How easy is it for you guys to keep a boner? I find that if I

>>17470785

my record is 2hours with multiple ejaculations without any cheaiting (viagra etc)

other times I just cant get it up. Depends on a day, mood and the girl.

Point is: If your little bro says you shouldnt be putting him in this hole he's probobly right.

>>17470810

but its really weird
on a mental level i consciously REALLY want to fuck + cuddle this person

but on a physical level things are challenging. not terrible, but challenging.

what could it mean???

>>17470815
How much porn do you watch?

>>17470821

very little.
I masturbate about once a weekish.

>>17470822
Hmm. Stage fright? Are these people you are comfortable with?

>>17470850
i dont think it was stage fright at first, but now that this has happened a few times i can feel myself getting more and more anxious about things

so it might be a mental thing now, but it definitely wasn't at first.

>>17470852
Yeah that definitely happens, it's a self fulfilling prophecy. I'd get some viagra, I wouldn't recommend using it as a young guy without real ED because of the side effects, but knowing that if you can't get it up you have a fool proof back up might take away the main nerves.

This is just a thought but could it possibly have to do with low blood pressure? Maybe I just said something really stupid... I'm no biologist it just seemed logical to me.

>>17470860

I actually happened to have my blood pressure checked this morning. Its 120 exactly, which is the textbook average.

And yeah, maybe viagra would be a good "safety net". can you just buy it over the counter or do you need a medical prescription?

>>17470864
I'm afraid that was my one shot. My gut feel is to say that you shouldn't really worry, though... I mean, it also differs from guy to guy whether they can go multiple times in a row, and how long it takes to potentially get hard again. That's just an individual thing as well.

Where I live it's a prescription drug, but I'd look it up, I'm sure that's not necessarily a worldwide thing. If you do need one you can ask what the doctor thinks of it, if it's someone you feel comfortable enough with.

>>17470864
Also wanted to add that if you're a smoker, or smoke a lot of weed/drink a lot of alcohol, that might also be a factor. If that's the case see if you can cut it out for a while to rule that out.

>>17470894

nah i dont do any of that

>>17470882

...do you think i have to tell my partner im gonna use viagra?

seems kind of emasculating really

Have the same. My wiener will go soft without physical stimulation. Sometimes it stays harder longer but it's random. I just accept that it is how my dick works and make the best of it. Just how it is.

>>17470898
Nah, it's personal. Besides, hopefully you won't actually need it and it's just the certainty that losing your boner is less bad now that takes some pressure off.

I lost a boner right before putting it into a girl I've been dating because she asked me if I had a condom. I didn't think about it before because it was the heat of the moment and I didn't have any. She then said it was okay because she was on birth control but it killed my boner and there was nothing that could bring it back that night. She felt bad and I felt bad but the next time she came over we did it without any issue. Just tell yourself this time you're going to keep the boner

For me it's completely dependant on my mood, and it changes day by day. Sometimes I can fuck all night, cum 3-5 times and still be ready to go again in 20 minutes. Other days I'll cum twice and not be able to get hard again for hours.

Take this as you will but another possible factor is that I almost never masterbate. Like maybe once every two weeks or so. But I have sex almost everyday, excluding when the gf is on her period of course.

I think it has a lot to do with your mental state to be honest, people say smoking and drinking can affect it but I do both and have never had issues because of it. Also it depends on the partner, the more you enjoy the sex and the more comfortable you are with them, the easier it'll be to get and maintain an erection.

All that being said, I'm not a doctor so what do I know?

>>17470785
That sounds perfectly normal. Just keep the condoms at hand instead of lost in some fucking sock drawers.

My dick boners up at random and stays there way longer than I want it to. Luckily I can just focus on it and it'll die down after a minute or two, but if I'm busy with something, I'm on show for everyone to see.

>>17470785
It's natural for erections to wax and wane, even during sexual intercourse. Don't worry about it. A lot of problems getting an erection and performance anxiety come from worrying about nothing.