I have a coworker that seems to hate me whatever I do. Is it of any benefit to chat her up on Facebook to ask what her problem with me is or does that make me look weak?
>>17476937
>does that make me look weak?
In short, yes. Ignore it or confront her in person.
Tbh you shouldnt be worrying about this at all, this is female-tier drama
>>17476937
You can get a buddy to come in and complain to management about her, she will forget about you temporarily.
Wouldn't recommend though.
Take care of it face to face. Be very polite, but very direct. "May I discuss something with you? My impression is that you have a problem of some kind with me. Can we figure out a way to resolve this issue together?" Whatever response you may get, write everything down and give a copy to your boss and hr.
>>17476937
Treat her just as shitty as she treats you, if not worse. See how long it'll take before she changes.
That or confront her or ignore it.
If possible confront her in person and ask "are you ok" kindly, or "are you alright, I'm sorry if I did something" if it's a matter of she's avoiding you you may have to text her if it's bugging you that badly.
I'm saying this because I have been on the other end before and sometimes the girl may think the same of you so she avoids you. Do you think you did something to hurt her?