's shy, the guy you're describing sounds like me, physically people expect me to have no issues with girls but the mentality of being an introvert just devastates me.
You could try asking him yourself, but I guess this depends on culture, where you live etc
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>>17496929
Sometimes what women think is subtle is extremely obscure to guys and over our heads.
Say exactly what you want/mean and i guarantee things will go well.
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>>17496929
Let's all love Lain.
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>>17496940
I get that, I'm an introvert too, but like he will read my texts sometimes and never answer. I don't fault him or anything on it either, it's just the mood has changed somehow I guess with our conversations. I do want to ask him out, but he barely sounds interested in even talking now. Thanks for the perspective though, I appreciate it.
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You have absolutely nothing to lose by asking if he's still interested or simply asking him out. There is no reason not to do it.
Let's all love Lain.
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>>17496951
l e t s a l l l o v e l a i n
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>>17496947>>17496964
thanks guys I probably will end up doing just that. do you think it would come off too strong if ask though?
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>>17496963
Tinder is for us introverted people, or people that just want to fuck around/attention whore.
Anyway ask him out, myself I'm really bad at initiating with tinder girls, usually never get a response back.
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>>17496987
I don't see how asking out someone you met on a dating site would be coming off too strong.
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>>17496929
The dating game translate as compromising.
If you are really interested in this person, let them know. If you just assume that just by being a (assumed) attractive person of the opposite gender is enough to form functional relationship, just show that you don't really have experience with this things.
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>>17496963
You should always shoot a text to meet up as soon as you get some chemistry going on. That way you don't waste time texting someone who doesn't want to actually meet in person.
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>>17497023
your absolutely right, I'm mad at myself for waiting this long to initiate something with him. I will take your advice next time the opportunity comes around.
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>>17497015
I didn't assume that, I believe relationships should have more substance rather than looks. But your right though, I have no experience at this
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>>17497007
yeah your right, I'm really over thinking it, thank you though.
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