>Started working as a cashier in a grocery store 2 weeks ago
>Met a girl that used to be in my high school, a strong 8/10
>She is clearly attracted by me
>She touches my face and says "wow my hands are so cold, feel it", hits me playfully all the time, looks me deeply in the eyes, told me "i don't talk to guys if i'm not interested in them", etc
>If i speak about other girls, she becomes mad
>We went to eat on two occasions after work, i don't know if we can consider this as a date
>I was too much of a pussy to do something
At this point i'm fucking desperate. I'm 21 years old and i've never had a girlfriend, i am actually ugly and she is way out of my league, so i cannot fucking fail. But i'm a sperglord, i don't know what to do guys.
How am i supposed to make her my girlfriend ? How am i supposed to act with her ? I will ask her for a third date on tuesday, i feel like if i fail another time, it will be game over. Help me please.
Also, i have 4 amphetamine pills. This shit makes me feel like superman and i think it might boost my confidence enough to act properly. But at the same time, this shit makes me shake and i have muscle spasms when i take it, so i don't know if it's a good idea. Anyway. Tell me how to behave.
Should i kiss her ? How ? Am i supposed to hold her hand first, and then go for the kiss ? Thanks.
Keep it simple and ask how it is. Don't let the label or actions of the relationship get to you. Milk it for what it is. Kiss her, hug her, fuck her, whatever. Don't give a shit about relationship until it gets to that point. Friends kiss and fuck friends and so do strangers and acquaintances. Don't Let this get to you.
>>17482915
He's right. Start some open communication with her before anything goes down. Ask her "what all of this is" and take it from there. You got this anon. remember, you were born as you and even though you may dislike yourself, you don't have too, this is your only shot on earth so fuck what everyone else thinks of you! normies are less than you, you can do this!
>>17482554
ask her to go to dinner on a day you are not working. that will be a date. you don't have to go making moves right away so stop putting so much pressure on yourself. sounds like you are doing fine
>>17482554
You could also be reading the signs all wrong. Like she already friend zoned, and feels very "safe" around you to be telling and doing those things to you in a gay friend manner.