Do healthy couples argue a lot? My gf and I do almost on a weekly/bi-weekly basis. It's draining on the relationship which is otherwise great. Is this normal? It can't be right ?
>>17494018
>Is a lot of arguing normal?
Why are you asking questions you already know the answers to?
What are you arguing about?
>>17494018
it's not normal. been together 8 years and we have disagreement but have rarely argued. We disagree, discuss like adults, come up with a compromise and move on.
>>17494022
I'm here for the opinions of others, fuck off if you're just gonna be cheeky
>>17494031
Nothing even worth arguing about half the time
>>17494046
Go into more details.. Might be important to your s/o
>>17494018
No, it's not normal, but common these days.
My brother's marriage is falling apart right now and they argued a lot the entire relationship (15+ years).
My husband and I have been together for 10 years and rarely argue or fight. It would kill me inside if we did fight like my brother does with his wife. I can see how it is draining you.
>>17494038
You asked if its normal. You already know its not normal.
I'm not sure where the opinions of others is supposed to fit into this.
>>17494128
>you asked a question so you know the answer
I'm inexperienced in relationships, I genuinely didn't know, fuck off