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Can't git gud at anything

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>be 22y guy
> have a study, work, eat &sleep repeat routine which is tiring
>Seeking out new hobbies, failing at each other one by one

Can you anons tell me what to do to know what im good at? Mostly I feel I have no talent in anything at all. I've already tried and still trying many different hobbies, though i suck at everything which other people does without any problem. I feel like I'm just bad at everything.

Coding, dancing, playing instruments, acting, singing, surfing, writing, drawing... you name it.

The only thing I enjoy (and i can manage to do) is hiking through woods which requires no skill but only two fucking legs.

>Inb4 try harder

I know but observing as you gain little to no progress in something is not good for encourgament.
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Pretty much the same brother. I think it's just dedication. A lot of people have had their hobbies since they were little.

I'm still looking for something I really enjoy. I think we drop things because we're not actually interested in them and are just pursuing them as a way to make ourselves look like a more well rounded individual.
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>>17466984
If you enjoy hiking through the woods become extremely fucking knowledgeable about woodland. Take a book on plant identification with you and learn names, growth rates, soil types, leaves and poisons.

Maybe become a forester or get involved with a woodland preservation charity. Fuck working in an office, if you love the outdoors make the outdoors your skill.
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>>17466994
I'm going to reject your advice because in my country budget for foresters are really really low and some of the foresters take bribes for illegal logging to get by.
Also on a side note, it's so fucking mundane and dull, nobody will ever appreciate your work and I quit "le be urself!1" meme a long time ago. It doesnt work with the society im afraid.
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>>17467019
>wants a hobby
>wants to make money off of it

nigga do you know what a hobby even is

From the sound of your posts, I don't think your problem is inability or even laziness, but rather a lack of self confidence and an obsession over what others think of you. It DOESN'T MATTER if you are "good" at a hobby, only if you enjoy it. Hobbies are, by definition, pursued for their *own* sake, not for prestige or material gain. And, incidentally, if you pursue something for long enough, you WILL eventually git gud. But the key is enjoying the parts where you aren't good at it.
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>>17466984

everyone thinks they are like you. i fancy myself a writer and a filmmaker but all i see is shitty fucking films that will never amount to what other people are capable of and i just cant grasp it.

everyone feels that wa.y thats why your OP image exists.
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>>17467083
Well my main problem is If I'm not good at something, I don't enjoy it. Yeah it sounds so fucking lame I admit but I dunno how to change that.
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