He holds my hand but he has a gf. What does it mean? They are

>>17488231
Theyre not breaking up
Tell him he's crossing a boundary

>>17488242
So that's what I should do? No other way for it at all?

I do the same thing when I'm in a shit relationship and wanna get over my partner or soon to be ex. Rebound. Unless he told you otherwise I'm not sure why you're assuming you're special.

>>17488291
I don't think I'm special. I just don't know why he acts that way? So i am just something for him to entertaining? To cope with his gf's problem ?

>>17488277
Do you really wanna date someone who doesnt respect his gf and flirts/touches other girls? Sex is one thing but he clearly has boundary issues and cant remain monogamous. Itd be different if it was completely over between them but its not fair to you or the gf. Tell him you arent comfortable with it and distance yourself from him unless you want to get involved with a jerk.

>>17488302
But I really like him. No. I love him. If it's not him it can't be anyone else

Bumpppp

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>>17488297
> I just don't know why he acts that way?
Probably he just wants to hug and pat you.

> So i am just something for him to entertaining?
Probably not. Maybe he wants more but he doesn't want more because he's a good guy and formally he still has a gf.

> To cope with his gf's problem ?
Yes. Perhaps if he hadn't have this problem he wouldn't hold your hand.

Sorry for all the perhaps/maybe/probablees.

>>17488678
Why is it seems like it always happened to girls? I meant girls prefer guys they can't have and didn't really care about them that much over the nice guy who treats them differently?

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>>17488723
It's just a basic instinct.
Just like males are always thinking about having sex with everything that moves, females are naturally attracted to guys who can provide and take care of them.
If a guy is in a relationship, that's a plus and they "notice" them because they are doing something right.
If a guy isn't in a relationship, he's doing something wrong.

A friend told me she never understood why I was single for so long and thought something was wrong with me. I explained her that the last two women I liked didn't liked me back but that wasn't enough, she still felt something wrong in me.

My wife thought the same about me, before we started dating. She literally thought I was gay because I wasn't dating any woman when I met her.

>>17488310
Stfu dumbass, yo bitch ass about to get fucked over. Cya nerd

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>>17488723
> I meant girls prefer guys they can't have and didn't really care about them that much over the nice guy who treats them differently?
Playing the nice guy doesn't work.
I know: I played the nice guy for more than a decade.
It's a lie because you're playing a facade towards a girl you want to date, when in fact you wouldn't play that role with a girl you weren't interested in.
You wouldn't even know how to make her happy in a proper relationship.
Yes, I had a girlfriend: how? In a moment of weakness, I kissed her and she let me kiss her, etc.
Yes, I had a second gf many years later. how? I friendzoned her. I knew there was an attraction, I ignored it because I already knew what would happen later and I was tired of the same bs so I tried to just enjoy the friendship. Turned out I was wrong, she was the one, I accepted her feelings and have been married for ten years.
All my attempts to win a heart by playing the nice guy failed. By taking initiative I got into relationships.

Now, I'll admit that playing the nice guy allowed me to learn a lot about the wonderful world of women. I was friendzoned so hard that I got into a little group of girls who like to spend fridays watching tv and playing board games and once they forgot I was a guy and started undressing in front of me. As I said, being so beta allowed me to understand a lot of things, things men and woman have in common, things we don't and attractive dynamics.

If you want to learn XP through that careerpath, that's ok. It's not a long-term path, though.