/adv/ my relationship was going down hill for a month before

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2016-08-23 00:02:23 Post No. 17487842
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 00:02:23 Post No. 17487842 [Report]

/adv/ my relationship was going down hill for a month before my now-ex boyfriend decided to end things. Maybe like 2 days after, I met a guy who I've been talking to, who has no idea that I just got out of a 2+ year relationship, he just knows that I'm single. He recently asked me out, and I said "not now." He was thankfully cool with that, but I'm I'm wondering when I will/should be cool with dating again? I've never had a breakup from such a serious relationship, but it also feels like nothing to get worked up about because things were going so poorly for so long at the end.

Anonymous 2016-08-23 00:27:52 Post No.17487897
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 00:27:52 Post No.17487897 [Report]

Go talk to your ex and really clear things up.

Anonymous 2016-08-23 01:57:56 Post No.17488125
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 01:57:56 Post No.17488125 [Report]

>>17487897
About what? It's over

Anonymous 2016-08-23 02:20:21 Post No.17488181
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 02:20:21 Post No.17488181 [Report]

There is no correct amount of time to wait, just whenever you feel comfortable. Could be tomorrow, could be a month or two from now.

Anonymous 2016-08-23 03:08:35 Post No.17488309
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Anonymous 2016-08-23 03:08:35 Post No.17488309 [Report]

>>17487842
You'll know when you're ready. I have a similar situation with my recent ex but as the guy. It's certainly nothing compared to 2 years but we went out for 7 months. Im not ready to date until i can heathily fill this hole that im feeling in my heart. I miss having gone to muay thai, playing my violin, so itll make me feel better to be improving myself, for my next partner.

I broke up with her because her sister hated our relationship. She started dating a neighbor she had sometimes chilled with. Their mothers smoke pot together. I don't miss our relationship nor do i want it back. After the honey moon phase, annoyances started to come up. If she grew up in a better environment, i know we could have perserved our relationship.

Despite that, i honestly value our friendship. We broke up on friday and havnt spoken to her since. When is the right time to hit her up?

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