I recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me for over a year. I confronted him about it and he immediately broke up with me. I sure didn't see this coming.
It's been two weeks now and i can't seem to get over this. I'm trying to live my life, practice sports, stay healthy but i just feel so empty inside. Whenever left alone with nothing to do i just sit still for hours until i get something to do.
>>17485959
I don't know, people say it will pass with time, but it doesn't. There always will be that little piece in you that is dead.
>>17485959
Losing boyfriend/girlfriend is a lot like losing a pet. Get a new one and you'll forget about it and when you're trying to sleep at night it will creep into your head and make you feel awful
>>17486019
Not dead, tainted. Tainted bits will still live on within you.
Dead bits imply that you're an empty shell of a human whose emotions, dreams, and general compassion have withered out of your body and into the puddle of once-innocent souls.
My gf of 17 months cheated on me with multiple men (at least two that Inknow of), multiple times. For the last 6 months I had been feeling something was off because her behavior changed, but she always said everything was fine. So I kinda saw something coming, but it still sucked just as bad to find out with certainty.
This Thursday it'll be 3 weeks since I found out. And Sunday it'll be 3 weeks since we officially broke up.
I still feel like shit every day, even though about 2 weeks ago I started to go out with another girl. But it just isn't the same... I was going to propose to her (marriage and kids had come up in conversations several times), and even got the ring. It was going to be a surprise, so she doesn't know that I did.
Why was I going to marry her in such a hurry? Because I thought she had everything I wanted, plus she'll have to leave the country soon due to her visa, even though she expressed not wanting to.
Guess I dodged a bullet there?
>>17486028
>>17486020
It takes time
>>17486019
>>17486028
I want to die
>>17486047
Yeah senpai you did dodge a bullet, but seeing as you are a retard trying to shoot himself it will happen soon or later.
>17months
>marrage
>ring
You are a meme in real life. Let that sink in.
>>17486059
Honestly I felt it was rushed but at the time I figured that as long as she didn't get preggers, what's the worst that could happen?
I didn't expect the cheating part to be true. Suffice to say I was only gonna risk her because I didn't want her to have to leave the country.
Now I am glad she's leaving and I will never again make the same mistake
>>17486059
Also, the ring is not a big deal. Fortunately I make good money and I can make some of it back at a pawn shop. It's not the money that hurts, but the principles