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Am I overreacting or is she losing me? 2016-08-18 19:05:40 Post No. 17473942
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>Be with girl for 2 years
>Assume we are boyfriend/girlfriend/one on one
>Never talked about commitments assuming we were good
>She says she loves me, we talk daily for hours.
>She moves and we figure we can work it out
>She joking said she wants me to date this guy from France... It's a joke yes I play along but deep down it's like she's removing my masculinity and pushing me away.
>She keeps hanging around these new friends she hates
>One night this guy was drunk and tried to rape her.
>I tell her that those people are awful and she needs to stop being around them ASAP. I know I sound controlling so I kinda let it go.
>She tells me she is tired of flirting.
>I mix it up, soon sexuality isn't even brought up
>I ask which one of us will make the move
>She panics, "Anon, you shouldn't commit to me!"
>Things are awkward. She isn't very supportive of my dreams/goals anymore.
>She randomly gets angry at me and blames me for everything. Says I lack commitment yet I'm the one who is making the goals and planing my future.
>She says she gets jealous when girls fawn over me.
>She can never take compliments gracefully.
I'm just not feeling it anymore... The love feels lost and I wonder why she said she loves me? I don't get her endgame but it's starting to make me depressed.
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>Be with girl for 2 years
>Assume we are boyfriend/girlfriend/one on one
lol what? How do you not know after two years?
>I ask which one of us will make the move
You, a man, ASKED a woman which of you should make the first move?
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>>17473942
Why don't you have a conversation about what you want and what she wants?
I gotta say though, someone who hangs out with people they "hate" is a loser. These are people she's choosing to associate with, and if she doesn't like them, that's a huge warning about what kind of person she is. Mostly I associate that with a shitty sense of self and an inability to maintain whatever sense of ethics and boundaries she has.
That she's acting out at you and blaming you for her unhappiness is also really not a good thing. That's either a guilty conscience over her behavior and trying to blame it on you, or she's just unstable and isn't able to handle the consequences of her own decisions.
Whatever. You need to have a talk about expectations and goals with your relationship and then figure out what to do based on the result of that. The way it sounds though, it seems like it would be a bad idea to disrupt your own plans for securing your future.
>>17473958
Dummy, they don't leave near each other. He's trying to figure out what her plans are and how they're going to change their long distance relationship back into one where they're near each other.
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>>17474011
Honestly the fact that she bashes these people and still stays with them bothers me greatly. It seems kind of shady. And I'm not gonna stand for her not showing much support.
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