ITT: Questions that dont need their own thread

I am from a small city in southern Europe and the average person here cannot speak English fluently. Will I leave an impression on the Anglophone customers at my company/Anglophone coworkers visiting my city because of their jobs if I speak English fluently?

>>17475705
To what regards do you mean impression? They won't offer you a job, but perhaps note it and be impressed. If you really want to gain something, you have to take the initiative.

>>17475793
No I don't mean a job offer but I mean remember me more or something like that

>>17475794
I'd imagine they'd remember you more, speaking fluently would mainly help you make conversation and perhaps lead to interactions that would do that. In your town, does that skill make you especially valuable?

>>17475797
I am from a city. Some area has more expats than others so English is useful in those areas.

>>17475805
I'd say speaking fluently wouldn't be much more than useful.

>>17475808
Ah so it is not such an important skill?

>>17475812
Depends on the work, but that's what it is - a work skill.

Where you at doc? I might have a medical problem. I'm tall and somewhat thin. I have long arms, legs, fingers, toes, and somewhat flexible joints. I have scoliosis (I can't remember the angles). My chest sticks out. I have somewhat crowded teeth. I do not have flat feet.

I've got 5 of the 6 signs of marfan syndrome. Should I get it checked out by a real doc?

Anyone here with a kindle? Should I get one?

>>17475865
Yes and yes. Get the paperwhite. I was a staunch book supporter until I got Kindle keyboard years ago, holy fuck it's so handy. Paperwhite is great as it's backlit, e ink means your eyes don't get destroyed like with a tablet. Battery lasts forever. Cam thoroughly recommend

Is it normal to want to meet people who share the same interests as you? I joined an Erasmus internship program in France and when it turns out that almost everyone in my program has little interest in French culture and just wants to party and have fun I can't help but feel a bit disappointed (I really like French culture).

>>17475882
>Is it normal to want to meet people who share the same interests as you?

Completely normal.
Sometimes it takes some time to find somebody with the same interests.

I am considering buying another fleshlight (I have Forbidden one), which one would you recommend? I am considering Stamina training unit

I have a serious crush on this guy who I've never talked to at work. If I could get him slightly alone I would ask him out, but his coworkers and/or my coworkers are always around. There is a zero percent chance that I will ever be brave enough to chat him up with them nearby. Should I contact him on facebook or would that be too weird?

I'm sure you guys have answered this question a hundred times, but I wasn't here then.

>>17476437
Why are you only seeing him at work?
If you wanna date him at least chill with him a couple times. Maybe get his number first. Then you can text him and ask him to chill

>>17476453
But how to get his number if I'm too panzee to ask for it in front of our coworkers?

>>17476437
it would be weird
when a woman asks a guy out she looks like a whore
if he didn't ask you out, he doesn't care
forget about it

>>17476486
I knew it. I just needed to hear someone else say it.

>>17476474
Try leaving him a note with your phone number on it? You could draw a little heart on it.

Bit childish but it could work. If your company has any socials you could try going to one with him too.

How does one get a gf? for real i can't seem to understands how that works

>>17476723
"I like you"
"I like you too"
"Cool, lets fuck"

>>17476779
i wish it was this easy.

I'm learning php. Which php framework is great for a beginner ?

>>17476494

You don't need to ask him out. Flirt with him when you get him alone and if he's interested and isn't beta he'll ask for your number.

>>17476838
I can't get him alone. I've been waiting for an opportunity, in the break room or something, but I usually only see him when he comes to talk to my boss. I also have no where to leave a note for him. And I can not flirt with him in front of my boss.

So my gf is a bitch to a lot of people (not me though) and was (still is) a "bully" to others. Is it wrong that I get turned on by this?

Does anyone have any tips on how to stop biting your nails?

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How do I stop fearing that I'll fall out of love with my boyfriend?

I know that sounds absolutely fucking retarded, but I have a really bad issue with anxiety. Any time I get even a sliver of doubt in my mind about us, it sends my anxiety into a panicky overdrive and I overthink fucking everything.

It's driving me insane because I know I love him and I can't imagine my life without him. How do I cope with this crap?

>>17476887
Nope. Different strokes for different folks

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how to get over my Girlfriend's relatively tame sexual past? esp her being a douchey club bro

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>>17477541
with*

>>17477541
By realizing that people had lives before they met you. She could never have possibly known she'd be with you.

In college; sex with a roommate?

Not as in fucking a roommate but having sex while also having a roommate. Best way of going about that?

How important is the initial connection and 'being on the same wavelength' in a relationship?

He's considerate, wealthy, accessible, has an excellent graduate job waiting for him, not terrible looking. I could probably depend on him. But I don't like him in that way - our conversation isn't stimulating. Could feelings develop later? I don't want to lead him on just to hurt him.

>>17477756

Just tell your roommate you want to get laid. Usually they will either just do their own thing for the night or let you know next time they're gunna be out.

Would eating an entire bag of butterscotch chips in one sitting, in under an hour, cause me to have intense watery diarrhea?

17 yr old girl and 39 yr old guy? legal here

>>17478430
Creepy

I have some spare money.
Should I austitically save it like I always do, or should I buy something nice for my mother?

>>17478425
Yeah probably

>>17478473
Thought so, seeing as I had it for about a day and a half now. It's only solid-ish in the morning, but it's literal butt-piss now.

Anyway, thanks.

>>17478430
I'm sure she's fun to look at, but what the fuck would you talk about during dinner?

>>17478460
If her enjoyment of the gift > the value of the money ) both now and saved) then yes.

>>17478430
where did you meet?

>>17477511
>23:11:44
Elastic band on Your wrist flick it everytime you get close. Or keep your hands busy with a rubiks cube or sth

What are some alternative websites to 4chan that are fun to use?

I didn't get picked to play in the finals for my local soccer team even though I turned up to almost every training session. My coach said apologised for the situation with no real reason for why he didn't pick me. I'm not the worst player on the team and people who almost never turn up to training got picked over me. The question is am I being bitter for not wanting to go watching my team play on the day? The other people in my team who didn't get picked don't care to watch either.

>>17479003
seconding this. I need to get the hell out of here, but the rest of the internet is either highly specialised shit or even more of a wasteland than 4chan is. some of the other chans are sorta interesting, but they're too slow to hold my interest for long.

>>17477825
probably not. if you can't have interesting conversations, you're both going to be bored to tears before long.

>>17475822
yes

>>17479035

>The question is am I being bitter for not wanting to go watching my team play on the day?

Yes. Don't be a child. Go support your team. Learn how to swallow your pride and be happy for other people's successes now before you reach adulthood and realize no one in your life wants you around because you throw hissy fits whenever things don't go your way.

I've lost competitions. Lost scholarships. Lost jobs and opportunities to people that weren't even as skilled as I was but failure can either be a springboard or quicksand. Everyone's knee jerk reaction is to be hurt and betrayed and crawl in a hole to sulk but you have to get into the habit of making the choice to overcome it.

Show up and show everyone that it takes more than missing out on one soccer game to crumble you.

A really good friend of mine is a 23 y/o virgin and has only had one gf in high school. He's not hideous just shy, but he beats himself up over it. Is there any way I could help cheer him up? I feel like the usual "you'll find someone eventually" is overplayed and no one listens to it anyway.

>>17479063
Encourage him to focus on self improvement like hobbies, getting a better job, finding out what he really wants out of life. I think one of those aspects in his life is lacking and he expects having a gf to be a solution to that. Once your friend learns to live the best life he can for himself without a girlfriend he will have the confidence to attract, approach and have healthy relationships with quality women.

Plan B is to settle for neurotic fatties if he wants a gf without self improvement.

is it possible for a teacher to enjoy talking to his/her student and be interested in maintaining contact with him/her?

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How the fuck do I learn how to dance? Im going out with a solid 9 and she wants to go dancing. How the fucking do I dance? I'm fucking 6ft4 265 I don't wanna look like an awkward tall guy.

>>17479116
Yes.
I've kept in contact with an English teacher and a Math teacher (from high school) because they were legit awesome people.

I'd like to think that having more in common with the teacher than people of your age signifies mental maturity but it feels a bit edgy to say that P:

>>17479127
yeah, but look at people who posted in this thread i created >>17479098

>>17479127
>P:
Definetely.

I told this girl I've been talking to for a while that I wanted to meet in person to talk about "something"

She nagged me to tell her over text and I didn't want to and tried to solidify a day we could sit down together.

She was inpatient as fuck and kept asking what it was about, and eventually stopped responding after saying "whatever then"

Did I fuck up or what? I thought you weren't supposed to do this shit over text

>be in love with a guy
>hes in love with another grill
>shes my good friend and shes not interested with him, feels bad about taking him from me, and wants us to get together
What do

My GF is heading back to college next week. We wanna spend a few days together, but I finally just got a real job again less than 3 months ago and got through my thousands in bills, and my car is currentmy unregistered. I'm increasingly concerned about the risk of getting pulled over. Should I tell her we can't hang out until I pay my old parking tickets, reregister and get my overheating engine fixed (which may be a few weeks) and risk drawing her ire so close to it being about 3x more of a journey to see her? Or just say fuck ot and see her anyway?

If you ask a person you're crushing on if they have their eye on anyone and they say there's nobody, should you feel relieved because there's nobody else in the picture or rejected because that "nobody" might include you as well?

>>17476494
Just to give another angle, I want to fall down on my knees thanking the lord almighty if a woman interested in me takes the initiative instead of the other way around.

>>17476877
then something like facebook might be a good option. Maybe even consider a letter, that's very nifty. Of course explain why you didn't just ask in person.
If you stop or start work around a similar time, maybe try to catch him before/after your shift.

>>17479035
You should decide whether to watch that game based on how much you like spectating soccer games. Do you consider that a pleasurable use of your time? If yes, then I'd go watch it, and not let the whole didn't-get-picked issue enter into it. Also, when you're doing activities where you perform something in a group together with others, it can be interesting to see the group do its thing from a non-participating perspective. Maybe you can learn/notice something you usually fail to see.
If you can't stand watching soccer games, then don't go and watch it. again, don't let the didn't-get-picked thing enter into it. Maybe you couldn't give a rat's arse about watching your own team play. Well then don't go.
Who cares what the others think?

>>17478487
yeah she's fun to look at. and we talk for ages about nothing in particular. she's easy to talk with.
>>17478753
on my bro's street. was sat in the sun outside his house and we started talking.

>>17476785

Literally you just repeat steps 1 and 2, re word them a bit each time, and your done.

>>17476887
Weird: Kinda
Wrong: Not really

>>17477513
So my fix is really difficult but trust me will come in so fucking handy later on with other anxieties down the road.

Seriously talk with yourself. Create another you in your head and ask him/her about the specifics of your anxieties. In this instance ask questions like "Why would I fall out of love with someone I currently love" or "If I do fall out of love what's will happen."

This'll be painful and your head will be telling you to stop asking questions but you have to power through. Be honest with yourself. Don't take "I don't know" or other deflecting comments for an answer, and be skeptical and honest with yourself even when you want to give up to the anxieties.

When you've asked yourself everything you can about your anxiety you'll come to one of three conclusions.

1. That your anxiety is unfounded and either hyper-exaggerated or just down right wrong. This is by far the most common result. If you find your anxiety falls in this category you can feel free and comfortable abandoning that fear. Why? Because it's unreasonable. By your deduction it makes no sense so why worry about it?

2. Your anxiety is founded on a reasonable or likely scenario but it's so insignificant you shouldn't worry about it. These are rare but still, according to your deduction it's nothing to worry about.

Or the difficult one...

3. Your anxiety is founded on a reasonable or likely scenario and it is a big enough deal to worry about it. Don't be scared if you arrive to this conclusion, there's still hope yet. If this is the case understand that needless fretting over a problem does nothing to solve the problem; action on the other hand does. If you are, after thinking it through, concerned for you and your bf's future then sit down with him.

Talk with him, share your concerns for the relationship and in general. Figure out where you two want to take the relationship and why you fell in love with him in the first place

Wow... this is long..

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>>17479546
Wow anon, that was an amazing post. I can't thank you enough for taking the time to type that all out for me.

I've dealt with anxiety my whole life, but my relationship is putting it on a whole new level. My boyfriend would feel like garbage if he knew how awful this was making me feel. Not because of himself, but because he worries about me so much. We've been together for about a year now and this has been a persistent problem that happens on and off ever since a few months into our relationship.

I'll do my best to take your advice. It really is hard for me to face fears like that and you've hit the nail on the head that I avoid those questions when they pop up in my mind out of fear that I'll discover something that would make me uncomfortable.

I've been using adblock plus for my computer and looking for a adblock on my phone. Will the adblock only work on chrome or other apps i have.

>>17479215
Are... Cabs not an option?

>>17479214
Male anon here.

As tough as it may be I'd say forget about the dude. The guy clearly doesn't seem into you that much for whatever reason so there's really not that much you can do.

Be glad your friend (from what it seems) isn't a cunt who would use that as an opportunity to fuck with you. Return the favor by letting her know you don't blame her or think it's her fault.

Best of luck.

Anyone here living with extreme brain fog and/or anxiety? (Brain fog as in. Inability to concentrate, poor memory, visual disturbances, extreme fatigue) looking for someone to talk to who also goes through it

>>17479223
You shouldn't read that deep into it.

Seriously this whole fucking board is at least 50% requests for the mystical secret to getting a g/bf. The secret is you act like a fucking human being.

If you like the dude/dudette Anon, then ask them out. Don't pussy foot and go home to fucking 4chan to ask if you're doing the necessary steps to acquire qt3.14. Be confident and calm and if it doesn't work out it wasn't going to.

>>17479150
What are you fucking proposing to this bitch?

If you were going to ask you out or whatever yeah texting is fine. Don't make things difficult for her. You're trying to get her to like you, remember? Being weirdly difficult is not conducive to poon.

So, yah. You fucked up. Apologise calmly and unconditionally and if she's still not interested understand you fucked up and learn from your mistakes.

Going to work later and it's going to be horrid because people have called in sick and we're going to be understaffed.

How do I cope with the stress?

>>17479150
Nah, fuck that noise.
If that bitch can't wait for it she will never wait for anything and will demand more and more everytime.

Patience is a virtue for a reason.

>>17479718

You are stressed out and have been for anlong time (maybe from the anxiety.
Remove stress from your life, move, change jobs, drop relationship with partner or friends who give you stress, make sure you get your sleep, get better at planning so you have less stress.
Unless you smoke weed or take drugs (also medicine), then you might blame that.

>>17479797

You take things one at a time, do not allow the stress to control you, try to be mor efficient in your workflow.

Worst you can do is to go to work and already feeling stressed. You cannot do everything, take this to heart, you cannot do everything, you have to prioritize what is most importantand act accordingly.

>>17479248
If you're pushing 40 and can talk for ages with a 17 year old you need a therapist. I know, I know, you want to believe that you're normal and she's special because that would help you justify having that nice, teenage body. You're not normal, she's not special. In a few years she's going to grow up and lose interest because dating you is going to be like dating a high school kid with an extra 25 years on the odometer.

Work on yourself, man...

I am from Peru and wish to meet girls with the same nerdy interests as me (video games and movies)

I cant find a single girl with said interests near my country, either in real life or online.

Theres not enough "cons" to attend, and not a single college around here has an "anime" club (even although Im not that interested into anime)

Am I fucked?

My GF want that I cut my hair short because 'it looks good' but I want to keep it grow till I can wear a bun.
what can I do?

>>17476887
My boyfriend is sort of the same way. Though it's more that he's just overly blunt. Like your girlfriend, he's an absolute doll to me and would never say anything that would hurt me.

I think it's the thought of them being that way to pretty much only you while being assholes to most other people. Makes you feel a little special.

>>17481101
>want to wear a bun

Kill yourself.

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Will I look like a pretentious fag if I go to a bar and drink straight whiskey on rocks? pic related

>>17481328
just to give a name to the whiskey let's say its Johnny Walker black

I live in a dorm and have super bad social anxiety. I have one friend that goes to the college with me.

How do I eat at the dining hall alone?

I always tell myself "oh ill eat at 2" but end up just eating my junk food. What do?

How do I release the anger I have for things that went wrong in my life that are purely out of bad luck and out of my control? Who do I blame? I have trouble simply "accepting that life isn't fair" because it feels like I've just bottled up anger by now.

>>17481475
by having things go right in your life by pure luck and out of your control.

what are you waiting for, go do it.

>>17481343
>>17481328
You might as well go in wearing a blazer too, get a beer like a normal person you eliot rodger mother fucker, this isn't your classy endangered species hunt with your rich friends

>>17481515
>go do it
>expecting things that go right by pure luck
I'm not sure if I follow what you mean.

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>>17481445
do it , force yourself to do it
maybe it will get better

>>17481445
I feel ya. Just go somewhere else to eat (like fast food if you can, or quick things like sandwiches you can take to your dorm, or to somewhere where it's less crowded outside maybe). If you do end up just sitting down one day for lunch out of bravery, even at an empty table or whatever, you'll hardly be able to focus on what you eat. A million negative thoughts will distract you (I'm such a loser, I'm so alone, everyone thinks I'm a freak, am I eating normally, why does nobody like me) and even if some ppl sit down with you the negativity will persist (they're doing this out of pity, should I have a convo with them do they even want me too, they think I'm a loser, why can't I think of anything to say). This whole experience will just make you depressed and anxious, and obsessing over it for days/weeks to come.

Granted this is from my own experience with social anxiety. It's under control now, so If you aren't as bad As what I described, then just sit down and fuck it.

>>17481521
I'm not even rich though. I just like Chris Hitchens and he stated that it was his favorite whiskey so I want to try it but I don't want the whole bottle

>>17481569
I wasn't implying you were rich. I was implying you are trying to seem sophisticated, at a bar, you supreme gentleman you. Get some rotten barely and oats and get it into your gullet.

How do I gain emotional resilience to negative events? I used to just let things roll off my back, but now it takes the most minor of setbacks to make me angry or depressed. I feel like I don't really have a foundation to keep me stable.

>>17481582
Shit man I'm not trying to look like anything, I just want rotten corn going down my gullet rather than barley and oats

Also, what the fuck is classy about whiskey?

>>17479003
8ch and krautchan(German)

do insulated boots get really hot when it isnt cold out?

>>17481652
Yes.

>>17481101
>man bun
Commit sudoku

>>17476437

>>17476486
Don't take this guy too seriously.
That may be one of the standard reactions but guys can be just as nervous about that stuff as girls. Just because he's not asking you out doesn't mean he's not interested, he could be just as shy as you.

I developed a really bad crush on a guy at my gym (full homo) but I have no idea how to approach him, or if it's even worth it since in reality he is probably not gay. I'm not flamboyant in anyway so it's not like he would know just from looking or hearing me talk.

We see each other there like 5 times a week but never talk or even acknowledge each other really. We're basically strangers that are constantly around each other, and for some reason I really like him. We both tend to keep to ourselves and always have headphones in so I just don't know how to even make a move. It's annoying the hell out of me.

>>17481796
just stare him down while you curl

High school senior here. Should I take physics in high school if i want to become an engineer? Engineer or not, is it strongly recommended for college or any other major?

Is it weird to have previously months ago matched a girl on Tinder, gotten her number. But just text with her all the time about everything? We live close, and we talk about some pretty serious stuff too, like depression and ask each other for advice and stuff. We've been talking for like 3-4 months just through text (as friends). But we've never met IRL. I honestly don't mind what we have going on now, since I'm busy a lot and it's just nice to text someone. But is this weird?

>>17481827
Doesn't sound weird at all, it actually sounds kind of nice. Kind of like a pen pal or something I guess.

>>17481823
Pls help

>>17481833

Yeah actually, you're right. I guess she's just a pen pal in that sense. Cool!

>>17481823
>>17481838
yes

ap if you can

>>17479723
you don't just go and ask a stranger out you retarded faglord

>>17481864
Care to elaborate?

My boyfriend and I are going to start having sex soon. We're both 19 and virgins. We're both mentally ready for it and stuff, except I'm just completely paranoid I could end up pregnant. We'll use a condom everytime, and he's going to combine it with pulling out, but I'm still terrified. I could never get an abortion (personal reasons) and my parents would freak the fuck out if it happened. My mom is a total prude; she looks down on anything even remotely sexual so she'd probably kill me if she even know I was getting intimate with him. Is it unreasonable to be so terrified of accidental pregnancy? Is using a condom and pulling out effective enough that pregnancy won't really be too much of a risk? Are condoms actually enough protection when used correctly?

>>17481884

Wait... are you saying you're crushing on a complete stranger? And you asked them randomly if they're in a relationship already? The fuck are you calling the other guy an idiot for?

I have the suspicion I may have an overactive thyroid. Which doctor do I go to for that?

The reason for my suspicion is that I've been ectomorphic my whole life. Extremely skinny. 6'1, 129 lbs. I eat tons of food but I don't gain any weight.

I was on a steady diet for 2 months where I was eating between 3600-4200 calories every day with 200g of protein and didn't gain shit.

>>17479692
>3 hours away

>>17481926
I'm not that person I'm just saying that the whole "just ask them out" advice is usually retarded. You have to build chemistry first. Some anons here say they already did but others didn't and their answer shouldn't just be "just ask her out".

never done drugs but I am fascinated by lsd

should I do it?

>>17482034
I personally didn't like LSD. I only got the effect when trying to go to sleep, and I then got to watch myself, watching myself, watching myself etc etc. Mdma and speed are much more fun.

>>17482034
Hard decision. Will you be doing it with friends? Id make sure that the next day youre doing absolutely nothing. Make sure nothing can interupt your trip as well. Make sure you get it off someone you can trust, no bunk shit.

Take a very small dose first, maybe a quarter of a tab. Wait at least two hours to do more.

Its a very powerful drug. Dont take alot if youve never done it, you may expierence hell.

If its bitter then its a spitter! Enjoy

>>17482048
thanks, I'm thinking of disregarding your advice and buying that stuff online then walking several miles out into the farmland around my campus to try it out

How do I cure acne without accutane?

>>17482034
20 year old me would be all about that,
27 year old me looks back on long term cognitive shifts and says avoid.

My fondest memories have turned to delusional shit.

>>17482204
Chemo

This girl from an exchange program and I were really hitting it off but nothing happened. Would it be different if I were to study abroad over there so there's more time?

>>17481921
It is not unreasonable!
Combining different methods of birth control is the best way to avoid pregnancy (other than not having sex at all, I guess). So condoms + pulling out works.
If the condom breaks, go for the day after pill. Accidents like that happen, don't worry too much.
You could think about IUD (99.99% safe).

>>17481943
Endocrinologist.
You want to go to your family doctor and get some thyroid exams prescribed before, so you don't have to go to the specialist twice.

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My left asscheek hurts a bit, it's been happening for more than a day now. It feels a bit like when someone punches you in a muscle and after some time it starts to hurt, but not that much of course.

What do? I'm scared.

How do i do a better job of shaving my butt hole? Everywhere else is fine but my butthole is razer burn heaven. I use cream and a good razor but what else can i do? I can't exactly see it and i don't think there's much of a 'grain'.

>>17481943
You're either full of shit or over exercising. Thyroid issues don't cause that many calories to vanish.

>>17481101
Man buns are lame. Cut it you fag.

>>17479630
That depends. If rooted and use AdAway, it should get most ads depending on how they're implemented

>>17481957
Well no fucking shit.

I just took as granted that OP wasn't a complete fucking autist who's hitting on a complete stranger.

From what it seems the qt in question is already on good terms with OP.

>>17482256
Thank you so much for responding, anon! It's very reassuring that condom + pulling out should be effective, and that it isn't unreasonable to be afraid. I did figure that if anything happened like breakage, I'd go for a morning after pill. I considered IUD, but it'd be difficult getting one without my mother finding out.

Thank you very much!

>>17483129
I used IUD because I didn't want people to find out.
IUD doesn't show any external signs.
Unless your mother reads your medical records or puts her hands very deep inside your vagina, she won't know.

>>17483132
I'd be too afraid of her finding out from medical records and stuff; she controls my healthcare and expenses and everything. Thanks for the advice, though! I'll probably get one once I'm finally on my own and I move out. IUD seems like the best option for the future.

>>17483140
IUD is pretty cool. A bit painful at first, but after you got used to it it's absolutely the best thing ever.
Good luck :)

Guys/girls:
Your S.O is dressing up. Normal skimpy maid outfit, or 'Japanese' maid?
Other choices, playboy schoolgirl or cheaply nurse outfit?

Cant decide which one.

>>17483148
Japanese sailor uniform

>>17483164
No time to buy it, those are my options.

I'm going into my last year of school. What do I expect?

>>17483172
Playboy then, nurse uniforms are stupid

>>17483174
>Normal skimpy maid outfit, or 'Japanese' maid?

>>17483175
Japanese maid? I doubt you have the aesthetic to even come close to pulling that off

Just wear the playboy shit

>>17483176
My eyes aren't slanted so probably not.
I'll wait for more opinions before choosing.

Girls

how am I suppose to take girls on dates if I can't eat around them? I have anxiety, it's something I don't visually show, just it fucks with my stomach. It's something I'm seeing a therapist for. But, how am I suppose to date if I just can't eat around girls

>>17479718
Been dealing with it ever since I discontinued antidepressants. My doctor just put me back on them not long ago but I'm still dealing with brain fog. Have you been on meds before?

>>17483269
I have the same problem. Usually I just avoid making dates around meal time or involving food. Maybe buy them snacks to tide them over in a covert manner or just say you already ate. You can also just be up front. Say you're feeling sick so you don't want to eat.

>>17483370

Yeah I guess. Well, when am I suppose to tell them the truth?

Should I text my ex? We broke up a couple years ago and last year she randomly hit me up and we talked for a few weeks and then she stopped responding to me. I really miss her tho :(

>>17481547
Thanks you just made me more nervous haha.... i cant really bring food to my dorm besides nonperishable junk food. My roommates and i didnt buy a fridge yet.
I really dont like fast food or junk food either.
God i hate when people try sitting with me to be nice. Now i have to try to say something interesting.

The school only has one dinning hall and its always packed

>>17483396

She's your ex for a reason

>>17483269
Eat like a rabbit. Just order salad and eat tiny bits.

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>>17483408
i know anon but i just can't find anyone else that is as interesting as she was. i been out with different girls since we broke up and they're all so fucking boring, can't stand being around them and listen to their stupid talk or their shit taste in everything...and as far as the ones that did interest me let's just say chad got to them first

>>17483443

I think I'd look weird eating a Salad.. I'm a pretty skinny guy.

>>17483146
Thank you, anon!