Someone I considered a friend that I really admired chose to end our friendship back in March, and hasn't spoken to me since. All I did was try to become friends with someone they were friends with, and I expressed an interest in being involved in group activities with their group of friends.
I've since developed a deep loathing for them, I know its not healthy, but I can't seem to let go of my emotions. I feel that I was abandoned and betrayed just for wanting to be included and to make more friends. All I want to do is see them miserable. I've even thought about submitting a false report to their employer to get them fired.
How do I deal with these emotions? Continuing on like this can't be healthy. Pic unrelated.
>All I did was try to become friends with someone they were friends with, and I expressed an interest in being involved in group activities with their group of friends.
Somehow, I doubt that's the full story.
>>17465381
Really. That's all.
I was accused of trying to "poach" their friends. Whatever that means.
>>17465374
Pretty much went through the same thing, however the friends of the person saw that it was a shit thing to do and took my side. Best way to get over these emotions though would be to replace the friend with someone else, you'll still dislike them, but not to the same extent.