How can I deal with major jealousy concerning a girl that I really like but she doesn't share the same feelings as I do. We are good friends but will never be more and I just get really jealous when I think about her being with another guy. I know I will be swept under the rug and I don't want to see her with another guy irl because I wont be able to handle it.
>>17486678
Like its at a point also of liking her so much that when my phone text goes off my heart skips a beat and I hope its always her, usually is but when we talk I dont know when to stop talking and always end up saying too much and it feels weird to me.
>>17486683
you are in love, enjoy
>>17486678
Don't be friends with her.
>>17486718
Can't be in love because we have never done anything more then friends, never shared romantic moments together.
>>17486727
I really don't want that. We have way to much fun together when we hangout that I know that neither of us would want to throw that away because im too emotionally immature to handle my feelings.
>>17486731
How is it impossible to fall in love for a friend? it has happened to everyone
Same man. I try to flirt with her but she's really oblivious to it. Every time I see her talking to another guy I get extremely jealous.
>>17486740
yeah but isnt love made when two people share moments alone? When they make romantic gestures towards each other?
How long have you been friends?
>>17486744
I don't flirt because I know she doesn't like me more then a friend, and i've never seen her openly flirt with a guy before (it would shatter me) but one time she said she got a number from this guy when her and her friends went out and I felt awful
I really want to get over this because I know she will never feel the same for me, but I want her to be happy in life with someone she really likes. Im just not mature enough to handle something like that.
>>17486747
i've known her for 3 years but we didn't really talk that much, we started to talk alot about a year and a half ago, like everyday texting.
>>17486745
Depends on everyone, i fell in love with a girl just because i felt i could have fun with her like i couldn't with anyone else.
I didn't realised it at first, just like you. But it is love.
>>17486756
what the hell can I do about this then?
>>17486763
Nothing. Learn to not give a fuck about the emotions and keep your "monkey mind" in check. Meditate and soon the secrets of the universe will unravel themselves before you.
>>17486769
gee thanks.....
Bruh, everyday texting. Even best friends dont text EVERY day.
I knew this girl for 2 years and i liked her a fokin lot and her bf was one of my best freinds so after about 1 year of texting it worked out for me. So just be patient, and if she dosent want to be more than friends, just respect that.
>>17486772
We don't every day text anymore, but the first 3 months we texted nearly everyday about random things. I just looked up signs of being in love with someone and I hit about 7 out of 10 things on there, so I guess your right about this
>>17486763
Grow balls and ask her out.
Maybe wait a bit to be sure of your feelings
>>17486790
i've felt like this for months, but she won't go for me I can confidently say that with 100% certainty. Her boyfriends in the past are way better then I am she would never downgrade for me and I wouldn't want her to. Last thing I want to do is hold her back
>>17486797
If you said that yu talked to her non stop. You had a shot. Maybe you waited too long
I'd still try it tho
>>17486745
Are u 12?